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  • 8 Months in and No I Love You?

    I've been with my boyfriend for about 8 months and everything seems utterly perfect. I stay over his house every night (except when occasionally our schedules conflict) We go out to dinner we do fun activities together, but I can't help but wonder why no Love word has been said yet. He's 33 and i'm 25... We met at a bar and have been inseparable ever since. I haven't felt so strongly about someone in a long time as I feel towards him.. But I can't help but be nervous. He doesn't really bring up the future except mentioning how he'd like to go on a vacation with me.. But I just don't understand what is taking so long for the words... Its starting to make me a tad bit insecure.. and I really dont wanna say the word first... Any advice suggestions?

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating7 years ago
  • where should my relationship be at the 8 month mark?

    I've been with my boyfriend for about 8 months and everything seems utterly perfect. I stay over his house every night (except when occasionally our schedules conflict) We go out to dinner we do fun activities together, but I can't help but wonder why no Love word has been said yet. I haven't felt so strongly about someone in a long time as I feel towards him.. But I can't help but be nervous. He doesn't really bring up the future except mentioning how he'd like to go on a vacation with me.. But I just don't understand what is taking so long...

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating7 years ago
  • relationship advice?

    My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 7 months. It took us a while to actually discuss a relationship but a few months ago he finally used the word "boyfriend". Everything has been going so great I didn't feel the need to worry about titles. Ever since the first night I met him we've been inseparable. I think i've only slept at home 5x in the last 7 months which I know is a little unusual... but i genuinely feel like he is the one, but I'm slightly worried because of how since we met i've been staying at his house even though he asks me there.

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating7 years ago
  • Guy i like isn't over an ex said hes not ready for a relationship?

    About a month ago I met this guy at a bar and Later that night I realized I had gone to high school with him. I found him on facebook and sent him a message. He gave me his number and I was like sweet so I gave him mine. A week later he messaged me asking if I wanted to grab some drinks. I was like sure I'm down. I met up with him at a bar and I think we hit it off he bought me a drink and then we went on drive around town. We talked even more and then he dropped me off. A week later he asked me if I wanted to hang out I went to his friends house and we watched TV. I was like this is a good sign meeting his friend, and asking to hang out again so soon.

    About a week later he asked me if I wanted to hang out again, he came and picked me up (sounds like a date right) and we drove around for like 2 hours before deciding to go to his sisters house. Another good sign right? His sister knew who I was a ran up to me, in my head I'm thinking yes! this might actually go somewhere. As we were sitting on the couch alone he kissed me. Not like any of my other first kisses, we were like staring at eachother for a few minutes before we went for it. Then he couldn't keep his hands off me, he held my hand pulled me close etc. That night we ended up sleeping together and it was good, really good. But the next morning he jumped out of bed and got dressed and thats when I was thinking. Oh NO! this isn't good. He bought me a coffee and drove me home. No kiss. Ok it is what it is. Then two days later he asked me to come over to his sisters again. I'm like twice in one week this is awesome! I get there and hes kind of distant, we hang out and then he falls asleep. I'm drunk at this point so I say **** it and crawl into bed with him. He wakes up the next morning and pulls me into his arms. I think ok this is a good sign we didn't have sex but we're cuddling awesome!

    A week goes by and he texts me asks me how i'm doing. I ask him if he wants to hang out he says he doesn't want to and that he's exhausted. Ok whatever but atleast he's texting me right? Then the following weekend he asks me if i want to go to a bar with him, I say i'm already out but come here? He says hes to drunk and to come over after. I get there and and he hugs me then tells me he's not ready for a relationship, i'm dumbfounded just say ok.

    I stupidly have sex with him because it's too good to pass up, then we get to talking I tell him it sucks that he doesn't want a relationship right now because I really like him. He tells me he likes me too and enjoys when we hang out together but he's just really messed up right now after his breakup. He said that he respects me and he doesn't want it to feel like a "walk of shame" I give him credit for being honest but at the same time I dont know what I should do. I told him he needs to not be so cute and sexy and he replied your the sexy one i'm just goofy.

    Should I stay and hope he changes his mind or run. He's always wicked sweet and I dont think hes a "bad" guy. He looks at me like I've never seen anyone look at me before literally makes me weak in the knees. I can't explain it but I truly believe there is something between us. Is it worth it in the long run?

