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So for whatever reason I owe the IRS $220. It's not a lot, but money has been very tight for me lately with so much going on. Hopefully next week I will have $220 to spare so I can send that in.

But incase I don't, when I go 2 file will I be able to & they just take the $220 out of that refund or will I not be able to file at all?

First time mom here so bare with me lol.

Back when I was a baby (early 90s) they used baby walkers 2 help babies learn 2 walk. Well now I have a 6 month old baby & I've noticed they don't sell walkers or anything like them anymore. I'm guessing because they're dangerous? Ie: babies bumping into stuff, falling down stairs etc.

So what do u moms use nowadays?

My boyfriend truly hates that I'm not submissive when we get into big arguments & even his friends say I should "try to be more submissive & let a man be a man". But my thing is it's one thing to argue, but once u get in my face I'm not backing down for NOTHING! If u threaten me, I'm going to threaten u worse. & if u put your hands on me, it's just going to be a fight. My bf hates that I'm not afraid to fight him if that was to ever happen. Not that he's ever put his hands on me, but when he gets in my face I just about ready to fight him at that point & he knows that.

I just have to much pride to ever back done from a man. Before him I was in an abusive relationship & always backed down & I promised myself I would never do that again.

When I asked him what does he mean by wanting me 2 submit he says "I'm not trying to control u, but let me be a man. When we argue instead of walking away, u get into fight mode. Let me be a man"

So should I be submissive in cases like this. I just don't like having a man feel like I'm afraid of him

I'm having a hard time in my relationship. My bf & I been going down this bumpy road 4 a year now & I just don't understand how anything is my fault. It all started because he cheated on me & went down hill from there. I truly loved this guy so when he hurt me it completely DESTROYED me. Before he cheated I use to be very nice & loving toward him, but I since he cheated now I'm more aggressive toward him & hard for me 2 show true affection. I'm also a lot more emotional now & stress a lot. He says my negative attitude brings him down & he's starting 2 not want 2 be around me.

The thing is I forgive him, but it's hard for me 2 accept the pain that happened 2 me. I know in order to move on u have to forgive & accept your past, I'm just having a hard time accepting it.

He use 2 tell me that I'm a great person & great gf, but now he tells me that I have issues, a very negative person, & a damaged/broken woman. It hurts me a lot because I wasn't always like his & I feel like he's blaming me. I just don't know what 2 do. I'm trying 2 save my relationship, but he doesn't understand some of the pain I still have that we still need 2 address. It's hard for me 2 even get 5 minutes of his time 2 talk 2 him

What should I do? Please help ... I'm so tired of crying over this

I was leaving work today & as I was backing out I checked all my mirrors & rear camera & nobody was behind me. So as I'm backing out I continue to check all of my surroundings & out of nowhere a car comes flying down the lot & stops right behind me 2 pick up someone. So my car tapped hers. Only damages 2 my car is the paint on the rear bumper chipped (which I'm fine with because my bumper is getting replaced anyway due to someone hitting me back in September). On her car the rear bumper is just pushed in some (not dented) & looks like someone can just push it back into place.

But who is at fault here? U don't come flying down a parking lot & come 2 a sudden stop DIRECTLY behind a car that was already backing up

My "husband" & I got married August 2011 & we NEVER lived together. We honestly only seem each other 1 time since we got married & we don't even speak on the phone or anything.

He married me for money. He's in the military so when you're married the military gives u what's called BAH which is like an extra $1,000+ a month. Would we be able to get an annulment under fraud?

We never slept together or even share anything. It's like we got married, went separate ways, & he got the extra money he wanted

So long story short I just got a BRAND NEW car 2 months ago with only 85 miles on it.

Well today I looked at my car & see that my boyfriend CLEARLY hit a curb & scraped up the passenger side rim. It looks very bad & so obvious even from a distance.

Right now I have a claim with my insurance company for my rear bumper that my bf claims someone backed up into the car while he was out with friends & as he was leaving someone who was in the parking lot told him what happen to the car & described the car that backed into it but couldn't get the plate number.

So now the rim needs 2 be replaced thanks to him. When I take my car to get looked at for the rear bumper can I also claim the rim as well so I won't have to have 2 separate claims & pay 2 deductibles!?

Please help .... My nerves with him are so worked up & I'm ready 2 SNAP!

Correct me if I'm wrong, but according to AR 670-1 para 3-3 soldiers are allowed to have no more than 4 tattoos below the elbow & knee & may not exceed a size of the wearers hand. So I have a total of 3 tattoos below my elbow & knees so according to the regulation, I'm allowed to get 1 more & still be in compliance correct?

