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Married 2 yrs been together 7. Husband 35 Im 30. When I met him I explained I wasnt sure about having kids. He was okay with this. I have some issues that may allow one child if I were to change me mind. Here lately Ive noticed that hes been talking as if we are going to have a child and while a short thought or two about it is okay...Im still leaning against no children. My husband has had.issues with working for a while and his priorities have not been the best. Hes not helpful when it comes to cleaning and hes alwas busy and has a reason not to do his share around the house etc. I will admit Im not perfect either. In the past out of frustration I have yelled and screamed and been disrespectful. I feel like because of his not doing his part when its just him and I that a baby is not a good idea. I mean what you see is what you get. Others seem to think thats harsh, but I see what they go through. Husbands always gone doing what they want and wives at home doing it all and not happy. Im currently praying about this. Need guidance and input. Ive talked to my husband hes not a bad man just kinda lazy. He feels like Hes doing nothing wrong and just doesnt understand how children change things.

My husband and I have been married a year in a half. After a year of being unemployed hes finally employed! The problem is we are not coming together as a married couple. He does his own thing and sometimes we will do stuff together. This sometimes is very rare. We dont sleep in the same bed (he had insomnia most of the time) and his work hours dont allow us to eat dinner together. I really wanted a marriage that allowed us to bond and still do things apart but Im not happy with this. When we try to talk all we do it fight, and Im tired of it. When I say we should separate he claims we took vows. Im not sure whats going on...but im ready.to throw in the towel before I stop liking him at all. He says he feels I dont respect him. Im really trying here with no avail. In the beginning he was kind, and gentle, thoughtful, and very passionate. Now I know he loves me but its not the same at all. Suggestions and prayers are appreciated.

Im the breadwinner right now and my husband works part time. How long has your spouse or you been unemployed or lacking full time work? Any words of encouragement? Really could use it. Been praying like crazy.

Im married been married 2 years and beem together 6. When my husband proposed he gave me a very large carat ring. Almost triple what most are. I didnt ask for it he got what he could afford to get, and what he wanted me to have. Well I was out with some friends and one of the other married ladies saw my ring. She says "you make me want to put my ring under the table" wow I thought thats disrespectful to your husband.

So now every time I hang out with the other married women they make me feel terrible for having a bigger ring than theirs. They make me feel bad almost. This is not my issue is it? I feel like this is something that has nothing to do with me and more to do with them being superficial. I would have taken whatever my man gave me. I love him

Any suggestions on how to deal with them? I have to because some are the wives of my husbands friends.

Am I being too hard on him?

Need help! My husband has been out of work a year and a couple of months. He was getting unemployment and got cut off now I feel like hes taking his time looking for full time employment. He works a part time job on the weekends and has taken a temp job or two for a few days here and there. My problem is he seems to be putting goin out, and flag football ahead of his job search. When I say anything he states he pays the car insurance and buys groceries thats something! Im not ungrateful, im just losing respect for him as the man of the house and the provider because Im paying everything else... Its frustrating and gone on long enough. Instead of reassurance about his job search, I get excuses and it turns into a fight. Wondering if I have the wrong husband?

Need help! My husband has been out of work a year and a couple of months. He was getting unemployment and got cut off now I feel like hes taking his time looking for full time employment. He works a part time job on the weekends and has taken a temp job or two for a few days here and there. My problem is he seems to be putting goin out, and flag football ahead of his job search. When I say anything he states he pays the car insurance and buys groceries thats something! Im not ungrateful, im just losing respect for him as the man of the house and the provider because Im paying everything else... Its frustrating and gone on long enough. Instead of reassurance about his job search, I get excuses and it turns into a fight. Wondering if I have the wrong husband?

Just on here for gp. I have an option between two cars. Both 2002 but both Lexus. One is an es 300, the other ls 430. Just wanting input. My last two cars were lexus ls400 and a gs 300.

Been with husband who is 34 six years and married one. Im 29. Hes so selfish. He had to work when we were moving, so my dad came and helped. When my parents moved, they asked for his help and he said he was busy... He does stuff like this all the time.