    Any advice how to handle this?

    4 AnswersOther - Family & Relationships8 years ago
  • What should i do in this situation? Please help!?

    About a month ago I met this guy at a bar and Later that night I realized I had gone to high school with him. I found him on facebook and sent him a message. He gave me his number and I was like sweet so I gave him mine. A week later he messaged me asking if I wanted to grab some drinks. I was like sure I'm down. I met up with him at a bar and I think we hit it off he bought me a drink and then we went on drive around town. We talked even more and then he dropped me off. A week later he asked me if I wanted to hang out I went to his friends house and we watched TV. I was like this is a good sign meeting his friend, and asking to hang out again so soon.

    About a week later he asked me if I wanted to hang out again, he came and picked me up (sounds like a date right) and we drove around for like 2 hours before deciding to go to his sisters house. Another good sign right? His sister knew who I was a ran up to me, in my head I'm thinking yes! this might actually go somewhere. As we were sitting on the couch alone he kissed me. Not like any of my other first kisses, we were like staring at eachother for a few minutes before we went for it. Then he couldn't keep his hands off me, he held my hand pulled me close etc. That night we ended up sleeping together and it was good, really good. But the next morning he jumped out of bed and got dressed and thats when I was thinking. Oh NO! this isn't good. He bought me a coffee and drove me home. No kiss. Ok it is what it is. Then two days later he asked me to come over to his sisters again. I'm like twice in one week this is awesome! I get there and hes kind of distant, we hang out and then he falls asleep. I'm drunk at this point so I say **** it and crawl into bed with him. He wakes up the next morning and pulls me into his arms. I think ok this is a good sign we didn't have sex but we're cuddling awesome!

    A week goes by and he texts me asks me how i'm doing. I ask him if he wants to hang out he says he doesn't want to and that he's exhausted. Ok whatever but atleast he's texting me right? Then the following weekend he asks me if i want to go to a bar with him, I say i'm already out but come here? He says hes to drunk and to come over after. I get there and and he hugs me then tells me he's not ready for a relationship, i'm dumbfounded just say ok.

    I stupidly have sex with him because it's too good to pass up, then we get to talking I tell him it sucks that he doesn't want a relationship right now because I really like him. He tells me he likes me too and enjoys when we hang out together but he's just really messed up right now after his breakup. He said that he respects me and he doesn't want it to feel like a "walk of shame" I give him credit for being honest but at the same time I dont know what I should do. I told him he needs to not be so cute and sexy and he replied your the sexy one i'm just goofy.

    Should I stay and hope he changes his mind or run. He's always wicked sweet and I dont think hes a "bad" guy. He looks at me like I've never seen anyone look at me before literally makes me weak in the knees. I can't explain it but I truly believe there is something between us. Is it worth it in the long run?

    Any advice how to handle this?

    2 AnswersFriends8 years ago
  • Sorry its long but i really need advice!?

    About a month ago I met this guy at a bar and Later that night I realized I had gone to high school with him. I found him on facebook and sent him a message. He gave me his number and I was like sweet so I gave him mine. A week later he messaged me asking if I wanted to grab some drinks. I was like sure I'm down. I met up with him at a bar and I think we hit it off he bought me a drink and then we went on drive around town. We talked even more and then he dropped me off. A week later he asked me if I wanted to hang out I went to his friends house and we watched TV. I was like this is a good sign meeting his friend, and asking to hang out again so soon.

    About a week later he asked me if I wanted to hang out again, he came and picked me up (sounds like a date right) and we drove around for like 2 hours before deciding to go to his sisters house. Another good sign right? His sister knew who I was a ran up to me, in my head I'm thinking yes! this might actually go somewhere. As we were sitting on the couch alone he kissed me. Not like any of my other first kisses, we were like staring at eachother for a few minutes before we went for it. Then he couldn't keep his hands off me, he held my hand pulled me close etc. That night we ended up sleeping together and it was good, really good. But the next morning he jumped out of bed and got dressed and thats when I was thinking. Oh NO! this isn't good. He bought me a coffee and drove me home. No kiss. Ok it is what it is. Then two days later he asked me to come over to his sisters again. I'm like twice in one week this is awesome! I get there and hes kind of distant, we hang out and then he falls asleep. I'm drunk at this point so I say **** it and crawl into bed with him. He wakes up the next morning and pulls me into his arms. I think ok this is a good sign we didn't have sex but we're cuddling awesome!

