Sean Aldean

Hi, I'm a 21 year old college student and this past summer, I reconnected with a girl I knew from high school and have known since we were little kids. We didn't talk as much and weren't as close until we reconnected, and we've gotten to hang out and she's come and visited me and my roommates once as well this semester.

Anyway, since we've been talking, I realize how much we have in common. I almost told her how I felt over the summer, but we both got busy with work and couldn't hang out again, so I didn't get a chance to tell her. Now, we talked about me visiting her school and while we were talking she brought up a dance she wants to go to. She said that she hopes she can find someone to hang out with her. Of course, I said that if she can't find anyone to go with it would be fun for me to come and visit as well as go to the dance with her, and she said that would be fun and she'd let me know.

I haven't been great with girls in the past, and I've dealt well enough with rejection, but I've never told a friend I'm close to that I like them, especially since she's friends with my roommates too. I know this is a "what if", but if she does ask if I want to go and I do go, what should I do then? Obviously I would make the dance fun for her and show her a good time, pay for anything, open doors, those kinds of things. I'm just wondering if I should tell her how I feel. Maybe if she has had fun, tell her at the end of the night and see what happens? I'm not sure, any ideas/suggestions would be helpful! :)

Also, I think it's possible she could like me a little, over the summer I thought I received hints that she could. She's never talked about boys in front of me, so it's a small possibility. She's very pretty and so nice and we have a lot in common so it would be great to be able to tell her. If anyone could please give advice on what to do or say or how to proceed with things, I'd really appreciate it! Thank you guys! :)

TL;DR - this girl I like and have known for a long time is having a dance and there's a chance we could go together, should I tell her how I feel if we go together? Any suggestions/advice welcome!

Hi, I'm a 21 year old college student and this past summer, I reconnected with a girl I knew from high school and have known since we were little kids. We didn't talk as much and weren't as close until we reconnected, and we've gotten to hang out and she's come and visited me and my roommates once as well this semester.

Anyway, since we've been talking, I realize how much we have in common. I almost told her how I felt over the summer, but we both got busy with work and couldn't hang out again, so I didn't get a chance to tell her. Now, we talked about me visiting her school and while we were talking she brought up a dance she wants to go to. She said that she hopes she can find someone to hang out with her. Of course, I said that if she can't find anyone to go with it would be fun for me to come and visit as well as go to the dance with her, and she said that would be fun and she'd let me know.

I haven't been great with girls in the past, and I've dealt well enough with rejection, but I've never told a friend I'm close to that I like them, especially since she's friends with my roommates too. I know this is a "what if", but if she does ask if I want to go and I do go, what should I do then? Obviously I would make the dance fun for her and show her a good time, pay for anything, open doors, those kinds of things. I'm just wondering if I should tell her how I feel. Maybe if she has had fun, tell her at the end of the night and see what happens? I'm not sure, any ideas/suggestions would be helpful! :)

Also, I think it's possible she could like me a little, over the summer I thought I received hints that she could. She's never talked about boys in front of me, so it's a small possibility. She's very pretty and so nice and we have a lot in common so it would be great to be able to tell her. If anyone could please give advice on what to do or say or how to proceed with things, I'd really appreciate it! Thank you guys! :)

TL;DR - this girl I like and have known for a long time is having a dance and there's a chance we could go together, should I tell her how I feel if we go together? Any suggestions/advice welcome!

Hi, I'm a 21 year old college student and this past summer, I reconnected with a girl I knew from high school and have known since we were little kids. We didn't talk as much and weren't as close until we reconnected, and we've gotten to hang out and she's come and visited me and my roommates once as well this semester.

Anyway, since we've been talking, I realize how much we have in common. I almost told her how I felt over the summer, but we both got busy with work and couldn't hang out again, so I didn't get a chance to tell her. Now, we talked about me visiting her school and while we were talking she brought up a dance she wants to go to. She said that she hopes she can find someone to hang out with her. Of course, I said that if she can't find anyone to go with it would be fun for me to come and visit as well as go to the dance with her, and she said that would be fun and she'd let me know.

