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How would you define "clingy" or "sticky" as in a person?

I hung around a particular boy during a camping trip for 2 days and considered we were friends, then when we came back he seemed to be avoiding me. Then I realised - maybe was it the fact that I was too "clingy" since I was around him a lot? A whole evening/night and the following morning/noon. Would that be a lot for a guy?

Now at school I'm always trying to run into him in the hallways and say hi and things like that...would that be "sticky" or "clingy"? I don't think I've had this issue with other guys...

Would it help if I just gave him some space? I understand that girls - well, they need personal space, but they don't seem to mind you being around a lot that much...but boys seem to be a completely different specie, especially teenage boys...so I have no clue...(Although he did hang around me a lot too, those two days, so it's even more confusing!)...

How would you define "clingy" or "sticky" as in a person?

I hung around a particular boy during a camping trip for a whole day and thought we were friends, then when we came back he seemed to be avoiding me. Then I realised - maybe was it the fact that I was too "clingy" since I was around him a lot? A whole evening/night and the following morning/noon. Would that be a lot for guys?

Now at school I'm always trying to run into him in the hallways and say hi and things like that...would that be "sticky" or "clingy"? I don't think I've had this issue with other guys...

Would it help if I just gave him some space? I understand that girls - well, they need personal space, but they don't seem to mind you being around a lot that much...but boys seem to be a completely different specie, especially teenage boys...so I have no clue...(Although he did hang around me a lot too, those two days, so it's even more confusing!)...

How are you supposed to move on with your life if the only person on earth you wanted to talk to doesn't notice you and forgets that you exist? How do people move on so quickly like that and forget about you when you can't sleep or eat or do anything because you're still hanging on to them? Is it normal to feel this way? A few weeks ago when I was on a field trip I talked to a guy quite a lot and thought we were friends though the trip was 2 days. Now we've been back at school for weeks he never seems to notice me and he forgot I exist. I try saying hi passing by but he seems awfully distracted all the time. I think the 1st time he actually noticed me was last week, we probably stared at each other for a minute and that was it. It bugs the heck out of me to see him every day from a distance of 20 yds since where we eat lunch is 20 yds away and not be able to say hi because whenever I try to talk to him it ends up really awkward since he seems to be living in a different world. I don't know if it's because he's too smart. It just seems like everyone including him has their own lives and I don't. Why do people just move on and forget you like that? It sounds like a stupid Romeo-and-Juliet story lasting 2 days but I learned a lot from him in 2 days & he was a valuable friend. he's the only one worth talking to in my life. I don't talk much to others I talked to on the trip anymore but I thought he was different. maybe not. I'm failing math, can't eat or sleep. Am I still sane?

How are you supposed to move on with your life if the only person on earth you wanted to talk to doesn't notice you and forgets that you exist? How do people move on so quickly like that and forget about you when you can't sleep or eat or do anything because you're still hanging on to them? Is it normal to feel this way? A few weeks ago when I was on a field trip I talked to a guy quite a lot and thought we were friends though the trip was 2 days. Now we've been back at school for weeks he never seems to notice me and he forgot I exist. I try saying hi passing by but he seems awfully distracted all the time. I think the 1st time he actually noticed me was last week, we probably stared at each other for a minute and that was it. It bugs the heck out of me to see him every day from a distance of 20 yds since where we eat lunch is 20 yds away and not be able to say hi because whenever I try to talk to him it ends up really awkward since he seems to be living in a different world. I don't know if it's because he's too smart. It just seems like everyone including him has their own lives and I don't. Why do people just move on and forget you like that? It sounds like a stupid Romeo-and-Juliet story lasting 2 days but I learned a lot from him in 2 days & he was a valuable friend. he's the only one worth talking to in my life. I don't talk much to others I talked to on the trip anymore but I thought he was different. maybe not. I'm failing math, can't eat or sleep. Am I still sane?

How are you supposed to move on with your life if the only person on earth you wanted to talk to doesn't notice you and forgets that you exist? How do people move on so quickly like that and forget about you when you can't sleep or eat or do anything because you're still hanging on to them? Is it normal to feel this way? A few weeks ago when I was on a field trip I talked to a guy quite a lot and thought we were friends though the trip was 2 days. Now we've been back at school for weeks he never seems to notice me and he forgot I exist. I try saying hi passing by but he seems awfully distracted all the time. I think the 1st time he actually noticed me was last week, we probably stared at each other for a minute and that was it. It bugs the heck out of me to see him every day from a distance of 20 yds since where we eat lunch is 20 yds away and not be able to say hi because whenever I try to talk to him it ends up really awkward since he seems to be living in a different world. I don't know if it's because he's too smart. It just seems like everyone including him has their own lives and I don't. Why do people just move on and forget you like that? It sounds like a stupid Romeo-and-Juliet story lasting 2 days but I learned a lot from him in 2 days & he was a valuable friend. he's the only one worth talking to in my life. I don't talk much to others I talked to on the trip anymore but I thought he was different. maybe not. I'm failing math, can't eat or sleep. Am I still sane?