    A week goes by and he texts me asks me how i'm doing. I ask him if he wants to hang out he says he doesn't want to and that he's exhausted. Ok whatever but atleast he's texting me right? Then the following weekend he asks me if i want to go to a bar with him, I say i'm already out but come here? He says hes to drunk and to come over after. I get there and and he hugs me then tells me he's not ready for a relationship, i'm dumbfounded just say ok.

    I stupidly have sex with him because it's too good to pass up, then we get to talking I tell him it sucks that he doesn't want a relationship right now because I really like him. He tells me he likes me too and enjoys when we hang out together but he's just really messed up right now after his breakup. He said that he respects me and he doesn't want it to feel like a "walk of shame" I give him credit for being honest but at the same time I dont know what I should do. I told him he needs to not be so cute and sexy and he replied your the sexy one i'm just goofy.

    Should I stay and hope he changes his mind or run. He's always wicked sweet and I dont think hes a "bad" guy. He looks at me like I've never seen anyone look at me before literally makes me weak in the knees. I can't explain it but I truly believe there is something between us. Is it worth it in the long run?

    Any advice how to handle this?

    2 AnswersOther - Family & Relationships8 years ago
  • What should I do advice please!?

    About a month ago I met this guy at a bar and Later that night I realized I had gone to high school with him. I found him on facebook and sent him a message. He gave me his number and I was like sweet so I gave him mine. A week later he messaged me asking if I wanted to grab some drinks. I was like sure I'm down. I met up with him at a bar and I think we hit it off he bought me a drink and then we went on drive around town. We talked even more and then he dropped me off. A week later he asked me if I wanted to hang out I went to his friends house and we watched TV. I was like this is a good sign meeting his friend, and asking to hang out again so soon.

    About a week later he asked me if I wanted to hang out again, he came and picked me up (sounds like a date right) and we drove around for like 2 hours before deciding to go to his sisters house. Another good sign right? His sister knew who I was a ran up to me, in my head I'm thinking yes! this might actually go somewhere. As we were sitting on the couch alone he kissed me. Not like any of my other first kisses, we were like staring at eachother for a few minutes before we went for it. Then he couldn't keep his hands off me, he held my hand pulled me close etc. That night we ended up sleeping together and it was good, really good. But the next morning he jumped out of bed and got dressed and thats when I was thinking. Oh NO! this isn't good. He bought me a coffee and drove me home. No kiss. Ok it is what it is. Then two days later he asked me to come over to his sisters again. I'm like twice in one week this is awesome! I get there and hes kind of distant, we hang out and then he falls asleep. I'm drunk at this point so I say **** it and crawl into bed with him. He wakes up the next morning and pulls me into his arms. I think ok this is a good sign we didn't have sex but we're cuddling awesome!

    A week goes by and he texts me asks me how i'm doing. I ask him if he wants to hang out he says he doesn't want to and that he's exhausted. Ok whatever but atleast he's texting me right? Then the following weekend he asks me if i want to go to a bar with him, I say i'm already out but come here? He says hes to drunk and to come over after. I get there and and he hugs me then tells me he's not ready for a relationship, i'm dumbfounded just say ok.

    I stupidly have sex with him because it's too good to pass up, then we get to talking I tell him it sucks that he doesn't want a relationship right now because I really like him. He tells me he likes me too and enjoys when we hang out together but he's just really messed up right now after his breakup. He said that he respects me and he doesn't want it to feel like a "walk of shame" I give him credit for being honest but at the same time I dont know what I should do. I told him he needs to not be so cute and sexy and he replied your the sexy one i'm just goofy.

    Should I stay and hope he changes his mind or run. He's always wicked sweet and I dont think hes a "bad" guy. He looks at me like I've never seen anyone look at me before literally makes me weak in the knees.

    Any advice how to handle this?

  • I really like this guy, but hes not over his ex?