I haven't been great with girls in the past, and I've dealt well enough with rejection, but I've never told a friend I'm close to that I like them, especially since she's friends with my roommates too. I know this is a "what if", but if she does ask if I want to go and I do go, what should I do then? Obviously I would make the dance fun for her and show her a good time, pay for anything, open doors, those kinds of things. I'm just wondering if I should tell her how I feel. Maybe if she has had fun, tell her at the end of the night and see what happens? I'm not sure, any ideas/suggestions would be helpful! :)

Also, I think it's possible she could like me a little, over the summer I thought I received hints that she could. She's never talked about boys in front of me, so it's a small possibility. She's very pretty and so nice and we have a lot in common so it would be great to be able to tell her. If anyone could please give advice on what to do or say or how to proceed with things, I'd really appreciate it! Thank you guys! :)

TL;DR - this girl I like and have known for a long time is having a dance and there's a chance we could go together, should I tell her how I feel if we go together? Any suggestions/advice welcome!

Hi, last night I woke up at 4am and was suddenly gasping for air. I had to get out of bed and drink some water, and after a minute or so I was back to normal. I also woke up this morning with an extremely dry throat. I did eat something pretty salty a little but before bed, could going to bed on a full stomach like that have anything to do with it? My father also has mild sleep apnea, so I'm hoping it would not be that, but I am not sure. All answers welcome, thank you

Hi, I'm 20 years old and in my second year in college. I've been friends with this girl for a while, since freshman year of high school, so five years. About a couple weeks into the college semester this year, she stopped answering me when I would call or try to reach her. We've always talked throughout the year about once a week, or once every couple weeks around finals or something. This was September I think, and since then I've only heard from her like two or three times, only one text at a time.

I have noo idea what's going on. She does have a boyfriend but she always has a boyfriend honestly, and she says she's busy but our winter break just happened, so there was no way she was busy the whole time, even with her boyfriend here. And to clarify, we've never had a romantic thing, and I'm not romantically interested in her now. I just want my friend back. I would be okay with her shutting me out if I knew why, but there's nothing I can think of that I did. I actually got her a shirt for Christmas and a little container of cookies we make for the holidays. However, I did that more for myself to make her feel bad. I know it wasn't with the best intentions, but it made me feel better, at least a little.

I'm deciding if I should try and reach out to her again, because I've tried a lot so far. I've texted, called, and Facebook messaged her, but a lot less in the past few months and not at all since Christmas. I've never brought up how she's hurt me, so I'm considering doing that. That way, even if she doesn't ever talk to me again, she'll know she can't do that to people in the future who consider her friends. I don't consider her my friend anymore, because there is no way anyone can have zero time for friends in five months. Besides, I can see she's seen other friends over the holidays, so again, no excuse she couldn't see me.

Please help me out: what should I do, should I reach out to her again, and if I do what could I say? Also, why do you think she's acting this way? Thank you, it means a lot you've helped

Hi, I'm 20 years old and in my second year in college. I've been friends with this girl for a while, since freshman year of high school, so five years. About a couple weeks into the college semester this year, she stopped answering me when I would call or try to reach her. We've always talked throughout the year about once a week, or once every couple weeks around finals or something. This was September I think, and since then I've only heard from her like two or three times, only one text at a time.

I have noo idea what's going on. She does have a boyfriend but she always has a boyfriend honestly, and she says she's busy but our winter break just happened, so there was no way she was busy the whole time, even with her boyfriend here. And to clarify, we've never had a romantic thing, and I'm not romantically interested in her now. I just want my friend back. I would be okay with her shutting me out if I knew why, but there's nothing I can think of that I did. I actually got her a shirt for Christmas and a little container of cookies we make for the holidays. However, I did that more for myself to make her feel bad. I know it wasn't with the best intentions, but it made me feel better, at least a little.

I'm deciding if I should try and reach out to her again, because I've tried a lot so far. I've texted, called, and Facebook messaged her, but a lot less in the past few months and not at all since Christmas. I've never brought up how she's hurt me, so I'm considering doing that. That way, even if she doesn't ever talk to me again, she'll know she can't do that to people in the future who consider her friends. I don't consider her my friend anymore, because there is no way anyone can have zero time for friends in five months. Besides, I can see she's seen other friends over the holidays, so again, no excuse she couldn't see me.