These last two years have sucked! He puts his friends and hanging out before his marriage, and hes basically living a separate life. We have tried to discuss things and it wrks for about a week. Hes working part time and Im carrying the weight. We have no children. Ive told him I really need his help and support but its not phasing him. Ive asked to separate but he says we need counseling. I agreed but when.it came time to pay for this counseling he says he doesnt have the money. He certainly has funds to hang out every Thursday and shop! Im really starting to lose respect for him, and resent him. Im about to just go file.for divorce and hand him the papers. Hes like having an 18 yr. Old. Help suggestions please!

My husband is 34 and is not working. He has not worked in over a yr. He plays sports all morning everyday and goes out with friends on weekends. No children. When i try to talk to him about his poor prioritizing he gets mad. When i try to talk to him about him putting friends before our marriage he gets mad. He manipulated to go out this weekend and stayed gone until 330am. I left went to my parents and left a note saying we needed to separate. Im home now and he has not said one word to me and wont leave either. I could hear him sniffling in the other room but he wont talk. What should i do now? We need this space. He is way too comfy with me footing the bill and him having no responsibilities. My heart is drying up.

My husband is 34 and I am 29. He is so very immature and rude. He is always wanting to go hang with guys 10 yrs his junior and not married. I try to discuss things calmly and it always turns into a fight and him telling me I have a bad temper. I am ready to leave his ***, but Im gonna give it my all before i do. i suggested marital counseling and he said i need counseling not him. He has.turned into a poor provider and doesnt understand why I refuse to have a baby. Please input. Trying to stay calm and make a rational decision.

My husband doesn't do many chores around the house and is kind of lazy. I don't mind for the most part because it's just him and I no kids. When I first met him I told him I did not want children, and he was okay with this. Well now he's kind of hinting around that he wants to have kids but he claims he would be fine if we didn't. The problem is he does not understand that I don't want children because he is lazy. I refuse to do it ALL and take care of an extra person. I've explained this to him and he just doesn't get it. I told him if he wanted children he should have jumped in a long time ago and showed me we could be a team with the little things. But he didn't. Now I cannot trust that it will change after a baby, and I'm not willing to risk it. Am I wrong? Or are there any suggestions?

what would you do if you had a degree in a specific field that required tons of studying,hard work and knowledge to get but then someone you worked with that was a manager with no degree but trained on the job always tries to tell you what you are doing wrong. What do you do? Is it justified to feel insulted? Angry?

for some reason when I workout in the morning I'm dead tired after. I absoloutely cannot function after. I want to workout in the morning because you get better results. I'm working out evenings now but any suggestions for morning training?

Been in a relationship for almost 5 years now engaged for 4 years. For the most part its a good relationship but he's a bit immature and and just doesn't get that marriage is teamwork. He's thoughtful here and there and very funny. He doesn't make a lot of money but worked really hard to get me a nice engagement ring. The family likes him too. The problem is he never wants to really go anywhere or do anything anymore, he always wants to do things alone and when I ask to go workout with him or run with him he says its his time to reflect. He works long hours so I'm alone alot and Sundays he's off but he's resting mostly then. I cannot talk to him about anything because its never a good time and we just fight... I'm paying most of the bills because he had to take a paycut. I'm just tired. He doesn't motivate me to do anything I almost feel like he's just here. At the same time I feel really sad th thought of us not being together. There is a level of respect that is just not there anymore. Please help.

My fiance and I have been together 4 years and been engaged for 3. We have decided to have a small wedding next month. I asked him if he was excited about GETTING married and he said he's excited but not as much as he is about BEING married. For some reason I was almost offended...am I reading too much into this or just being too emotional? When I think about it I kinda feel like I am...

We want to elope this October. Any places in Texas you know of?

I have an opportunity to take the board exam for Nuclear technician. Any tips or study guides you can recommend? For those who took the exam how tough was it?

For those that have lost weight, did it come off gradually or at once? I've been working my butt off for 5 weeks and eating very well...but I have only lost 2lbs and am becoming discouraged. Any tips?

I am trying to incorporate protein shakes into my diet. I currently do an hour of cardio a day and burn about 600 cals at that time. I do alternate some days and lift weights. My goal is build lean muscle. Any protein suggestions? Is whey, or burner the best? How often should I drink them? Thanks for your help!

I have a couple of questions about soy milk. #1 How long does it last? When should I throw it away?

#2 Does it make you have gas?

#3 Can you drink too much of it?