Shaniquer

I met this guy three months ago, we started off pretty good ! We connected like we knew each other so long , Somehow i got too comfortable with him too soon and we became really intimate but i did not sleep with him, my problem is i seem to want more than just a casual relationship but he says he is not ready for a relationship because he still hangs on to his ex but its been almost a year since they parted! He says he Likes me a lot and does not want to lose me but i couldnt and broke contact with him, was is wrong ?? should i have waited??

sorry for my English , i am German !!

Well i met this guy online four months ago and we have been exchanging emails everyday since then.

After three months of exchanging emails we then decided to meet up for Coffee and to my opinion it went really well , we then continued sending each other mails after our meeting till last i asked him last week what his intentions were , i asked him what exactly was he searching for so that no one gets hurts in the end , but since then its been three days now and he hasn`t replied my email...should i just ignore him and move on or is it worth to write him once more ....but i am very sure he saw the first one !!

Well i am met him on a dating site and it kicked off very well , We continued seeing each other for almost 3 months then we sort of like seperated due to some personal complications, but in our seperation he would write me and even call to check on how i was doing and if i had met anyone new .If i did not reply him he would write again or call just to check i was ok.. Now he even comes to my house , we go shopping and take walks togerther or he just comes to watch Movies .

What are exactly his intentions , is he still in love with me or what ?? I am just not able to ask him because he is one person that is not good at expressing his feelings ...HELP!!

So i met this guy online , we decided after one chat to meet , we seemed totally to be clicking for some weeks then all of a sudden he wanted some space because his father was sick , i was sad because i liked him , i then gave him the space then after three weeks he came back into my life again ,he would flirt with me , i then ended going to bed with him then afterwards he started backing off again and wants us just to be friends , what should i do ...was i used or maybe he is just afraid of committment ??

sorry for my bad englisch i come from Germany

I met this guy two weeks ago and things were going on very well.He even opened up telling me about his family history .Two days ago he stopped writting to me but we used to write each sms everyday ,and he always came to visit that in two weeks he had visited me five times .I wrote and asked him why he had not written to me then he said he wanted space for himself ,he said it had nothing to do with me but he was just having so much stress since his father was sick and too much work to do,he still writes to me and he says we will see us again after three weeks or so ....

Is it just a way of breaking up with me or what ??

He even cried saying he was making the biggest mistake of his life by taking this space !!!

So i met this guy online and we went out for a movie last weekend and all went well.

He paid for the tickets and he even paid for the drinks and a tub of popcorns which we shared ;-).

I tried to pay but he insisted and i eneded up paying for the coffee which we had before the movies started , we took a walk as well and everything was just perfect.

After the movies he offered to bring me home , now the problem is he is always saying that we had really great fun and he has been saying this like four times now , i also said i had fun with him but now does he keep on saying this so that i initiate the next date or what.

the first one he initiated and i was hoping he continues the chase ,so what do i do ??

I met this guy online and we decided to take it into the real world , we had two dates then he started ignoring me , i then texted him telling him that he was breaking my heart by just going silent ,then after a night of trying to call him and crying that i had lost him ,he then replied the next day telling me he was sorry but it was never his intention ,recently he had discovered he was suffering from multiple sclerosis (disease that affects the spinal code and one ends up brain damaged and sitting in a wheelchair ,terrible disease)And he said i was just a wonderful thing that happened after discovering his diseas.I then replied apologising telling him that i was just angry and overreacted ,then he replied and told me that he did not Love me and i should just move on because if i did not i would be making the situation difficult for us .i replied telling him that i was sory if ever his disease was real ,but that was not an excuse for his actions and also that he was a good for nothing B*****d.Was i wrong and what should i do??

Guys would you love a girl who approaches you ,Calls you for dates and initiates everything in a relationship just like how you usually do it.A girl who would chase you until you love her ,one who is very confident and does not also forget her place in a relationship (by that i mean the one who does the small nitty grittys such as washing and cleaning).And ladies would you go this extra mile just to get the guy of your dreams ,remeber in love there is no pride ,why settle for the second when you can go out there and get your first ...Help me i need answers .

We met online and decided to meet,First day i slept at his apartment we never had sex just cuddled the whole night.He never initiates anything , i initiated the second meeting ,slept again by him and again we never had sex which i thought it was a good sign.I asked him if he liked me because i do and he said he did and was willing to get to know me better and maybe one day we could become serious ,but he said i should know he does not fall in love so fast.Whenever i text him he never replies and he is still on the dating site we met...are there any signs of something coming up ,or what should i do to win his heart i really like him ,please help me .

I met this guy and we have become really close ,his European and i am black and recently he asked me if in my culture it was ok to date another colour and if they were any chances that we could create a relationship , i told colour to me did not matter ,now he invited me over to his house so that we could cuddle ,does this means we beggining a new relationship or he just wants to use me ...

A few months back i asked tthis guy out and he turned me down because he said he was just coming out from a very long term relationship and was not ready to be seeing anybody else.

Recently when we meet and talk he seems to compliment on everything i say ,things like he likes my way of pronouncing words and he is totally crazy about my hairstyle and has asked me the i keep it long.He is also doing a project from his school and has decided to use me as his project.

is this giving any signs or i am just imagining and hoping something that will never happen

He is 19 , i am 25 and we got to know each other because we share a friend.

I invited him to my birthday and he came ,he then asked me how old i was turning and just after i told him all the spark we used to have just faded ,he ignores me now and never talks to me the way he used to,what do i do.

should i just let him go because of our age , i like him despite the gap in between because i believe love is unconditionnal,help

I asked this guy out ,he turned me down because he had just brocken off with someone.Now three months after i see him again and he seems happy to have seen me and he looks at me from head to toe smiling ,am i just wishing there was something or really there is ???

Before i had approached this guy i liked ,i had invited him on myspace to be my friend and he had ignored the request.But then after i had approached him and told him that i liked him and he had turned me down saying he was not ready for relationships.Now he accepts my friend request on myspace ,is this out of pity ??or he realised he liked me too??

What are the qualities you look at when approaching a woman ,because it seems ,we the funny and very nice groomed ladies and very much laid back ladies we are not noticed.But i cant change myself i love being a natural woman is it my loss or the guys??

Recently i told this guy i liked him through an email and he replied telling me he was just coming out of a relationship and was not ready to date .He says he likes me because i am very nice and funny but he is is not that interested .He also said he will not tell anybody so i should not feel embarrased or bad about it .He even told me he will act cool the next time we see us again.

Guys are there any chances that he is still thinking about it or i should just move on and forget about him ,but i still like him.

Now i get the courage to finally break the ice and text first to the guy i have been liking for a long time ,only to get a reply him asking me who i am ..What do i say ,help!1