Rose Leigh

I asked my fella last week Sunday to 'think about if he wants to be with me, I said let me know by Sunday' He said OK.- Everything is fine between us I just felt like he was dragging his feet taking things slow we have been dating 8 months. I told him that my reason for the break is because i am taking a 2 month career break in OZ and want to know whether I should be looking at a long term move or come back for him. Thats the reason I gave him.

The real reason for the break though is because I have notice way too much friendly banter between him and his ex on FACEBOOK!!!!!!!

All last week until Friday I was becoming more sad and sullen because I hadnt heard from him. The Friday evening I went on Facebook and in my feed was a massive photo with him holding a ticket for a festival and a message exchange between his ex girlfiends mum and his ex gf..... I text him saying its over and basically telling him how angry I have been the last few months with his ex and him having banter online,.......

He text back saying ' That he thought he had until Friday to decide and I have brought it forward and that he doesnt have feelings for someone he broke up with years ago and that he was invivted by the family to a BBQ and said that he wasnt aware of upsetting comments and that he is going to the festival with 2 men not his ex... he also said that he hasnt been dishonest and that he had found the week really hard up until that point.

I didnt reply to his text for 3 days and noticed that he had blocked me off whatsapp i think in retaliation to the fact that i had blocked him of facebook.

I text him last night asking when he is free to meet face to face to discuss like adults. I also told him that I really miss him. I havent heard anything back,,,, not sure if he is trying to leave me to stew

he is 33 I am 28.... i just dont understand why he would be so disrespectful by being so friendly with the ex gf from years ago???

They broke up about 2 years ago and were together for 4 years

He should be grovelling for forgiveness surely? He has failed to tell me about her or even mention her. Instead I had to find out from facebook. I feel so hurt

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 8 months we are both in our early 30s. This weekend I asked him to think about whether he really wants to be in a relationship with me. Even though we have been on 2 holidays in this time its all been pretty casual only seeing me on weekends like saturday night and sunday afternoon and even then not every weekend as we both have to travel a bit. He does live 40 miles away.

I basically asked him to think about things as I found out from facebook that he has what appears to be a close friendship with his ex GF family and her friends. This wouldn't have been so much of an issue in my mind if he had simply mentioned it but he has said nothing. He never talks about her or his previous relationships yet every week she posts things on his facebook and he is very friendly with her. I know for a fact they have seen each other through mutual friends during our 8 months I am not sure if they have met up alone. (I have seen photos on facebook to support my knowledge )

I feel hurt by the secrecy. I haven't told him this and have simply said to let me know if you want to be with me.... i haven't met any of his friends or family and I havent heard from him since Sunday afternoon. I did say a week ..... but do you think this relationship is destined for failure???

Is on the beach.co.uk a safe website to book a holiday? I am looking to go all inclusive somewhere hot Mexico Caribbean ect. Budget is 700pp for 10 nights.

I am under a tremendous amount of stress at the moment. I lost a family member a few months back in tragic circumstances. I have been working none stop and my doctor wanted to sign me off sick a few months back but instead i agreed to reduce hours from 40 hours a week to 36 for 1 month.

should I ask for 3 weeks off or just get it signed off or hand in my notice.

I am exhausted all the time and having suicidal thoughts that I am embarrassed about. I am also anemic and deficient in vitamin D. I keep crying daily about losing my loved one. I am at my wits end. Please help ( BTW i have booked to see a counsellor and should be hopefully seeing one this weekend)

I am only going for 5 days for a flying visit at the end of this month. I filled out an ESTA visa when I went last year and apparently it lasts for 2 years. I dont really want to risk sending my passport off for renewal when I have to fly so soon. Pleas let me know as I also dont want to be refused entry after a 12 hour flight?

thanks

I want to sell technology accessories on ebay - where can I find wholesalers to purchase from. I have written to a few on Alibaba but some of those sellers are completely wasting what little time I have by being down right dodgy trying to scam me. Any advice would be great.

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I really like this guy that i met through a work dinner party. He is 34 I'm 27. We went on a few dates and I started to like him even more and then one night one thing led to another. The next day however he stated that he had to go to the hairdressers he had an appointment around 10am and promptly got ready. I jumped in the shower as i had a train to catch and had to leave early myself anyway. He saw me out but didn't come out with me because apparently the hairdressers was in the opposite direction to where I was heading. He said he had a good night and that he would be talking to me soon.

He didnt contact me until I contacted him 3 days later Just with simple chit chat. My male friend said that this is a sign of a prick and told me that i should have waited for him to contact me first. I then decided not to reply to the guys text and a 2 weeks later i sent him a firm message- congratulating him on his conquest - basically said It was my fault for not texting back.