Please help me out: what should I do, should I reach out to her again, and if I do what could I say? Also, why do you think she's acting this way? Thank you, it means a lot you've helped

Hi, I'm 20 years old and in my second year in college. I've been friends with this girl for a while, since freshman year of high school, so five years. About a couple weeks into the college semester this year, she stopped answering me when I would call or try to reach her. We've always talked throughout the year about once a week, or once every couple weeks around finals or something. This was September I think, and since then I've only heard from her like two or three times, only one text at a time.

I have noo idea what's going on. She does have a boyfriend but she always has a boyfriend honestly, and she says she's busy but our winter break just happened, so there was no way she was busy the whole time, even with her boyfriend here. And to clarify, we've never had a romantic thing, and I'm not romantically interested in her now. I just want my friend back. I would be okay with her shutting me out if I knew why, but there's nothing I can think of that I did. I actually got her a shirt for Christmas and a little container of cookies we make for the holidays. However, I did that more for myself to make her feel bad. I know it wasn't with the best intentions, but it made me feel better, at least a little.

I'm deciding if I should try and reach out to her again, because I've tried a lot so far. I've texted, called, and Facebook messaged her, but a lot less in the past few months and not at all since Christmas. I've never brought up how she's hurt me, so I'm considering doing that. That way, even if she doesn't ever talk to me again, she'll know she can't do that to people in the future who consider her friends. I don't consider her my friend anymore, because there is no way anyone can have zero time for friends in five months. Besides, I can see she's seen other friends over the holidays, so again, no excuse she couldn't see me.

Please help me out: what should I do, should I reach out to her again, and if I do what could I say? Also, why do you think she's acting this way? Thank you, it means a lot you've helped

Hi, I'm 20 years old and in my second year in college. I've been friends with this girl for a while, since freshman year of high school, so five years. About a couple weeks into the college semester this year, she stopped answering me when I would call or try to reach her. We've always talked throughout the year about once a week, or once every couple weeks around finals or something. This was September I think, and since then I've only heard from her like two or three times, only one text at a time.

I have noo idea what's going on. She does have a boyfriend but she always has a boyfriend honestly, and she says she's busy but our winter break just happened, so there was no way she was busy the whole time, even with her boyfriend here. And to clarify, we've never had a romantic thing, and I'm not romantically interested in her now. I just want my friend back. I would be okay with her shutting me out if I knew why, but there's nothing I can think of that I did. I actually got her a shirt for Christmas and a little container of cookies we make for the holidays. However, I did that more for myself to make her feel bad. I know it wasn't with the best intentions, but it made me feel better, at least a little.

I'm deciding if I should try and reach out to her again, because I've tried a lot so far. I've texted, called, and Facebook messaged her, but a lot less in the past few months and not at all since Christmas. I've never brought up how she's hurt me, so I'm considering doing that. That way, even if she doesn't ever talk to me again, she'll know she can't do that to people in the future who consider her friends. I don't consider her my friend anymore, because there is no way anyone can have zero time for friends in five months. Besides, I can see she's seen other friends over the holidays, so again, no excuse she couldn't see me.

Please help me out: what should I do, should I reach out to her again, and if I do what could I say? Also, why do you think she's acting this way? Thank you, it means a lot you've helped

Hi everyone. I'm currently in a long distance relationship with a girl I met on the Internet. I'm 20, she's 17, and we've been dating for about a month as talking for over three months. The past few weeks though have been not so good, and maybe even since I asked her to be my girlfriend. We've been somewhat arguing about how she doesn't really seem to talk to me as much as before, whereas I put as much time as possible into our relationship. A few days ago, she told me this guy who she used to have a thing with kissed her. I told her it was ok, and she said she didn't kiss him back and she slapped him. But then the next day she said they had a talk about everything, and I kept my mouth shut again. Because whenever I bring up stuff like her not having time for me, or anything that could cause conflict, she gets upset at me and she says that I sound like she's not trying hard enough, And I've always told her its alright, and I'm sorry. I'm sorry? I mean I really really like her but I feel like enough is enough. I'm exhausted from all of this and I'm upset. That's why I think I should break it off..what do you think, should I do it or not, and why? Thanks for the answers