    About a month ago I met this guy at a bar and Later that night I realized I had gone to high school with him. I found him on facebook and sent him a message. He gave me his number and I was like sweet so I gave him mine. A week later he messaged me asking if I wanted to grab some drinks. I was like sure I'm down. I met up with him at a bar and I think we hit it off he bought me a drink and then we went on drive around town. We talked even more and then he dropped me off. A week later he asked me if I wanted to hang out I went to his friends house and we watched TV. I was like this is a good sign meeting his friend, and asking to hang out again so soon.

    About a week later he asked me if I wanted to hang out again, he came and picked me up (sounds like a date right) and we drove around for like 2 hours before deciding to go to his sisters house. Another good sign right? His sister knew who I was a ran up to me, in my head I'm thinking yes! this might actually go somewhere. As we were sitting on the couch alone he kissed me. Not like any of my other first kisses, we were like staring at eachother for a few minutes before we went for it. Then he couldn't keep his hands off me, he held my hand pulled me close etc. That night we ended up sleeping together and it was good, really good. But the next morning he jumped out of bed and got dressed and thats when I was thinking. Oh NO! this isn't good. He bought me a coffee and drove me home. No kiss. Ok it is what it is. Then two days later he asked me to come over to his sisters again. I'm like twice in one week this is awesome! I get there and hes kind of distant, we hang out and then he falls asleep. I'm drunk at this point so I say **** it and crawl into bed with him. He wakes up the next morning and pulls me into his arms. I think ok this is a good sign we didn't have sex but we're cuddling awesome!

    A week goes by and he texts me asks me how i'm doing. I ask him if he wants to hang out he says he doesn't want to and that he's exhausted. Ok whatever but atleast he's texting me right? Then the following weekend he asks me if i want to go to a bar with him, I say i'm already out but come here? He says hes to drunk and to come over after. I get there and and he hugs me then tells me he's not ready for a relationship, i'm dumbfounded just say ok.

    I stupidly have sex with him because it's too good to pass up, then we get to talking I tell him it sucks that he doesn't want a relationship right now because I really like him. He tells me he likes me too and enjoys when we hang out together but he's just really messed up right now after his breakup. He said that he respects me and he doesn't want it to feel like a "walk of shame" I give him credit for being honest but at the same time I dont know what I should do. I told him he needs to not be so cute and sexy and he replied your the sexy one i'm just goofy.

    Should I stay and hope he changes his mind or run. He's always wicked sweet and I dont think hes a "bad" guy. He looks at me like I've never seen anyone look at me before literally makes me weak in the knees.

    Any advice how to handle this?

  • Talking to a guy that isn't over his ex?

    About a month ago I met this guy at a bar and Later that night I realized I had gone to high school with him. I found him on facebook and sent him a message. He gave me his number and I was like sweet so I gave him mine. A week later he messaged me asking if I wanted to grab some drinks. I was like sure I'm down. I met up with him at a bar and I think we hit it off he bought me a drink and then we went on drive around town. We talked even more and then he dropped me off. A week later he asked me if I wanted to hang out I went to his friends house and we watched TV. I was like this is a good sign meeting his friend, and asking to hang out again so soon.

    About a week later he asked me if I wanted to hang out again, he came and picked me up (sounds like a date right) and we drove around for like 2 hours before deciding to go to his sisters house. Another good sign right? His sister knew who I was a ran up to me, in my head I'm thinking yes! this might actually go somewhere. As we were sitting on the couch alone he kissed me. Not like any of my other first kisses, we were like staring at eachother for a few minutes before we went for it. Then he couldn't keep his hands off me, he held my hand pulled me close etc. That night we ended up sleeping together and it was good, really good. But the next morning he jumped out of bed and got dressed and thats when I was thinking. Oh NO! this isn't good. He bought me a coffee and drove me home. No kiss. Ok it is what it is. Then two days later he asked me to come over to his sisters again. I'm like twice in one week this is awesome! I get there and hes kind of distant, we hang out and then he falls asleep. I'm drunk at this point so I say **** it and crawl into bed with him. He wakes up the next morning and pulls me into his arms. I think ok this is a good sign we didn't have sex but we're cuddling awesome!

    A week goes by and he texts me asks me how i'm doing. I ask him if he wants to hang out he says he doesn't want to and that he's exhausted. Ok whatever but atleast he's texting me right? Then the following weekend he asks me if i want to go to a bar with him, I say i'm already out but come here? He says hes to drunk and to come over after. I get there and and he hugs me then tells me he's not ready for a relationship, i'm dumbfounded just say ok.

