rajesh

Hey there so I'm a uni student who's a 25 year old virgin guy..Ive been pretty aware recently about the fact that Ive never had a gf or been intimate with a girl. And any girl I had a crush on had always failed as it ended up one sided. It was not like I went for the hottwst girl or what I went for average looking cutesy type of girls but even they reject me. Maybe I'm ugly or something.

But my roommate next door who's my best friend he on the other hand just been rude to girls and he gets to screw them every other day and they keep coming back to him with food and stuff and he is just plain rude to them. I of course have to bear the grunt of hearing that. I was brought up to not be like him and my mother taught me on how to be a proper guy(generic gentlemens stuffs.).sometimes I wonder if chivalry is really dead and if any girls like old fashion guys like me.

Point is. I wish I can get some advice on whether I should change myself to be like my friend or what I should do even. I am extremely worried on not being a 40 yr old virgin but maybe even dying as one. I'm a shy guy but I am training myself to be a confident guy that stands up for himself so Id really appreciate it if I could get some advice on how I can chase a girl and keep her.

Ps. Sex is not a motive here. If it happens it happens.

So, ok Pls excuse me if I've asked this before. I just need some help.

So basically I'm 25, student in uni, I seem to have most things I want but never seem to have a girl fall for me or like me in any way. I've had feelings fr girls like any normal guy but they've all rejected me. Some 4-7 girls I had feelings for all turned me down. I seem to be the typical nice guy. I cook and bake cakes and desserts(it's my hobby) and I'm a helping hand and my shoulders are always wet from girls that cry to me about their bf problems.

I even have a best friend who is the jerk. and he is the opposite of me.he gets to bang a girl every week and discards them like trash and mistreats them and yet they are still coming back to him. I've had chances to do it but I said no cos I am a dumbass thinking it's the right thing to save virginity only to end up getting none.

Having seen this for two years, it's had a effect on me mentally to the extent that I feel like throwing love away, toughening myself up and upon reaching 30 years old, signing up for adoption as a single dad. I feel that a orphaned kid could use the love rather to some female.

In conclusion. I've come here to ask for help on whether I should simply give up the hope of having someone like a guy like me who's been brought up wrongly to be a gentleman to females, turn like my best friend and do what he is doing or something else.im thankful to any form of advise and the last thing I really wish for is not to insult me pls.

I'm 24, a dude in uni..I am not too sure but I might be classified into being a nice guy..but certainly would not let a girl walk over me.

Like every other guy, I seem to have a thing for maybe a few different girls but always keep being rejected by all of them. Them girls range from pretty(not Victoria secret model hot) to cute and average and some aren't even good looking, but I was attracted cos she was really cute when she did a lot of stupid things..but yea I got rejected by all of them.

So now I'm pretty broken hearted to the extent that I might as well not have a dick down there. I thought to change myself to be a jerk like guy but what was left of my heart did not let me(I am

An honest person.i don't found $50 on a shop floor and gave it to the working pple to give back to who it rightfully belongs to.)

I'm just confused on what to do right now.not any type of girl seems to like me at all, some took advantage of my kindness, I'm thinking of permenantly shutting myself away from girls and just maybe adopt a child and live as a single dad for the rest of my life.

So what should I be doing? Should I change myself to be a heartless jerk guy? friends recommended a hooker and as well to make me feel better (hey no girl likes me..and I'm already 24, things probably won't change) I'm Confused so I would appreciate any form help.I'm rly broken so Pls don't post anything abusive. I can help answer your questions too :)

I'm a 25 year old guy in university at te moment. Most of my life I have been single, I've never had a gf, and having hugs are as far as I've been when it comes to being intimate with a female.

I've been rejected every time I asked a girl out, I was never even given a chance to prove myself to what I can potentially be(I am somewhat a confident person.) And this saddens me a lot. All my friends keep saying that there's meant to be a girl for me but obviously that's a lie.

Growing up, I have obviously been raised the wrong way by my parents, I was told that I should treat a girl/woman like a gentleman(open doors, pull chair, etc) , but clearly this is not the right way to treat a female.

This is been happening for more than two decades and it's been fruitless, and the odds of it changing are obviously none, I mean a genie ain't gonna show up and grant me a wish.all that's ever happened is me ending up with a broken heart.

So I would like some advice and some form of encouragement, what can I do now that you have heard my situation and how can I improve myself? Or should I become those jerk kind of guys since that seems to work and there's nothing much to lose at this point in time?

Thank you in advance for answering and I'll be glad to answer your questions.

Ps. I never seem to fall for the hottest most beautiful girls I can find, I seem to be a sucker for cute more average girls that are cute..

I'm Asking this question on behalf of my best friend as I'm genuinely worried about him and want to console him but I don't know how to. So I'm hoping that some people here can help. So here's how it goes.