Hi everyone. I'm currently in a long distance relationship with a girl I met on the Internet. I'm 20, she's 17, and we've been dating for about a month as talking for over three months. The past few weeks though have been not so good, and maybe even since I asked her to be my girlfriend. We've been somewhat arguing about how she doesn't really seem to talk to me as much as before, whereas I put as much time as possible into our relationship. A few days ago, she told me this guy who she used to have a thing with kissed her. I told her it was ok, and she said she didn't kiss him back and she slapped him. But then the next day she said they had a talk about everything, and I kept my mouth shut again. Because whenever I bring up stuff like her not having time for me, or anything that could cause conflict, she gets upset at me and she says that I sound like she's not trying hard enough, And I've always told her its alright, and I'm sorry. I'm sorry? I mean I really really like her but I feel like enough is enough. I'm exhausted from all of this and I'm upset. That's why I think I should break it off..what do you think, should I do it or not, and why? Thanks for the answers

Well, where should I start..I'm a 20 year old guy in college, and the last couple months I've been talking to this girl I met online. We recently made it "official", and now we're in a long distance relationship. She's a little younger than me, she's 17, please no hate for that, we would wanna wait until marriage to do anything sexual anyway. Well before I asked her to be my girlfriend everything was perfect, and the past few weeks have been really off. Like she's become really busy, we used to talk for hours a day, and now we might talk like half an hour or an hour, and the past week I didn't talk to her for two days, I feel like she's too busy for me. And I do everything in my power to make her happy, I've sung to her, made her cards when she's sick, I love her with all my heart and she knows that. I just don't feel like she appreciates what I do for her. She says she isn't the best telling me her feelings, but I'm just exhausted by feeling sorta unappreciated :( I know she's busy, but even a text here and there throughout the day would make me so happy, I don't ask for much and I do what I do for her because I love her. But also, today she told me this one kid who she has a history with kissed her. And even though she pushed away and slapped him, it hurts..if something like that happened to me, I'd be begging her to forgive me, and she seemed sorry, just..I don't know, I feel like I'm more into her than she's into me a lot of the time. Like if she really loved me, don't you think she'd make time for me no matter what? I just don't know..I'm really upset about everything, especially about that kid kissing her :( and I don't wanna tell her any of this, because it always seems to come back at me, like she thinks that I wanna break up if I say something like that, so I don't wanna make her upset. And I'm not the best with girls, I'd never break up with her because I know she does love me, I just don't know how to talk to her about all this, so any ideas, thoughts, anything that could help me are appreciated. Thanks, it means a lot

Update: I started talking to her and she got really defensive and said I'm sounding like she doesn't try hard enough in the relationship. I don't know what to do, I do feel that way but i feel like if I say it she'll get even more mad. And that doesn't make sense to me, because what reason does she have for getting mad at me? :( any help is appreciated

Well, where should I start..I'm a 20 year old guy in college, and the last couple months I've been talking to this girl I met online. We recently made it "official", and now we're in a long distance relationship. She's a little younger than me, she's 17, please no hate for that, we would wanna wait until marriage to do anything sexual anyway. Well before I asked her to be my girlfriend everything was perfect, and the past few weeks have been really off. Like she's become really busy, we used to talk for hours a day, and now we might talk like half an hour or an hour, and the past week I didn't talk to her for two days, I feel like she's too busy for me. And I do everything in my power to make her happy, I've sung to her, made her cards when she's sick, I love her with all my heart and she knows that. I just don't feel like she appreciates what I do for her. She says she isn't the best telling me her feelings, but I'm just exhausted by feeling sorta unappreciated :( I know she's busy, but even a text here and there throughout the day would make me so happy, I don't ask for much and I do what I do for her because I love her. But also, today she told me this one kid who she has a history with kissed her. And even though she pushed away and slapped him, it hurts..if something like that happened to me, I'd be begging her to forgive me, and she seemed sorry, just..I don't know, I feel like I'm more into her than she's into me a lot of the time. Like if she really loved me, don't you think she'd make time for me no matter what? I just don't know..I'm really upset about everything, especially about that kid kissing her :( and I don't wanna tell her any of this, because it always seems to come back at me, like she thinks that I wanna break up if I say something like that, so I don't wanna make her upset. And I'm not the best with girls, I'd never break up with her because I know she does love me, I just don't know how to talk to her about all this, so any ideas, thoughts, anything that could help me are appreciated. Thanks, it means a lot

