Bisexual

a month ago I had sex with a friend we used protection and neither of us got off. He said we were to stay just friends but now asked if I am on birth control and hinted of wanting a BJ. I only wanted sex and wouldn’t mind doing it again but I thought it was done with. I can’t get pregnant from oral so why would he ask if I was on birth control?

I made a new lesbian friend that is in a relationship. I am a married bisexual that sleeps with women. I wanted to sleep with the friend but didn't say anything when the other girlfriend found out i was bi and had a three way with a different lesbian couple she asked what i would think if they had wanted a threesome. Of course I was like yeah. I went over one night nothing happened when I went to give them a kiss they said no.... then they said they were just shy. But now that I try to hang out they don't try only talk over the phone. What's up with that I am really confused.