I'm asking because a sergeant & I went back & forth on this today. He says the "no more than 4 tattoos" is for soldiers who already had them. I argued that's not true because the regulation does not state that & only states that soldiers who exceed those limitations BEFORE this policy was put out in March are grandfathered and ok.

I'm pretty sure I'm right about this 1, but if not can someone please tell me?

My sister got arrested for theft ($148 worth) back in June. She swears she wasn't stealing & she claims the evidence they showed her isn't even correct or shows her stealing. So it's been 3 months & still no court date.

Is it that the state is having a hard time trying to prosecute this & charges "may" get dropped? What could possibly be the hold up?

(Texas by the way)

So I'm doing a trade-in & I dont have the best credit, but I was approved for a 2015 Chrysler 200 BRAND NEW!

With that being said, I looked online at other vehicle's in its class and the 2015 Honda Accord caught my attention, but its at another dealership.

So here's my question. Can I get approved from the other dealership without going through the whole process of getting approved again? Can they use the same bank the other dealership approved me with?

Will they still have to run my credit & all of that?

What can I do to come out with a good deal & get the Honda?

I'm 20 weeks pregn & all the time he threatens 2 take me 2 court!

Today I had 2 go 2 the hospital. I told him I'm going & why I'm going, but I also told him I do not want him 2 come. I told him that because when I'm around him I get very emotional due 2 everything that has been going on between us through this pregnancy & I didn't feel like crying today.

He called several hours later, but I didn't answer because I wasn't ready 2 talk at the moment. He then txtd me saying how he just calling 2 see if everything is ok & he deserves 2 know what's going on & so on. I replied back a hour later & I told him what happened in the hospital. He txtd back & said "keep me posted" & I replied with more news from the dr

He then txtd me a hour later going off saying "I shouldn't have 2 go through this 2 get info on my child! When she gets here I'll see u in court!"

WHAT IS THE POINT OF THESE COURT THREATS! I told him what happened!

He always threatens me with court whenever I don't answer him!

I'm 20 weeks pregnant & since my ex my broke up with me when I was 6 weeks preg it's been ROUGH! TOTAL HEARTACHE 4 ME EVERYDAY ALL DAY SINCE!

At 1 point back in November I sent him an ultrasound pic & it really got 2 him & he came 2 me wanting 2 work it out. Of course I agreed. Things were going good 4 about 2 weeks & then he started going back & forth on what he wanted 2 do as far as us

Well now he act completely ignorant toward me & says THE MOST hurtful things. It's just horrible & what makes it worse is that I'm preg. He supposedly moved on, happy with his new gf, & hates me. I get upset because it's not fair that I'm going through this pregnancy alone & he's out happy & having fun without a care.

People tell me he acts the way he does toward me because he may feel guilty because deep down he knows he's wrong & trying 2 hide it. My fam says "If he's so happy he wouldn't hurt u every time u talk 2 him. He's miserable"

I try 2 b nice & work it out. Why would he act this way?

My ex for example.

When he broke up with me last year he tried 2 act so tough. He was mean & ignorant. Acted like he completely didn't care about me. A few months later I got tired of it & started seeing another guy. Well when my ex saw me with another guy it really hurt him & he came 2 me a week later with the saddest look on his face asking me 2 forgive him & take him back

This past Oct we broke up again & he's asking the same way. It pisses me off because I'm like "how can u sit here & say all these mean things & act like u don't care, but if u saw me with another guy your feeling are hurt"

WHY DO GUYS DO THAT!? Y put on a "front"? For what? What are u trying 2 prove?

My ex for example.

When he broke up with me last year he tried 2 act so tough. He was mean & ignorant. Acted like he completely didn't care about me. A few months later I got tired of it & started seeing another guy. Well when my ex saw me with another guy it really hurt him & he came 2 me a week later with the saddest look on his face asking me 2 forgive him & take him back

This past Oct we broke up again & he's asking the same way. It pisses me off because I'm like "how can u sit here & say all these mean things & act like u don't care, but if u saw me with another guy your feeling are hurt"

WHY DO GUYS DO THAT!? Y put on a "front"? For what? What are u trying 2 prove?

I'm 19 weeks pregnant & expecting a little girl :)

My ex/baby's father is VERY immature. I don't know what's up with him. I try 2 talk some sense into him, but it just doesn't get through. When I found out we're having a girl I was happy & then thought "U know what...maybe he needs a little girl. Maybe she'll help him mature & stop acting like a boy"

The baby was planned so pls don't think I'm using a baby 2 keep this man.