My best friends a 25 year old guy whose never had a gf not dated before. He is what people would call a nice guy, he is genuinely caring and would try his best to help girls with their problems and sometimes would go beyond the call of duty if she's a close friend.

He's the kind of guy that would provide a shoulder to the girls who would come crying to him when their bf cheats on them or that sort. He's a gentle kind guy who's even said no to sex with random girls( I don't know why exactly. He might be saving himself.) and also he even dosent think of touching random girls when in clubs and all. And by no means he is gay. He's straight. But he's being very worried recemtly about how no girls liked him fr who he is and he's worried that he would end up alone.

So how can I help as a friend. Should he change himself to be those guys that actually hurt the girls to have a gf, or if he is the way he is now what are the odds that he would change from single to taken? He is slowly losing hope and everything..or should he just give up? I'm The only guy he trusts so I would love some opinions please..

For the last 25 years of my life. I've been single all along. I've like a few girls but they only seem to have rejected me or worse, taken advantage of me or were just showing interest cos I had some money. I'm fairly confident, can talk to girls al all and I barely ever fall for the most attractive. I tend to fall more for the average looking girls for some odd reason.

But most of my life it seems like I'm that guy where girls rock up to and cry about how they have been dumped and such (I've never liked them, I was brought up the wrong way where my parents have taught me to be like a gentleman which I obviously the wrong way to behave when a girl or woman shows up.) so I have wet shoulders and I haven't seen to have feelings for anyone after all the rejection and such.

As the odds that this situation will suddenly Change after 25 years , isit better to just throw in the towel and surrender/give up? Or what should I be doing? I wish I could have a gf where I can buy her nice clothes and other stuff (victorias secret and Dior and all..) and she would not take advantage of me just cos of money. :(

I'm 25, never had a gf not kissed a girl even. Not much female contact at all. I have been rejected by almost every girl that I have asked out. It hurts to see that the girl never even thought twice even. And this has happened every single time(atleast 10-15 girls have just outright rejected me.). They're not the hottest girls or what they range from average to good looking. So for 25 years I've only seen rejection and doubt that any changes will even happen in the future.

I'm average looking. And can't treat a girl bad and even tried being mean and a jerk to girls which did work but my conscience had forced me to discontinue that behaviour. I've been brought up by my parents the wrong way to treat girls properly and treat them like fellow human beings but all that that's left me with is a wet shoulder from all the girls crying to me about how much of a jerk their bf are and all that.

So Isit safe to throw the White flag on love to surrender and just mentally prepare myself to live alone possibly for the rest of my life? Confidence is not my problem, I may look ugly I think. But I just think sometimes that I should give up since I am always bitter about relationships and all. Please advise. Thank you in advance and God bless.

I'm a 25 year old guy who's had no intimate female contact at all. And this is making me very very insecure lately. Of course I'm a virgin and I've been looked down by girls before for holding out as well.

I'm usually for waiting but I've waited all these years to only end up still being a virgin. Still being mocked at. As there is probably no chance of finding the so called "right" person and since I can't treat girls badly(I have a wet shoulder since I listen to girl problems about their abusive bf..), should I just hire some escort and get it done and over with already? I honestly am starting to feel abit ashamed cos I've not had female contact for 25 years of my life..your answers are valuable. Thank you. :)

I'm a 25 year old guy that's a virgin. I've never slept with a girl, and the closest to being intimate was probably when a girl grinded me(kinda) in a nightclub.

Age seems to be catching up and I have lost all hope in finding a girlfriend, let alone get married. The odds of that seem really low as well so I might even end up as a virgin for life.

I also seem to be tempted to use the massage parlours that offer extra services or even go to a hooker or escort and get it done and over with and lose it once and for all. But the other part of me says that I should not just give away my v-card and keep it..it just tells me I should not give in to temptations.

What should I do about this? I'm really really confused about what I should be doing. The best opinions are usually from people one does not know so please advise me on what I should do.

I had a high school reunion last night(I'm 24 lol.) and I met this one girl that I have not met for like 13 years. I remembered her to be a smart intelligent cute girl till recently people (fellow high schoolers.)had told me she was a sex freak who changed her boyfriends like changing clothes which came to me as a surprise. And of course she used to sleep with all the guys that she dated. Which came as a shock to me.

She is now more on the chubby side as she had gained weight and happen to go out with this guy that is one of my close friend for a decade ago is a nice gamer type of guy.

What worries me now is that upon seeing this. I am afraid that I might end up with a girl who had a wild past and just want to secure someone stable for the remaining life. I've never had a gf, let alone kissed a girl and of course, a virgin which automatically gives me VIP access to the loser table in club society.

What should I do to stop being scared that I might end up with a girl like this? I understand that people make mistakes but I have been clean and I have never cheated or hurt anyone's feelings. I feel like I definitely deserve someone decent..how do I stop worrying. Please help me.