They say that some things are just meant to be a passing moment in life, as in they just come and go with the wind and they're not meant to last. Like people - there have been so many people that just decide to randomly show up in your life and then leave you and go find someone else. Why do people keep doing this to me?

I went on a trip, spent 2 days talking to a guy that I found extremely intelligent, funny, talented, admirable, considered us "friends" as we got along well, joked around, had a bunch of fun together on the trip, but when we got back to school it's as if we're strangers again, and he barely notices me. It really hurts since even though it wasn't a long time, it still meant a lot to me, he's the only thing I've got as a true friend. Now he's disappeared, I can't sleep or think correctly.

How do you forget everything & not grow emotionally attached to someone you shared half of your life with and hugged? He seems to just have moved on - which I don't get. Why couldn't we still be friends? I really just wanted to be good friends with someone worth talking to rather than the bunch of immature idiots I'm stuck with at school. It's not a Romeo-and-Juliet thing where you fall in love in 2 days, but I feel it was enough time to actually become good friends.

I really thought I had made a true friend for the first time in life. Maybe I was wrong - again. Why does life always work this way? It seems like I'm cursed to spend my life in solitude, misery, isolation.

They say that some things are just meant to be a passing moment in life, as in they just come and go with the wind and they're not meant to last. Like people - there have been so many people that just decide to randomly show up in your life and then leave you and go find someone else. Why do people keep doing this to me?

I went on a trip, spent 2 days talking to a guy that I found extremely intelligent, funny, talented, admirable, considered us "friends" as we got along well, joked around, had a bunch of fun together on the trip, but when we got back to school it's as if we're strangers again, and he barely notices me. It really hurts since even though it wasn't a long time, it still meant a lot to me, he's the only thing I've got as a true friend. Now he's disappeared, I can't sleep or think correctly.

How do you forget everything & not grow emotionally attached to someone you shared half of your life with and hugged? He seems to just have moved on - which I don't get. Why couldn't we still be friends? I really just wanted to be good friends with someone worth talking to rather than the bunch of immature idiots I'm stuck with at school. It's not a Romeo-and-Juliet thing where you fall in love in 2 days, but I feel it was enough time to actually become good friends.

I really thought I had made a true friend for the first time in life. Maybe I was wrong - again. Why does life always work this way? It seems like I'm cursed to spend my life in solitude, misery, isolation.

Does anyone know what this monologue is from? Title & what it's from

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yRuiavPvS5o at 13:57

Thanks!

It sounds like a stupid question but really why don't kids have the ability to do as they please,go wherever they want,do whatever they want with absolute freedom? Why do we have to wait until 18 when we're too old to do anything we want? Why is 18 the magic number? Really, I would go out and live on my own if I could, but the fact is I can't drive until another 2yrs, I'm stuck in this stupid place for what seems like a miserable eternity. I can't get along with my sister who is 6 and though there's a big age gap and I should be the "nice, generous, big sister" it's not possible. I don't care if i'm 7 yrs older I never really wanted a sister,I don't like the task/responsibility/work of being an older sister as much as I despise math homework. Ever since she came along my parents always babied her,spoiled her and I was expected to be "mature/generous" and let her have everything first and blah,now she's a spoiled brat that only thinks of herself and they blame me and say I'm spoiled and immature. so no one wants to fix the issue,she's just going to be spoiled and annoying for eternity.

I accidentally shut the car door on her hand,she was making a big deal of it though it was just a little red (I didn't shut it completely)now everyone's mad at me,saying I should get out cause I'm not feeling sorry because I'm tired of how they're always yelling at me for everything I know it's my fault but I can't do anything, i still have to beg them for stuff I want to do.

What do I do?

I'm 14 and have taken beginning ballet a few years ago, I plan on starting again and might start in beginning, though hopefully intermediate. The studio offers pre-pointe and I'm not sure when I'll be ready for that. I stretch and practice every day and I fee I have strong ankles/leg muscles (I swim & run too). I'm hoping to go into pointe in two years since I won't have time after I go into college. Could this possibly work? I'm going to talk to my teacher and see which level would better fit me, so I'm not sure right now but I'm working on double pirouettes and triple fouettes and that sort of stuff. Maybe the years don't add up to a lot but I'm building strong technique now and I plan on taking multiple classes per week.

Thanks!

Nothing has ever bugged me as bad as the stupid, bad choices I made as a stupid 6-yr-old, you'd imagine there's nothing to screw up on then - no, it's possible - I'm a living example. I understand what they always say, the past is the past and you can't change anything so you just have to learn to accept it and move on. and no, I didn't answer my own question. I mean how to be HAPPY again, trying to live with all this regret and hatred towards yourself and even guilt.

I didn't know what I wanted to do when I was 6, that's why now I feel talentless and stupid while everyone else has been dancing or swimming or playing soccer since they were 6, and now they'll all good at something. I was stupid and didn't like anything, now I'm 13 and know I love dance and figure skating and all but it's too late since there's only a few years before I have to go to college and drop everything. I won't ever see my dream of being good at anyone of those and feel terrible ... I can't get over this and it's driving me insane. Even when I said "Ok, I'll drop what I can't do anymore because it's too late," I didn't say it happily and when I told myself I was done and over it, I was still angry and miserable. There seems to be no end and I know all I want to do is correct it and keep going. I just want to do those things that make me happy - whatever it takes. I don't care. I just want to be happy.

