Adam H

Ok. First a short history about this girl:

So there's this girl I like in this Meet Up group I go to every once and awhile. Over the summer, I went to a Meet Up group where a bunch of us met to go see a movie. She was the first person I met and we hit it off right away. But since it was a Meet Up group and not a dating thing, I didn't feel comfortable asking her out. Plus I didn't know her situation. Then I don't see her again...

...meanwhile, I can't get her off my mind. But I let life move on.

...almost 3 mths later, I join a Meet-Up runners group just because I think it would be fun. And guess who's there? The same girl! And she remembers me. We run and talk and are silly just like on that movie thing. I hesitate again asking her because I wasn't sure if she was seeing anyone or not.

So just today, I see that she's added herself to Plenty of Fish. So the only thing really holding me back is answered.

My question is this: Do I message her on PoF to say "Hey" and ask her out? Or wait til the next running group and do it in person...which is about 5 days away?

I'm leaning towards the running group and waiting because it's personal...but it's awhile...and she'd no doubt get tons of messages from dudes online.

Thoughts?

Thanks!