Lara S

So Im sitting at work on the computer and out of nowhere I cant focus and I feel dizzy . I just got to work so I don't want to talk to my supervisor about it yet , Im hoping it will just go away.. My friend brought in cupcakes and I had one about 10 minutes before hand. Did she poison me? lol jk. But what can I do to make it go away i feel like Im going to throw up and Im crossing fingers its nothing serious.

So someone used my children on their taxes. I already filed my taxes by mail and waiting for them to catch the duplicate SS#. So I was wondering if anybody knows about how long does it take for them to catch it and the process that I will be going thru to claim them.

I am a married mother of 2. We plan on getting a divorce when I get out of boot camp. I want to be able to raise my kids on my own and have a good career. I know I might be deployed as a reservist . Is this the best choice for me? How will life be for me and my children? Please only real answers and I dont need any negativity.

OK so the father of my child is in prison and had a third party (his mother ) file for something in court. They dont have my address and sent it to my mothers house.. I dont receive mail there and dont live there. i have been going back and forth to court for nonsense and they are crazy! What happens if I dont show up and act like i didnt recieve it

Ok this is a long story. But I have moved to Nevada for a better life and opportunity. I planned to take my daughter with me but the grandmother filed for guardianship. She was denied it and we both agreed I would come and get her as soon as the guardianship was over. So now that Im going to get her the father filed for something so I cant take her out of state.. He has never had a job and does not have a stable home also is a felon. What do I do! Im going crazy. The father dosent care about her its the grandmother that is making him do this. Im flying down tomorrow (already had tickets) to get her. They just told me this last minute that they filed for this. They told me that I would be able to come and get her but would have to come back for court. But I need to sign her up for school! Can I do that? Can I file for custody in Nevada, now that she would be with me? Im so confused and lost right now! If anybody has experience or knowledge please , please help. Thank you!

Ok so my daughters grandmother and I had an agreement that she would take care of my daughter until I get on my feet. She has been with her for about 2 years due to me losing my job in May. I also have gotten married and is now pregnant. Im in a stable situation and would like my daughter to come with me now. I spoke with her grandmother and gave her notice before hand. I also wanted to get her because I have spent the night recently for a few days and noticed my daughters behavior change. She had been peeing in her pants and she is 7 years old. Her grandmother lets her do what she wants and there are no rules. She has not peed in her pants with me since she was 3. Also she is an alcoholic and uses drugs! There has also been drug addicts in the home. Her father stays in the home also but smokes weed in the house and brings prostitutes in the home. She lied to the court and told them Liyah (daughter) has her own room. She dosent , she sleeps on the floor while her father has the room for him and his girls that he brings over. The grandmother is legally blind and on welfare and disability. I truley believe she wants my daughter cause of the money.. Also there are no beds in the home due to bedbugs.. In the time I spent the night my arms are scared from bites! So is my daughters. She also smokes around my daughter that has asthma... I saw enough and thought I was doing the right thing by leaving her with a family member until things were right with me , so she can be in a stable place. I have been in school and recieved my certificate so its not like I have been running around doing nothing.. I dont know how I can prove she these things that I have seen.. I know she has a record and so does her father.... What can I bring into court? How can I prove these things? Im lost for words , I realized it was a dumb thing for me to trust another with my child, but I trusted family.... I filed to terminate custody before the hearing for temporary custody, so I dont know if that will help.. PLease is someone knows California Laws or anything about this situation, Please respond. Also I dont need opinions or people that think they know. I would like facts and resources if possible...

Thank you ahead of time!!

Ok I have my certificate for Sterile Processing and did not recieve an externship.. So im having a tough time finding a job. I have called so many hospitals and they only take volunteers to help children etc.. Not for sterile processing.. What can I do ? Where do I go? If anyone else is in the same boat please respond. Im also located in the Bay area ca.. So if anyone is out this way please respond also!