Any advice on getting over it all - truly getting over it and finding happiness and hope again?

I know all the basic positions (1,2,3,4,5) and tendus, frappés, developpes, ronde de jambe, chaînés, pas de bourrée, grand battements, chassé, grand jetes, and am very flexible and my splits are all fine, I can do the scorpion, and glissade, sissone, échappe, arabesques, pique turns, and am cleaning up my double pirouette & can do 3-4 fouettés. I'm working on the grand pas de chat and arabesque penchée. I'm hoping to be in the Intermediate class. Is this enough & what else do I need to work on? How long do I have to train before going into pointe? I'd like to start pre-pointe as soon as possible ... I'm 13 & basically need a little refresher (I stopped for a few years, used to take ballet)

Thanks!

I'm 13 & stopped ballet for a few years (started at 5) and am currently working on some basic steps to prepare as I want to go into Intermediate. I know all the basic positions (1,2,3,4,5) and tendus/frappés/developpes/ronde de jambe/retire/chaînés/pas de bourrée/grand battements/chassé/grand jetes and am very flexible (my toes can touch my head when I'm doing the basket) and my splits are all fine, I can also do the scorpion. I can also do glissade, sissone, échappe, arabesques, pique turns, and am cleaning up my double pirouette & can do 3-4 fouettes. I'm working on the grand pas de chat and arabesque penchée too. I've been practically these daily for a while am hoping to be in the Intermediate class. Is this enough & what else do I need to work on? I've looked at some terminology & ballet terms. Are there any other things I should look at so I'll be prepared? And when will I be ready for pointe/how long do I have to be in Intermediate/Advanced before pointe? (I can stay on my tiptoes without pointe shoes!)

Thanks!

Do you have to pass Free skate 3 - 4 (in Basic Skills) before you can start competing in qualifying (or non-qualifying)? Do you need to pass any other tests before starting pair skate (for USFSA)? I'm assuming to start you need to start with Basic Skills? How long would all this take to complete before actually starting competition? I would say I'm at Free Skate 2-3 level though I've stopped lessons for a few years, but I'm getting back at it.

I've never been to a competition before so I'm just trying to get to know a bit before making a decision to start.

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I'm trying to get an idea of what figure skating competitions are like. I've never been to one before and I really want to start competing, I'm 13 - is it too late to compete and any advice? How many hours would you need to practice each week? I started figure skating at 5 but stopped for a few years so I need a refresher and perhaps start private lessons

First of all: I'm 13 and I've figure skated since I was 5 but stopped for a few years and want to go back & skate competitively, it is too late? Second: how many hours would you need to practice per week? I live 45 min away from the rink and am going to high school, it would be hard to go every day. Is 4-5 times a week enough (5-6 hours)? And finally: what is competition really like? My mom thinks I'm too late since I see girls that start competition at 5 or 8, and that I've never been to a competition. I know you need a coach and private training, which I plan on if I can start again. I can do all the basics really well, like crossovers and jumps and spins (I still need to improve my scratch spin) and have been working on my axel. Is it really too late or I could still get into competition with more effort than everyone else? *I'm not starting completely over, just need a little refresher since it's been a few years since I took lessons

I know I sound too optimistic, that's why I need to hear some advice from others to balance it out:)

Thanks!

Just wondering ... seems like it might work (covering bumps and zits)

Is there anywhere where you can get really thick foundation? I have a bunch of pimples on my forehead and regular foundation doesn't cover them because they still stick out, so does anyone know of a place where you can get very thick foundation so the entire thing can be covered? I don't really like powder either since it wears off at the end of the day and doesn't last very long. If there's some sort of foundation that's part powder and part crème, and really thick ... I don't mean concealer, because that stuff isn't very thick either, and it's not very helpful.

People always say it's never too late to start anything, but my parents don't want to help me with starting acting since they think I'm too old and it's a waste of time. lots of people know since very young that they want to do something specific and I only just realized I really want to do acting (I'm 13) and my parents are repeatedly telling me it's too late, and that I won't have enough time to start over because of college. I can't imagine anything else I'd want to do and I know it's not going to get me a living but at least now that I still have some time I want to get trained and experience but my parents aren't for it and they keep saying they don't know if I'm talented (they probably don't think so just because I wasn't "discovered" at age 4) so I don't know where to start. Plus I have a lot of other out-of-school stuff though I'd really rather do acting.

Is there any advice on what I can start doing before I'm 18 and it's completely too late? there aren't any local theatres/organizations/programs that I can do. there's a school drama class but I don't think it's going to get me much farther than now.

*I'm not aiming to be a professional actress at Hollywood or something, it's just something I want to do alongside a different profession

I dyed my hair from dark brown to a reddish brown and left it in for forty five minutes and then washed it out, and nothing changed at all. does it instantly change your hair colour magically or does it take a few days before the colour actually sets in and changes your old colour?

and any advice if it's supposed to change it instantly ...since that didn't happen for me?