I just want a WONDERFUL role model 4 my daughter.

So 4 all men who have experienced having daughters as their 1st born, what kind of impact has it had on u?

We 1st broke up in June & got back together in August. It was pretty much because he got jealous & upset when he saw me with another guy. A week later he came 2 me apologizing & asking 4 another chance. I said ok.

He said 2 me "when I saw u with him that's when I saw I was losing you." I said "So if u never saw me with him, u would probably still be doing all the messed up stuff u did & running around with other girls" & he replied "Yeah probably"

I'm 19 weeks preg. He broke up with me in Oct (2 weeks after I found out) because there was a lot of arguing due 2 the fact that I didn't trust him & was very insecure.

The pregnancy was planned by him & now that I think about it, he technically only got with back with due 2 jealousy. Now that I'm preg he knows it would be unlikely for another guy to want me.

He's back 2 running around with other girls & said 2 me a few days ago "if I wanted u back, I could have u. I got it made"

Is he using me being preg as a "control" thing?

We 1st broke up in June & got back together in August. It was pretty much because he got jealous & upset when he saw me with another guy. A week later he came 2 me apologizing & asking 4 another chance. I said ok.

He said 2 me "when I saw u with him that's when I saw I was losing you." I said "So if u never saw me with him, u would probably still be doing all the messed up stuff u did & running around with other girls" & he replied "Yeah probably"

I'm 19 weeks preg. He broke up with me in Oct (2 weeks after I found out) because there was a lot of arguing due 2 the fact that I didn't trust him & was very insecure.

The pregnancy was planned by him & now that I think about it, he technically only got with back with due 2 jealousy. Now that I'm preg he knows it would be unlikely for another guy to want me.

He's back 2 running around with other girls & said 2 me a few days ago "if I wanted u back, I could have u. I got it made"

Is he using me being preg as a "control" thing for him?

He broke up with me in June pretty much because he wanted 2 live the single life. I was EXTREMELY hurt the entire summer.

August came around & I started seeing another guy. A few days later my ex saw me with the other guy & that really hurt him. He yelled at me & cursed me out for being with another guy.

A week later he realized his wrongs & came 2 me apologizing & asking for another chance. I forgave him & said ok

We got back together but that only lasted till October. We broke up because there was a lot of arguing. Even though he was trying 2 make things right, I didn't trust him & was VERY insecure.

I remember he said said 2 me 1 time back when we was together "when I saw u with him that's when I saw that I was losing u" so I asked him "well if u didn't see me with him, u would probably still be doing what u was doing & running around with all those other girls huh?" & he replied "Yeah more than likely"

So he got back with me over jealousy?

Is that even a good thing?

He broke up with me back in October & it's been rough. I'm 19 weeks pregnant so him & I are go through lots of ups & downs

But just about EVERY NIGHT I dream about him! At 1st the dreams use 2 make me sad because I would dream of him & another girl. It was like that 4 awhile.

Then 1 time I had a dream of him & I being a family with our baby. That only happened once back in November. Since then I still ALWAYS have dreams with him it it. Sometimes I'll have dreams where I just see his face for like 10 seconds & that's it. Sometimes I have dreams of him & I interacting. The moods in most of these dreams feel like we're not together, but we're in the process of getting back together (if u understand what I'm saying).

I took a nap today & had a dream that me, my mom, & my cousin were sitting down talking & my mom said 2 me "Ms. Williams is coming to stay with us" (Williams is my ex's last name, but not his mom's last name).

What could this all mean & why does it constantly happen??

I'm 19 weeks pregso that's why we still talk

We broke up back in October. When we broke up we were actually fine for a few weeks & even thought about getting back together. Then 1 day I caught him with another girl & it just blew up. We then started we argued a lot! Like everyday. His whole personality changed on me.

November I sent him an ultrasound pic & it really touched him. He called me & told me he loves me & wants 2 work it out & he came over that day. Since then we've been cool. He would come visit for a bit & we were back on good talking terms. We agreed 2 take it slow & try 2 rebuild

Then recently he's back 2 always wanting 2 argue! The last time I seen him we were fine, but we haven't seen each other in 2 weeks (both went home for the holidays) & since the day we both left he's just been angry with me! I call him just 2 talk & then he starts going off about the things that caused us 2 breakup & says some mean things.

I just don't understand why he's acting this way now?