JasK

I can no longer deal with these relatives of mine and have no idea of how to deal with them without being rude. Seriously, I feel overwhelmed because I am pregnant and its my aunt with her four children (younger ones are 3 and 5 years old). I have to run around cleaning up after them, not to mention the older ones are rude beyond belief. All of them sit around all day, the older ones do not help with the younger ones, the mother doesnt even pay that much attention, while staying at our house they complain about our lack of entertainment or taking them out, they complain we do not get them take out food, and so on. Whenever I go to their home they never get us take out, I am usually the one with my mother cleaning up their dirty house (I know it sounds rude, but all their other guest come over and tell us that its usually dirty; we dont want to live in dirt), my mom and I cook dinner while at their house so we dont go hungry. I dont know why they are being hipocrats and how to deal!HELP