Well, where should I start..I'm a 20 year old guy in college, and the last couple months I've been talking to this girl I met online. We recently made it "official", and now we're in a long distance relationship. She's a little younger than me, she's 17, please no hate for that, we would wanna wait until marriage to do anything sexual anyway. Well before I asked her to be my girlfriend everything was perfect, and the past few weeks have been really off. Like she's become really busy, we used to talk for hours a day, and now we might talk like half an hour or an hour, and the past week I didn't talk to her for two days, I feel like she's too busy for me. And I do everything in my power to make her happy, I've sung to her, made her cards when she's sick, I love her with all my heart and she knows that. I just don't feel like she appreciates what I do for her. She says she isn't the best telling me her feelings, but I'm just exhausted by feeling sorta unappreciated :( I know she's busy, but even a text here and there throughout the day would make me so happy, I don't ask for much and I do what I do for her because I love her. But also, today she told me this one kid who she has a history with kissed her. And even though she pushed away and slapped him, it hurts..if something like that happened to me, I'd be begging her to forgive me, and she seemed sorry, just..I don't know, I feel like I'm more into her than she's into me a lot of the time. Like if she really loved me, don't you think she'd make time for me no matter what? I just don't know..I'm really upset about everything, especially about that kid kissing her :( and I don't wanna tell her any of this, because it always seems to come back at me, like I wanna break up if I say something like that, so I don't wanna make her upset. And I'm not the best with girls, I'd never break up with her because I know she does love me, I just don't know how to talk to her about all this, so any ideas, thoughts, anything that could help me are appreciated. Thanks, it means a lot

Hi everyone, I'm a 20 year old college student, and I think I'm having issues with the girl I'm seeing. They aren't really issues, but just things that are bothering me I guess. We met a couple months ago, and we did meet on a chat site. She's a couple years younger than me, and she's almost done with high school while I'm in college. We live pretty far apart, too far to drive. Recently, I asked her to be my girlfriend, even though all it would've done is put a label on our relationship, and she said yes. But the past couple weeks I feel like she's been too busy for me. We talk every day and things were perfect until a couple weeks ago. Now we aren't talking as much and I sometimes wonder if committing this much was the right thing to do, when I could be seeing girls from my college who I'd get to see and physically be with. What should I do, am I a bad person for thinking this or do I have a point? And what would you suggest doing if you were me? Thank you, I appreciate it

Hi everyone, I'm a 20 year old college student, and I think I'm having issues with the girl I'm seeing. They aren't really issues, but just things that are bothering me I guess. We met a couple months ago, and we did meet on a chat site. She's a couple years younger than me, and she's almost done with high school while I'm in college. We live pretty far apart, too far to drive. Recently, I asked her to be my girlfriend, even though all it would've done is put a label on our relationship, and she said yes. But the past couple weeks I feel like she's been too busy for me. We talk every day and things were perfect until a couple weeks ago. Now we aren't talking as much and I sometimes wonder if committing this much was the right thing to do, when I could be seeing girls from my college who I'd get to see and physically be with. What should I do, am I a bad person for thinking this or do I have a point? And what would you suggest doing if you were me? Thank you, I appreciate it

Hi everyone, I'm a 20 year old college student, and I think I'm having issues with the girl I'm seeing. They aren't really issues, but just things that are bothering be I guess. We met a couple months ago, and we did meet on a chat site. She's a couple years younger than me, and she's almost done with high school while I'm in college. We live pretty far apart, too far to drive. Recently, I asked her to be my girlfriend, even though all it would've done is put a label on our relationship, and she said yes. But the past couple weeks I feel like she's been too busy for me. We talk every day and things were perfect until a couple weeks ago. Now we aren't talking as much and I sometimes wonder if committing this much was the right thing to do, when I could be seeing girls from my college who I'd get to see and physically be with. What should I do, am I a bad person for thinking this or do I have a point? And what would you suggest doing if you were me? Thank you, I appreciate it

