Clive

one thing that girls always tell me is that they want guys who can appreciate them,love them,responsible and so on,but in the end,the end up with guys who are alcoholic,rich(most of the time,in my case :(

drives cars and hot like in the magazines!

i don't get it,what do these women really talking about???

i like a traditional woman,that knows how to cook,loves kids,go to church,and can be engaged in intellectual topics,but so far,to no avail,:(

how??how??

how to solve the mystery that swirls around women???

i'm always a subject to tease,insult and taunt when i'm hanging out with my friends.what should i do?

when this happened,i usually resorted to isolate myself and refuse to be with them for awhile?is that the right thing to do?i mean,i tried talking to them,but i guess,to no avail.and i hate it!

my friends called me weird for telling them that i've started saving for my wedding day.well,the thing is,i was shopping for a tuxedo the other day,for a dinner,and while looking for it,i notice that the price for one is very expensive.and when i thought about it,hey,for my wedding later,it will b more expensive!!!have to buy my bride's gown,the rings,the decors at church etc etc..get the picture?

and i really don want to ruin the special day and my to-be-wife's day(though no gf yet:P)

but getting married and have kids and stuff are what i've been looking forward to in life,so,i really don want to mess it up.

i think my friends think it's weird cuz im just 20 and i'm planning to settle down some 7 years later.(first,i need to find a girl,lol)

How can I find the right girl for me?

I find it difficult to find a girl who loves children,love to start a family,love to be engaged in intellectual debates,love cooking and religious...well,at least at my place that is.

what should I do?

ok,there's this girl at church that I always see,not talk,not meet,but see during mass every Sunday.Somehow,whenever I see her,I feel nervous and start worrying myself about how I look,what I should do to let her know that I'm there.And when mass is finished,all of us usually have a coffee and light breakfast before heading back.And there again,I just stood at the corner of the room,and scared to make any move towards her.I've never felt this way before.How do I handle these kinds of situations?What should I do so that she knows that I'm exist?What to do so that I can talk to her?Know her?I'm just so clueless!please,help me!