    I stupidly have sex with him because it's too good to pass up, then we get to talking I tell him it sucks that he doesn't want a relationship right now because I really like him. He tells me he likes me too and enjoys when we hang out together but he's just really messed up right now after his breakup. I give him credit for being honest but at the same time I dont know what I should do. Should I stay and hope he changes his mind or run. He's always wicked sweet and I dont think hes a "bad" guy. He looks at me like I've never seen anyone look at me before literally makes me weak in the knees.

    Any advice?

    4 AnswersOther - Family & Relationships8 years ago
  • The guy I'm seeing isn't over his ex? advice please serious advice?

    About a month ago I met this guy at a bar and Later that night I realized I had gone to high school with him. I found him on facebook and sent him a message. He gave me his number and I was like sweet so I gave him mine. A week later he messaged me asking if I wanted to grab some drinks. I was like sure I'm down. I met up with him at a bar and I think we hit it off he bought me a drink and then we went on drive around town. We talked even more and then he dropped me off. A week later he asked me if I wanted to hang out I went to his friends house and we watched TV. I was like this is a good sign meeting his friend, and asking to hang out again so soon.

    About a week later he asked me if I wanted to hang out again, he came and picked me up (sounds like a date right) and we drove around for like 2 hours before deciding to go to his sisters house. Another good sign right? His sister knew who I was a ran up to me, in my head I'm thinking yes! this might actually go somewhere. As we were sitting on the couch alone he kissed me. Not like any of my other first kisses, we were like staring at eachother for a few minutes before we went for it. Then he couldn't keep his hands off me, he held my hand pulled me close etc. That night we ended up sleeping together and it was good, really good. But the next morning he jumped out of bed and got dressed and thats when I was thinking. Oh NO! this isn't good. He bought me a coffee and drove me home. No kiss. Ok it is what it is. Then two days later he asked me to come over to his sisters again. I'm like twice in one week this is awesome! I get there and hes kind of distant, we hang out and then he falls asleep. I'm drunk at this point so I say **** it and crawl into bed with him. He wakes up the next morning and pulls me into his arms. I think ok this is a good sign we didn't have sex but we're cuddling awesome!

    A week goes by and he texts me asks me how i'm doing. I ask him if he wants to hang out he says he doesn't want to and that he's exhausted. Ok whatever but atleast he's texting me right? Then the following weekend he asks me if i want to go to a bar with him, I say i'm already out but come here? He says hes to drunk and to come over after. I get there and and he hugs me then tells me he's not ready for a relationship, i'm dumbfounded just say ok.

    I stupidly have sex with him because it's too good to pass up, then we get to talking I tell him it sucks that he doesn't want a relationship right now because I really like him. He tells me he likes me too and enjoys when we hang out together but he's just really messed up right now after his breakup. I give him credit for being honest but at the same time I dont know what I should do. Should I stay and hope he changes his mind or run. He's always wicked sweet and I dont think hes a "bad" guy. He looks at me like I've never seen anyone look at me before literally makes me weak in the knees.

    Any advice?

    4 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • He doesn't want a relationship is it me? or in general?

    I have been talking to this guy for a little over a month. We went out for drinks, he took me to his friends house, and his sisters house. We ended up having sex on the third date, and then hung out 2 days later and just chilled with his sister. We shared a bed but didn't sleep together.

    Last weekend he invited me over and when i got there he told me he isn't ready for a relationship yet, and he's trying to get his life straight after a bad break up 5 months ago. I told him that it kind of sucks because i really like him, he then told me he likes me to and enjoys our time together.. And that he was respect for me and doesn't want it to feel like a walk of shame. He never takes his eyes off me when we're together and always has this huge contagious smile on his face when he looks at me. He always pulls me into his arms when we're on the couch.

    it's confusing in a way i feel like i'm getting mixed signals. I had a FWB relationship before but i feel like their is something real between us.

    I like him so much and haven't felt this way in awhile but i'm also scared. I feel like there are real feelings here, but i dont want to be used? Please any advice.

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • is he not ready for a relationship, or just not interested in me?