Thank you and God bless.

Ps. I don't hate my friend. I just tend to be observant.

I've given up on love. Is this a good life plan?

I'm a 24 year old guy who's never been in a relationship. Let alone touched a girl in an intimate way. I'm currently studying engineering at uni and I feel that I would be single for life(hey it's 24 years of being single, what are the chances of things changing..zilch or close to Anyway.)

I fell for this girl in my first year but things did not work out. Ever since then things slipped into sadness and depressed mode and I've ended up making a vow to myself that I should never feel for a girl or ever even think about liking her again. (I've had 3-4 previous crushes that similarly failed this way.)

At the same time as i don't ever want to fall for another girl. I don't think I will get married as well. So I also had wished to maybe consider adopting a child to form a mini family of my own(and maybe even die a virgin..probably) I've given up all hope on finding a relationship and even considered being a very mean/jerk/douche guy to every girl I meet and know except my mother. Cos frankly most of them deserved it but I can't because I've been brought up the wrong way of being kind and gentlemanly to people(pun intended.)

So what is your opinion on this? Isit worth sticking to my plan of probably just having an adopted son or should I rethink my life planning?

I'm 23 year old guy who just got out of high school. I've never had a girlfriend in my life before and lately as I am in uni this has been worrying me a lot.

My parents taught me to be respectful towards girls and to help them out and be nice to them in a gentlemanly manner (pull chair/open door/things like that.). This is obviously the wrong way to treat a girl(pun intent) And i have noticed that this kind of behaviour naturally lands me in the friendzone which I'm a platinum member of.

I've seen many girls always go to guys that hurt them and just throw them aside(I actually have a list of girls that come crying to me making my left shoulder wet.) IVE totally lost hope of ever finding a gf at this rate as the odds of them ever liking me will be rock bottom. (I'm somewhat confident and average looking guy.)

I've even started to think that I'll be living my life alone and am considering adopting a child when I have a stable career and im 30. Sometimes I feel that I have been wrongly raised and should have been like those guys who actually are not like me.

So my question is.

- should I stay the way I am or should I turn to the dark side(try being a jerk?). I feel like there's nothing to lose anyway.

-what are the odds some girl will like me? (I'm at the bottom range of average so yeh.)

- should I just give up and not bother about this at all?

I'm confused Pls help me.

I'm posting this for as much opinions so please bear with me.

I'm a 24 year old guy who's never been in a relationship. Let alone touched a girl in an intimate way. I'm currently studying engineering at uni and I feel that I would be single for life(hey it's 24 years of being single, what are the chances of things changing..zilch or close to Anyway.)

I fell for this girl in my first year but things did not work out. Ever since then things slipped into sadness and depressed mode and I've ended up making a vow to myself that I should never feel for a girl or ever even think about liking her again.

i.dont think I will get married.i also had wished to maybe consider adopting a child to form a mini family of my own(and maybe even die a virgin..probably) I've given up all hope on finding a relationship and even consider being a very mean/jerk/douche guy to every girl I meet and know except my mother. Cos frankly most of them deserve it but I can't because I've been brought up the wrong way of being kind and gentlemanly to pple(pun intended.)

So what is your opinion on this? Isit worth sticking to my plan of probably just having an adopted son or rethink my life plan?Should I continue being the typical nice guy even when it's not going to pay off(I don't take **** from pple btw..and neither have I chased he most attractive girls in the world. I just wish for someone that can be fashionable and stylish so I can buy her things I've always wished to buy for a girl

I'm a 24 year old guy who's never been in a relationship. Let alone touched a girl in an intimate way. I'm currently studying engineering at uni and I feel that I would be single for life(hey it's 24 years of being single, what are the chances of things changing..zilch or close to Anyway.)

I fell for this girl in my first year but things did not work out. Ever since then things slipped into sadness and depressed mode and I've ended up making a vow to myself that I should never feel for a girl or ever even think about liking her again.

At the same time as i don't ever want to fall for another girl. I don't think I will get married as well. So I also had wished to maybe consider adopting a child to form a mini family of my own(and maybe even die a virgin..probably) I've given up all hope on finding a relationship and even considered being a very mean/jerk/douche guy to every girl I meet and know except my mother. Cos frankly most of them deserved it but I can't because I've been brought up the wrong way of being kind and gentlemanly to people(pun intended.)

So what is your opinion on this? Isit worth sticking to my plan of probably just having an adopted son or should I rethink my life planning?

I may have asked this question sometimes but I am just looking for answers that's all. So please bear with me.

