babygirl

I recently broke up with a guy after a year and a half of going out because he wouldn't introduce me to his kids or family. After we broke up a close friend of mine who is a male and his friend told me my boyfriend had been cheating on me too. Even though my ex denies it. Anyway, the two guys are close friends. They both like me. I am interested in one of them and he feels the same. However, the other guy is becoming very jealous. In fact he is jealous of any man that comes my way. And there is no way I would ever go for this guy. He is not my type at all! Now this is my question. I do not want to come between these two friends. But I can't deny my feelings either. What should I do?

I was with this guy for a year and a half. I'll admit I fell for him. There was nothing I wouldn't do for him. We are both divorced due to cheating spouses. He is my type all the way. Good looking, funny, we always have fun together. Here's my dilema. His children do not even know I exist. They are 13 and 17. He hides me from them. The guy never told me he loves me. Easter came and he was without his children. He was going to his family's house. He never invited me. Then his ex called and asked him if he wanted his boys for the day and he accepted. Which of course I realize they are his children. But even she knows she can impose on our personal time because he has not welcomed me into his life. After a year and a half!!!! Long story short...I broke up with him and now guys I know are coming to me and telling me he was cheating on me. Now these men are attracted to me so this leaves me confused but it does makes sense. One even said he ran into him at a bar one night when we were together and my then boyfriend was telling him how he left work early to try and get this girl at the gym to go out with him so he could have sex with her that night. She never showed and he was mad. Now my ex is calling me and telling me he misses me...he loves me. And that he was a heel. When I told him about the rumors he denied them. He said these guys are just saying this because they want me. He hasn't given up yet and keeps saying he can't stop thinking of me. What should I do?

Help guys! I broke up with my boyfriend yesterday after 7 months. He was a real sweet guy but was married for 16 years and divorced because his wife cheated on him and now lives with her boyfriend....IN THE SAME TOWN!!!! He has been tortured by having this in his face everyday and carries around alot of anger over it. His children live with him two weeks out of the month and with her two weeks out of the month.His weeks on with his kids he actually sneaks to talk to me. They do not know I exist. Their ages are 16 and 12. He has said that he feels bad there are so many screwed up changes and doesn't want to cause more upset in their lives. Furthermore, I can tell he is still trying to get over his ex although I don't think he would ever take her back. It was just really hard sharing his heart with her. Great guy just don't want to play second. Did I do the right thing?

This is about my friend. Last winter 10 days before Christmas her husband decided to leave her and their two young children. Turns out he was having an affair. 13 days after the divorce he married his girlfriend. They flaunt their relationship and the new wife is making it very difficult to converse with her ex over issues concerning the children. Now they want every other weekend with the kids. My friend only asked if she could meet the new wife before overnights began. Of course the new wife did not agree to this. Even when my friend was nice enough to introduce herself to this woman she completely ignored her. She purposely causes trouble between the two of them and is the reason behind alot of their disagreements. She obvously feels threatened and does not want them to get along. Any suggestions on how to handle this and should she allow overnights without this meeting? She does have a right to know who her children will be spending time with. Help me help her!

I just got off the phone with my husband who filed divorce a year ago. It has been so painful. In addition I found out he was seeing a woman immediately after we seperated. A couple of months after we seperated we tried to patch things up even though half the time he was sleeping on the couch. Turns out he was still seeing her during that time. No wonder it was impossible to fix. One month away from divorce and he is begging for me back saying that he never loved her and he realizes now how much he loves me and doesn't want to live without me. He is even willing to get counseling for himself. Tonight I told him that I just can't be with him anymore. I can't trust him and I just can't get over what he has done to me. Why do I feel so bad? I do love him however I am disgusted by what he has done to me and our children. Am I doing the right thing. It just hurts so bad and I hate to break up our family. Am I doing the right thing?

I have been married for twelve years to a man that although wonderful at times always got going when times got tough. My daughter became ill at 10 months old (11 yearts ago). We spent 8 months in the hospital only for her to have brain damage in the end. So we have had alot of sadness. Anyway, over the years my husband has left me quite a few times. A year ago he left on Halloween and although I didn't know started seeing a woman not to long after. A couple of months went by and he came home only for it to fall apart again and left a little over a month later and then he filed for divorce. Some months later since I figured our marriage was over I started dating. Even though I haven't met the man of my dreams yet. My husband behaved very jealously. Now it is 2 weeks before our divorce and he is proclaiming his undying love to me and even willing to get himself therapy. I feel like an idiot for even considering taking him back. What should I do? I'm so confused.