    I have been talking to this guy for a little over a month. We went out for drinks, he took me to his friends house, and his sisters house. We ended up having sex on the third date, and then hung out 2 days later and just chilled with his sister.

    Last weekend he invited me over and when i got there he told me he isn't ready for a relationship yet, and he's trying to get his life straight after a bad break up 5 months ago. I told him that it kind of sucks because i really like him, he then told me he likes me to and enjoys our time together.. And that he was respect for me and doesn't want it to feel like a walk of shame. He never takes his eyes off me when we're together and always has this huge contagious smile on his face when he looks at me. He always pulls me into his arms when we're on the couch.

    I like him so much and haven't felt this way in awhile but i'm also scared. I feel like there are real feelings here, but i dont want to be used? Please any advice.

    3 AnswersFriends8 years ago
  • Is he just not interested, or not ready?

    I have been talking to this guy for a little over a month. We went out for drinks, he took me to his friends house, and his sisters house. We ended up having sex on the third date, and then hung out 2 days later and just chilled with his sister.

    Last weekend he invited me over and when i got there he told me he isn't ready for a relationship yet, and he's trying to get his life straight after a bad break up 5 months ago. I told him that it kind of sucks because i really like him, he then told me he likes me to and enjoys our time together.. And that he was respect for me and doesn't want it to feel like a walk of shame. He never takes his eyes off me when we're together and always has this huge contagious smile on his face when he looks at me. He always pulls me into his arms when we're on the couch.

    I like him so much and haven't felt this way in awhile but i'm also scared. I feel like there are real feelings here, but i dont want to be used? Please any advice.

    Singles & Dating8 years ago
  • Advice from guys, What should i do?

    I have been talking to this guy for a little over a month. the first time we hung out we just went to get a drink and then drove around and talked. It was really refreshing and he was easy to talk to. The next week he invited me over to his friends house to watch Hockey. A week after that he came to pick me up we were gonna go out for drinks but just ended up driving around aimlessly for a couple hours talking and eventually took me to his sisters house.

    We got there and his sister instantly knew who i was and introduced herself. We hung out there all night and then he kissed me. It was unlike any first kiss i've had. It was the movie kind where we stared into eachothers eyes for a few minutes beforehand. We ended up sleeping together that night and it was like nothing i've ever experienced. Two days later he asked me hang out again. I went to his sisters house and we hung out played drinking games and I ended up sleeping over with him but we didn't have sex, and cuddled the next morning.

    Then it seemed like he went into hibernation mode. I talked to him a few times in between but hadn't seen him in 2 weeks. This past weekend he invited me back over to his sisters but when i walked into the door he told me he wasnt looking for a relationship right now, and that hes kind of ****** up right now and needs to get his head straight. He got out of a relationship 5 months ago with the a g/f of 2 years.

    I told him that that kind of sucks because I like him, he goes on to tell me he likes me too, and enjoys hanging out with me, and that he respects me and doesn't want this to feel like a "walk of shame" When he looks at me or more like stares he always has this huge smile on his face and it literally makes me want to melt and jump into his arms. When we were just cuddling i could hear his heart racing like crazy. I feel like he does like me i just dont want to get hurt.

    He's a nice guy and really sensitive he's also a scorpio so i think he's still grieving over the past relationship. Should we continue to do what we're doing and see what happens? Or is it just a waste of time.

    Thank you!

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • Advice Please, I like this guy but he's not looking for a relationship?

    I have been talking to this guy for a little over a month. the first time we hung out we just went to get a drink and then drove around and talked. It was really refreshing and he was easy to talk to. The next week he invited me over to his friends house to watch Hockey. A week after that he came to pick me up we were gonna go out for drinks but just ended up driving around aimlessly for a couple hours talking and eventually took me to his sisters house.

    We got there and his sister instantly knew who i was and introduced herself. We hung out there all night and then he kissed me. It was unlike any first kiss i've had. It was the movie kind where we stared into eachothers eyes for a few minutes beforehand. We ended up sleeping together that night and it was like nothing i've ever experienced. Two days later he asked me hang out again. I went to his sisters house and we hung out played drinking games and I ended up sleeping over with him but we didn't have sex, and cuddled the next morning.

