Bright Eyes

In New York City, they are offering the "morning after" pill to high school students. No parent permission needed, if they ask (and their parents have not signed a paper saying that they do not give their permission for it-it is not a sheet that asks for permission, it is one asking if there is a lack of permission) (if it is not handed in, permission is implied) (Only 2% of parents hand in this paper) they are given the pill.

At our high school in rural Pennsylvania students may get condoms from the school nurse, but that's it.

What forms of birth control are/were offered at your high school?

Where do you live?

I'm 16 and have wavy blonde hair. It'd be fine if it wasn't so greasy. And, after using Herbal Essence (which made the greasiness worse) I started having dandruff issues. Even after I discontinued use, the dandruff remained. Head and Shoulders does nothing. I need an (inexpensive) shampoo (and conditioner, mousse, other hair products) to get rid of the grease and keep my hair healthy, shiny, and good-smelling.

My therapist, after months of knowing me, has suggested that I go stay in a psychiatric facility for a bit. I think she's right, but I'm very nervous about it. I have terrible depression and anxiety, and even after trying several antidepressants, I am still barely functional. Furthermore, I have not been able to quit self harming.

I want to know what it's like, if they're safe, what I need to take with me (pillow? Blanket? Can I bring my own clothes or a stuffed bear?) (I'm 16, okay. Still sleep with a stuffed bear.), ect. Will I be able to keep my phone? Will there be a way for me to contact my friends and family?

Thank you for the help and guidance...

-M

My boyfriend and I have a very open line of communication when it comes to sex. I know he likes oral, and he knows not to push my head down. He knows that I like my neck bitten, but not my throat. And I know that he's more submissive. Prefers being on the bottom. One of his fantasies is to be bound. Slapped around a bit...but...I'm not dominant. At all. I'm not confident about things in sex, because I'm very self conscious and so scared of him not approving (even though I know that he would be okay with really everything. He's so patient and caring...). I love this boy so much, and want him to be happy and satisfied. So...I guess I need help. Just some advice or, I don't know, serious step by step instructions on the whole dominant, hitting him thing....

Thank you.

-M

My boyfriend recently moved an hour away and so I don't get to see him often. We aren't able to skype due to our completely different schedules and I really miss his voice and face. Is there a way that we could send each other videos (via a website, perhaps)?

Thank you so much!

I've been cutting for almost two years now. A few months ago, I decided I wanted to stop. I told my mom, a few close friends. Threw out razors. Started seeing a therapist. I've had a few minor relapses, but nothing big. Until a few days ago. I have about 400 cuts (not deep, not very wide) on my leg.

Today, I was thinking. Maybe I don't want to stop cutting. It makes me feel better. It makes me feel happy. Releases the pain and anxiety I feel. So...what do you think of this? What should I do? If I should stop, tell me why and how. If not, give some valid reasons. Personal stories. Websites. Help...

Thank you.

My boyfriend has an issue with staying *ahem* hard when he puts on a condom. I've tried distracting him (he likes biting, so I bite his neck or lip), putting in on him myself (even learned how to put it on using my mouth), stimulating "it" after the condom is on, and using different condom brands (he needs extra large ones, so our choices were a bit limited). He generally has no issue staying hard (he will often stay hard after ejaculating or become hard again only a minute or two after wards), but as soon as that condom goes on he's flaccid. I had been on the pill, but had a pretty severe allergic reaction to it, so we're reluctant to have me go back on it. Although he's generally pretty good with controlling when he ejaculates, and I am okay with not using a condom (we are both clean), he insists on using a condom just in case.

What can we do so that he doesn't lose his erection when he puts on a condom?

Also~some little tips to surprise him would be nice. ;)

Thank you!

I cut (yes, I know, I shouldn't, but I was in crisis mode and couldn't think to stop myself) myself on my chest. 50 on the upper, 50 on the lower, 1-2inches wide above and below my left breast. They aren't too deep. I used a clean, fresh razor.

Now, I'm having trouble breathing. It's painful (internally, not on the skin level) and difficult. I can't fill my lungs. I can only take quick, shallow breaths.

When I cut, pretty much right away I became lightheaded. That was a new thing, and I've cut hundreds of times. I have only cut on my chest one other time, and not as severely. The bleeding ended a half hour ago, it was heavy bleeding and lasted 45 minutes.

I am becoming worried about the trouble breathing. Why is this happening? What can I do?

My friends and I would like to start an awareness program at our high school for cutting and self harm. We aren quite sure where to start. What are other schools doing?

Today, trying to be funny, my sister smacked my breast. This was roughly seven hours ago. It was very painful at the time, and there is still a throbbing pain. There is no visible bruising, and I did not ice it.

What can I do to alleviate the pain?

Should I be worried that it's lasting this long?

Thank you very much!

I want the piano notes/tabs/whatever for Running Up That Hill because I'd really like to learn how to play it [onthe virtuoso piano app].

So, this is from my own bored, strange mind when left to wander. Don't worry, I wouldn't harm any one else with it. I wouldn't harm a fly! I was just wondering what substance (when ingested) can kill a person very quickly (within a day or quicker) with a very small amount (like, the size of a pill). Any ideas? Also, how does it kill them, how painful would it be, would they be concious for the entire (or a good chunk) of the time?

I need to read One Day In The Life Of Ivan Denisovich for literature class.

Before I begin is there anything I should know?

Is it difficult to understand or follow?

If yes, what would help? An audiobook? Sparknotes?

And what did you think of this book? Was it good? Bad? Mediocre?

Pain starting in the middle of the scapula radating down. The pain is deep pulsing and it hurts to breath deeply.

15 year old female.

Swimmer for 5 years.

Differential diagnosis please?

I want a case for my iPod touch (it's the newest model). I would really like a case that's very protective, one that can protect the screen and back in case it's dropped. Any suggestions and where can I get the one you're suggesting? I'm hoping not to order one online, but get the case in-store if possible. Thank you very much!

My friend and I were watching What's Eating Gilbert Grape and wondering what could have been wrong with Arnie (Leonardo DiCaprio). We were both thinking it could be a brain tumor....but the way he behaved hinted at autism. Yes, we know it's a movie. But just wondering.

I'm bisexual (I guess). I'm attracted to girls and guys...I've dated several girls and have had sex with the girl I dated last. I have also dated several guys and I really did like the ones I dated. The thing that I'm...concerned about is that the idea of sex with a man skeeves me out. I'm almost grossed out by it. Is there something wrong with me? Will things change? Please help.

If your friend/parent/spouse/sibling/child/family member committed suicide and left you a note, what would you want to see in it? What would be most comforting?

What would you put in a suicide note to a family member/friend? How would you say goodbye? How/would you explain why you killed yourself?

Go to YouTube.

Type in You Raise Me Up~Maggie Jones.

The video is by graywolfgirl1995

This will really help me out. I need to know peoples opinions of my singing, because I've been told that it's good, it's bad, it's amazing, it's horrible. And I don't know what to think. So, I'm asking the opinions of you, the public. People who really don't know me. WHAT DO YOU THINK?

I need an article on somebody (with disabilities, physical or mental) overcoming their obstacle to achieve something (could be major for them or anyone). Could you give me some links?