So,

I'm a 24 year old guy studying in uni at the moment. Everything's been fine but recently I seem to have notice that while my friends seem to chase every attractive girl in uni, I just seem to sit there and watch. I'm not gay I'm straight but I keep wondering if something is wrong with me. Also,But I have got no idea why I don't seem to chase any girl. I've only been attracted to this average girl that was abit cute and she did not feel the same( which has traumatised me a lot.) and as I'm 24 I'm also super worried that I will be single for life and a 80 year old virgin. And also most girls seem to go for the guy that dosent treat them right( some I know come crying to me about it.) unfortunately I have a disease called being nice(sarcasm) so it's hard for me to do that.sometimes I've even been thinking if I ahould asopt a kid when I am financially stable . So now that you've heard my story I would love it if these questions can be answered.

-is something wrong with me? Why am I not following my friends?

- what are the odds that my love life will change in the years to come given I've never even kissed a girl in my life?

-should I be like this mean guys that don't know how to treat girls or women more properly so that they will be attracted?

- should I seek professional help?

THANK YOU SO MUCH!! I'll answer yours Of u leave the link down.

I may have asked this question sometimes but I am just looking for answers that's all. So please bear with me.

So,

I'm a 24 year old guy studying in uni at the moment. Everything's been fine but recently I seem to have notice that while my friends seem to chase every attractive girl in uni, I just seem to sit there and watch. I'm not gay I'm straight but I keep wondering if something is wrong with me. Also,But I have got no idea why I don't seem to chase any girl. I've only been attracted to this average girl that was abit cute and she did not feel the same( which has traumatised me a lot.) and as I'm 24 I'm also super worried that I will be single for life and a 80 year old virgin. And also most girls seem to go for the guy that dosent treat them right( some I know come crying to me about it.) unfortunately I have a disease called being nice(sarcasm) so it's hard for me to do that.sometimes I've even been thinking if I ahould asopt a kid when I am financially stable . So now that you've heard my story I would love it if these questions can be answered.

-is something wrong with me? Why am I not following my friends?

- what are the odds that my love life will change in the years to come given I've never even kissed a girl in my life?

-should I be like this mean guys that don't know how to treat girls or women more properly so that they will be attracted?

- should I seek professional help?

THANK YOU SO MUCH!! I'll answer yours Of u leave the link down.

I need some help...I think. Answer please :)?

A bit of a background story. (

I'm a 24 year old guy who's studying in college at the moment. Im a Virgin and I've never had a gf at all. But I'm not that kind of guy that just sleeps around as well and dosent blatantly chase girls like my friends do. As a result, I'm mostly and naturally friendzoned by all the girls.

I notice that most guys at my age are all chasing the girls in parties and hpoking up and such and even though I've had one or two girl hit on me I tend to push them away showing no interest on them at all, I sometimes feel embarrassed and ashamed that I am not like the other guys that would probably do the opposite as me and this I've even been labeled as a loser. I've come to the point where I actually want to sign up for adoption and be a single father once I have a job since I have pretty much admitted defeat in attempting to change my relationship status.

So my question is should I try and change myself to be like what most of my friends are doing? As there's nothing to lose I feel that that is the way to go. Or what should I do for a start?

Ps..I'm a straight guy. )

Now that my issue has been stated.

-should I seek professional help or is this normal?

- what are the odds that my relationship status will change?

- should I be like those guys that are mean and bad to their gf and such since I have nothing to lose..

- share some experiences if any please.

Thank you so much kind souls.

IM 24, studying in uni, and been single all my life. I'm very worried it will be that way all the way throughout my life.

Everyone keeps saying that some girl will come at the right place right time but it just dosent seem to work for me. I have even been Saving myself for the so called right girl but it just seemed like she doesn't even exist, or maybe she's even dead before she got to meet me.

I wish someone could advise me on what I can do as I feel very depressed. I don't think I am very choosy as I probably would go out with any girl that shows an interest in me( I'm not desperate, just worried. ) so how can I help myself feel better?

A bit of a background story. (

I'm a 24 year old guy who's studying in college at the moment. Im a Virgin and I've never had a gf at all. But I'm not that kind of guy that just sleeps around as well and dosent blatantly chase girls like my friends do. As a result, I'm mostly and naturally friendzoned by all the girls.

I notice that most guys at my age are all chasing the girls in parties and hpoking up and such and even though I've had one or two girl hit on me I tend to push them away showing no interest on them at all, I sometimes feel embarrassed and ashamed that I am not like the other guys that would probably do the opposite as me and this I've even been labeled as a loser. I've come to the point where I actually want to sign up for adoption and be a single father once I have a job since I have pretty much admitted defeat in attempting to change my relationship status.

So my question is should I try and change myself to be like what most of my friends are doing? As there's nothing to lose I feel that that is the way to go. Or what should I do for a start?

Ps..I'm a straight guy. )

Now that my issue has been stated.

-should I seek professional help or is this normal?

- what are the odds that my relationship status will change?

- should I be like those guys that are mean and bad to their gf and such since I have nothing to lose..

- share some experiences if any please.

Thank you so much kind souls.