    Then it seemed like he went into hibernation mode. I talked to him a few times in between but hadn't seen him in 2 weeks. This past weekend he invited me back over to his sisters but when i walked into the door he told me he wasnt looking for a relationship right now, and that hes kind of ****** up right now and needs to get his head straight. He got out of a relationship 5 months ago with the a g/f of 2 years.

    I told him that that kind of sucks because I like him, he goes on to tell me he likes me too, and enjoys hanging out with me, and that he respects me and doesn't want this to feel like a "walk of shame" When he looks at me or more like stares he always has this huge smile on his face and it literally makes me want to melt and jump into his arms. When we were just cuddling i could hear his heart racing like crazy. I feel like he does like me i just dont want to get hurt.

    He's a nice guy and really sensitive he's also a scorpio so i think he's still grieving over the past relationship. Should we continue to do what we're doing and see what happens? Or is it just a waste of time.

    Thank you!

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • Should I stick it out and see where it goes? or run for the hills.?

    I have been talking to this guy for a little over a month. the first time we hung out we just went to get a drink and then drove around and talked. It was really refreshing and he was easy to talk to. The next week he invited me over to his friends house to watch Hockey. A week after that he came to pick me up we were gonna go out for drinks but just ended up driving around aimlessly for a couple hours talking and eventually took me to his sisters house.

    We got there and his sister instantly knew who i was and introduced herself. We hung out there all night and then he kissed me. It was unlike any first kiss i've had. It was the movie kind where we stared into eachothers eyes for a few minutes beforehand. We ended up sleeping together that night and it was like nothing i've ever experienced. Two days later he asked me hang out again. I went to his sisters house and we hung out played drinking games and I ended up sleeping over with him but we didn't have sex, and cuddled the next morning.

    Then it seemed like he went into hibernation mode. I talked to him a few times in between but hadn't seen him in 2 weeks. This past weekend he invited me back over to his sisters but when i walked into the door he told me he wasnt looking for a relationship right now, and that hes kind of ****** up right now and needs to get his head straight. He got out of a relationship 5 months ago with the a g/f of 2 years.

    I told him that that kind of sucks because I like him, he goes on to tell me he likes me too, and enjoys hanging out with me, and that he respects me and doesn't want this to feel like a "walk of shame" When he looks at me or more like stares he always has this huge smile on his face and it literally makes me want to melt and jump into his arms.

    He's really sweet and we cuddle, and holds me its really tender. But i dont know what to do. Should i play it out, it doesn't seem like I'm a **** buddy either or run for the hills. I swear I can feel something real between us.

    He's a nice guy and really sensitive he's also a scorpio so i think he's still grieving over the past relationship.

    Advice please?

    2 AnswersOther - Family & Relationships8 years ago
  • I really like this guy, But he's not ready to commit. He seems like he has feelings?

    I have been talking to this guy for a little over a month. the first time we hung out we just went to get a drink and then drove around and talked. It was really refreshing and he was easy to talk to. The next week he invited me over to his friends house to watch Hockey. A week after that he came to pick me up we were gonna go out for drinks but just ended up driving around aimlessly for a couple hours and eventually took me to his sisters house.

    We got there and his sister instantly knew who i was and introduced herself. We hung out there all night and then he kissed me. We ended up sleeping together that night and it was like nothing i've ever experienced. Two days later he asked me hang out again. I went to his sisters house and we hung out played drinking games and I ended up sleeping over with him but we didn't have sex.

    Then it seemed like he went into hibernation mode. I talked to him a few times in between but hadn't seen him in 2 weeks. This past weekend he invited me back over to his sisters but when i walked into the door he told me he wasnt looking for a relationship right now, and that hes kind of ****** up right now and needs to get his head straight. He got out of a relationship 5 months ago with the a g/f of 2 years.

    I told him that that kind of sucks because I like him, he goes on to tell me he likes me too, and enjoys hanging out with me, and that he respects me and doesn't want this to feel like a "walk of shame"

    He's really sweet and we cuddle, and holds me its really tender. But i dont know what to do. Should i play it out, it doesn't seem like I'm a **** buddy either.

    He's a nice guy and really sensitive he's also a scorpio so i think he's still grieving over the past relationship.

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • Scorpio male getting over ex.. doesn't want to commit?