Ok so I been with my boyfriend for 4 years.. He is 30 years old. He still plays video games and rents out a room.. He is very smart , he is a carpenter and mechanic.. But is not putting his skills to work.. He says he is not ready to settle down or for us to move in together. He also says im the one he wants to be with and have a family with so he keeps me around and dosent want me to go anywhere.. WTF? I just also found out im pregnant and I know I cant keep this baby. Not with him and he also dosent want it.. I resent him soo much right now and feel like I hate him.. I feel like when is he going to grow up and take responsiblity and take those steps?? Im tierd and hate him.. I never forced him to do anything he didnt want to.. Mind you ive been around for 4 years..

OK so Im one day late.. But I have been having symptoms . Tierd , dizzy, frequent urination.. Also my stomach is a little bigger.. my first day of my last period was 12/29/2009..I took a test last night but it was negative.. But I still dont have my period.. Should I worry?

ok this is very serious. if i guy that is supposed to be straight likes his booty licked does he have gay tendencies? im just really interested cause i know a guy that is straight and cant really commit and is always out with is boys etc.and likes this. is he just a freak or possibly a little gay? are there any other guys that like this? just so you know its not my boyfriend.. lol

I know on t.v it takes about 3 hours.. But how long is it if your actually there?

O i lost my job and cant pay my rent. I have been looking everyday for jobs, now the time has come its the 3rd of the month and rent has been due since the 1st . I have until the 6th till they start sending notices.. I dont know what to do.. I have a 6 month lease and only have 3 months left in it.

I dont want to mess my name up or get evicted.. Im only 23 and dont have anywhere else to go.. ugh im sooo stressed what can I do??

So about 2 years ago I got the depo shot and was spotting everyday for about a year.. Doctors couldint find a way to stop it. Until I started taking birthcontrol pills. But now Im ready to end my birthcontrol, but im scared im going to be spotting again.. What do I do? Do you think I will spot again? Ugh .. I dont want to have to take these pills everyday for the rest of my life..The birthcontrol I am taking is sooo high in hormones it makes me have yeast infections all the time cause my hormones change so much..Im just ready to stop taking pills and get back to normal life..

So I worked for a card room in California. IN order to work you have to have a state badge. Also have no felonys and pass a drug test. I passed all of these. I had a misdemeanor from 3 years ago that I was honest about and told the company and the state. So a year later after working with a temporary badge while my application for a state license was pending. They FIRE me.. They told me that the state denied my badge cause of my misdemeanor. But I never recieved papers from the state saying they denied me. So a few months later I start thinking and I call the state gambiling comission where they process our applications. She told me I was never denied and my badge is still pending ... SO they lied to me and fired me .... What do I do? Do I have a case? Also I dont have money for a lawyer..

So me and my ex lived together for a year .. we argued and faught.He told me he didnt want a relationship right now.. So while I lived with him he would go and be with other girls and sometimes wouldint come home. I couldint take it anymore so I wanted to leave.. But he wouldint let me go.Finally I left. When I got a new apartment he started coming around. He was there all the time and would be there for me and my daughter for what ever we needed. (still no commitment ) mind you he wanted me to stay around and not be with any other men and he told me he wasint with any other females either. he said he wanted to get his life together first...So I stayed ... 2 years pass... Im still waiting... So recently I lost my job and apartment. He let me stay with him. I found used condoms and phone numbers and pictures of females. He said the condoms were his room mates and the girl in the picture just sent them to him..

So I moved out and got my own apartment. He faught to try to make me stay with him again..So my dumb *** took him back again. Still no commitment tho! Recently ive been getting angry cause he would come late night and never take me anywhere he was going or invite me anywhere or take me out...If we did go somewhere I would pay for it cause he would say he had no money..So i broke up with him like a week ago.. Now im lonely.. Now he is seeing a new girl..Im hurt .. He told me he still loved me and had my back.. But dosent call or anything.. Did I do the right thing?? Was I too pusshy into making him be my man?? Does he still love me? I know i sound stupid I just gotta know to help me move on...

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