Hi, I'm a 20 year old guy in college, and I need some advice. There's this girl I met a few months ago, through the Internet, and we started talking and developed feelings for each other. We're really far apart though (2000 miles) so we kind of just said there's nothing we can do right now :/ so lately, I've been talking to this girl at my college and I like her, we might get coffee soon even. But a few days ago, me and the first girl, who's basically become one of my best friends, we were talking about our relationships and stuff. And we made like a pact that if we're still single in 10 years then we'd get married. Later though, she told me she still has feelings for me, and I said I do too, which is the truth, I do still have some feelings and they've been growing fast lately now. But she knows all about the other girl, I've told her everything, and I wanna see how things develop with her. I told my friend this and she didn't seem upset, I'm hoping she wasn't :( we also said that it would be amazing to be together, even if not officially just yet. I told her I didn't want her to think she was my second option or anything, I said I felt awful, and I do. I don't know what to do, I like the girl at my school but I love my friend and think being with her would be amazing, but there is distance to consider. I have no idea..any advice you can give? It would be really appreciated, thank you.

Hi, I'm a 20 year old guy in college, and I need some advice. There's this girl I met a few months ago, through the Internet, and we started talking and developed feelings for each other. We're really far apart though (2000 miles) so we kind of just said there's nothing we can do right now :/ so lately, I've been talking to this girl at my college and I like her, we might get coffee soon even. But a few days ago, me and the first girl, who's basically become one of my best friends, we were talking about our relationships and stuff. And we made like a pact that if we're still single in 10 years then we'd get married. Later though, she told me she still has feelings for me, and I said I do too, which is the truth, I do still have some feelings and they've been growing fast lately now. But she knows all about the other girl, I've told her everything, and I wanna see how things develop with her. I told my friend this and she didn't seem upset, I'm hoping she wasn't :( we also said that it would be amazing to be together, even if not officially just yet. I told her I didn't want her to think she was my second option or anything, I said I felt awful, and I do. I don't know what to do, I like the girl at my school but I love my friend and think being with her would be amazing, but there is distance to consider. I have no idea..any advice you can give? It would be really appreciated, thank you.

Hi! I'm a 20 year old guy college. There's this girl in one of my classes and I talked to her for the first time the other day. She's superrr pretty and she seems nice. I've been wanting to talk to her but never could. But I saw she was sitting alone, and I sat down and asked her name and we talked about our majors and how we liked the class and everything. And, since I like her, I told her she had really pretty eyes about halfway through our conversation. She just kind of did a small laugh and said thanks, but not in a mean way, more like just casual laughing? I don't know how to describe it, but it didn't sound like flirty laughing to me at least. We did have a good conversation before class, but I don't know what she must be thinking now..? I don't know what to think..I feel like it went well for the first time talking though. Anyway, I have class with her again today, should I sit next to her again if I can? I'm thinking I should just sit next to her and talk, no complimenting or anything, just talking, but what do you think? If you have any ideas, suggestions, on what I could say at all, that would be great, any help is appreciated! Thanks guys :)

Hi! I'm a 20 year old guy college. There's this girl in one of my classes and I talked to her for the first time the other day. She's superrr pretty and she seems nice. I've been wanting to talk to her but never could. But I saw she was sitting alone, and I sat down and asked her name and we talked about our majors and how we liked the class and everything. And, since I like her, I told her she had really pretty eyes about halfway through our conversation. She just kind of did a small laugh and said thanks, but not in a mean way, more like just casual laughing? I don't know how to describe it, but it didn't sound like flirty laughing to me at least. We did have a good conversation before class, but I don't know what she must be thinking now..? I don't know what to think..I feel like it went well for the first time talking though. Anyway, I have class with her again today, should I sit next to her again if I can? I'm thinking I should just sit next to her and talk, no complimenting or anything, just talking, but what do you think? If you have any ideas, suggestions, on what I could say at all, that would be great, any help is appreciated! Thanks guys :)