    I have been talking to this guy for a little over a month. He's a scorpio and I'm a capricorn. the first time we hung out we just went to get a drink and then drove around and talked. It was really refreshing and he was easy to talk to. The next week he invited me over to his friends house to watch Hockey. A week after that he came to pick me up we were gonna go out for drinks but just ended up driving around aimlessly for a couple hours and eventually took me to his sisters house.

    We got there and his sister instantly knew who i was and introduced herself. We hung out there all night and then he kissed me. We ended up sleeping together that night and it was like nothing i've ever experienced. Two days later he asked me hang out again. I went to his sisters house and we hung out played drinking games and I ended up sleeping over with him but we didn't have sex.

    Then it seemed like he went into hibernation mode. I talked to him a few times in between but hadn't seen him in 2 weeks. This past weekend he invited me back over to his sisters but when i walked into the door he told me he wasnt looking for a relationship right now, and that hes kind of ****** up right now and needs to get his head straight. He got out of a relationship 5 months ago with the a g/f of 2 years.

    I told him that that kind of sucks because I like him, he goes on to tell me he likes me too, and enjoys hanging out with me, and that he respects me and doesn't want this to feel like a "walk of shame"

    He's really sweet and we cuddle, and holds me its really tender. But i dont know what to do. Should i play it out, it doesn't seem like I'm a **** buddy either.

    He's a nice guy and really sensitive he's also a scorpio so i think he's still grieving over the past relationship.

    5 AnswersHoroscopes8 years ago
  • i really like this guy but he's scare to commit? getting over an ex?

    I have been talking to this guy for a little over a month. the first time we hung out we just went to get a drink and then drove around and talked. It was really refreshing and he was easy to talk to. The next week he invited me over to his friends house to watch Hockey. A week after that he came to pick me up we were gonna go out for drinks but just ended up driving around aimlessly for a couple hours and eventually took me to his sisters house.

    We got there and his sister instantly knew who i was and introduced herself. We hung out there all night and then he kissed me. We ended up sleeping together that night and it was like nothing i've ever experienced. Two days later he asked me hang out again. I went to his sisters house and we hung out played drinking games and I ended up sleeping over with him but we didn't have sex.

    Then it seemed like he went into hibernation mode. I talked to him a few times in between but hadn't seen him in 2 weeks. This past weekend he invited me back over to his sisters but when i walked into the door he told me he wasnt looking for a relationship right now, and that hes kind of ****** up right now and needs to get his head straight. He got out of a relationship 5 months ago with the a g/f of 2 years.

    I told him that that kind of sucks because I like him, he goes on to tell me he likes me too, and enjoys hanging out with me, and that he respects me and doesn't want this to feel like a "walk of shame"

    He's really sweet and we cuddle, and holds me its really tender. But i dont know what to do. Should i play it out, it doesn't seem like I'm a **** buddy either.

    He's a nice guy and really sensitive he's also a scorpio so i think he's still grieving over the past relationship.

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • Help any ideas to discover his intentions with out blatenly asking? I'm so nervous?

    I've been the girl to be used quite a few times due to blurred lines.. Please any advice would be appreciated

    I met this guy a month ago at the bar but then soon realized I went to H.S. with him. He's 27 and I'm 24. Since then we've been occasionally hanging out. I thought we were just friends because he never made a move or insinuated anything differently. But he did buy me a drink the first time we went out and constantly asked me what music i wanted to listen to or if i was cold.

    He's also a scorpio and I'm a capricorn if that helps. I heard scorpios don't like to talk about their feelings.

    The second time we hung out he invited me to his friends house to watch a game. I thought it was odd but i liked him so i went.

    Then the third time we hung out we ended up going to his sisters house and she already knew who i was. She ended up running up to me and introducing herself even though she already knew my name. When his sister left the room he ended up kissing me. Then it seemed like everytime his sister left the room he'd pounce on me. lol We ended up having sex. Which kind of confused me because I still don't know where we stand, but he did message me the next day asking how i was.

    Then 2 days later he asked me hangout with him and his friends but we didn't end up having sex but slept together in the same bed. When he woke up and noticed i was there he pulled me into his arms.

    I didn't get to see him this past weekend which i was kind of disappointed about but he did text me saturday to ask how i was doing.

    Any ideas on how to find out his intentions

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago