Jess

Bonus points if you have a link to a site. i tried googling it but couldnt find a real answer.

I'm 6'3 and im decently big (a little chubby not fat though) and i feel like most girls are scared of me, my tattoos dont help in that either. just looking for honest opinions :)

She is not on her period, is healthy, nothing was wrong till we had sex.

Im not trying to be mean. I just don't know why all the girls I've dated end up easy by the time I break up with them. If it is my fault then I want to change. I feel bad and like it is my fault when they start messing their lives up. For example, there was a girl who I dated and she was a virgin. I didn't take it from her but a week after I broke up with her she had sex with a guy she just met that day. She was completely innocent before we dated. There are nor examples, I've tried everything I can think of when breaking up with someone and it always turns out the same. So if any females can help me, id appreciate it. I just don't want to make anyone worse off.

I've read that it could be mini rips in her, but i just want to make sure she doesnt have an STD. either way im going to stay with her, i just want her to have peace at mind