I didn't speak to him for 2 half months until i had to send him an email through work about work related stuff. I then contacted him and said i wanted to clear the air. He said that we can be friends again and that he still thinks about me and how gorgeous i am and was just being flirty

I have text him a few times over the past 2 weeks and he always replies. Should I ask to meet up? I have numerous guys chasing me but for whatever reason i want the one guy that doesn't seem to be chasing me.

My male friend said that i like him because he is a bastard to me.

Is this guy just playing with me? Is he a bastard?

Long story short.

I really like this guy that i met through a work dinner party. He is 34 I'm 27. We went on a few dates and I started to like him even more and then one night one thing led to another. The next day however he stated that he had to go to the hairdressers he had an appointment around 10am and promptly got ready. I jumped in the shower as i had a train to catch and had to leave early myself anyway. He saw me out but didn't come out with me because apparently the hairdressers was in the opposite direction to where I was heading. He said he had a good night and that he would be talking to me soon.

He didnt contact me until I contacted him 3 days later Just with simple chit chat. My male friend said that this is a sign of a prick and told me that i should have waited for him to contact me first. I then decided not to reply to the guys text and a 2 weeks later i sent him a firm message- congratulating him on his conquest - basically said It was my fault for not texting back.

I didn't speak to him for 2 half months until i had to send him an email through work about work related stuff. I then contacted him and said i wanted to clear the air. He said that we can be friends again and that he still thinks about me and how gorgeous i am and was just being flirty

I have text him a few times over the past 2 weeks and he always replies. Should I ask to meet up? I have numerous guys chasing me but for whatever reason i want the one guy that doesn't seem to be chasing me.

My male friend said that i like him because he is a bastard to me.

Is this guy just playing with me? Is he a bastard?

This guy that I had a thing with NOT a relationship. Keeps hounding me. I slept with him last month. it was a mistake as i didnt see a spark afterwards. He however is becoming arrogant texting me all the time saying that I have a connection with him. That he is going to have me again whether i know it now or not.

He is sounding arrogant and really childish. I am 27 hes 23. I told him i want nothing to do with him. He deleted me off facebook and as now put in afriend request which i have ignored,

But i am worried about the constant texts and calls every so often plus he knows where i live.

He thinks i have a strong bond with him. How many times and different ways can i say i dont like you in that way?!

Is he crazy?

I have finished reading part 1 do women really want to be gagged whipped and treated like that by men? I actually dislike Christian Grey. What are your thoughts?

I feel like s***t I had intercourse with a guy and i shouldn't have. I'm not really in to him and we had no chemistry between the sheets. hes younger than me by 4 years which isnt much. But i generally go for men in their 30s. Ive known this guy platonically for a year. Hes been texting asking me out every week since the night saying that i have been distant ect. But the truth is i dont want to be his booty call and he doesnt have a clue how to 'date' and i cant be bothered with him. i KEEP TELLING HIM nicely but he doesn't get it.

Plus im hung up on another guy (this guy is in his mid 30s) thats not really into me. We dated for a month. I slept with him.He rushed me out his house in the morning - something about having his hair cut. I got hacked off that he didn't text me the next day. Then when i text him he replied 7 hours later. I didnt rely for 6 days. Then sent him a message saying that he was a prick and he said 'what am i supposed to do if you dont text back?

I deleted him from all my social networking sites as i feel hurt but im really hung up on him and believe this is how the other guy who's 23 feels about me.

What should i do?

I keep seeing resedential properties for sale where the seller is willing to pay the deposit for a buyer? Is this legal? Also this smells as though someone is deseperate to sell.

Also i keep seeing adverts for homes in the UK where its saying no mortagage needed if your self employed dont worry we can sort housing is this dodgy?

I met this guy at a work dinner party in March. I went on holiday for a 4weeks so we started dating at the end of April. We have been on 4 dates seeing each other only once a week. The thing is I slept with him last week Friday. Normally i would wait until i was in a relationship and could see it was going somewhere but for whatever reason I didn't use my common sense this time round. I left his house early on Saturday 9.30am to catch a train. He said it was a good night and that we would speak. I felt he was eager to get me out - he said that he had an appointment at the hairdressers and it was in a different direction to which i was walking.

He didnt text Saturday or Sunday. I dropped him a flirty text on the Monday morning 7.30am and he replied 5.34pm. Because of the time he took and that he didnt text over the weekend my male friend said that i shouldn't reply back to his text. I haven't replied since Monday.

Do you think that i should send him a message giving him a piece of my mind? I am disgusted that all that he wanted from me? Or should i leave it? I really liked him and thought he liked me too.

The thing is the likely hood of me bumping into him again is pretty high because he works in the same industry as me. Not only that he is a director of his own company that my company works alongside and my direct line manager regularly goes for business lunches with him.

I want to tell him what a prick he is but at the same time i don't want a backlash? I feel used and yes i know i know i put myself in that position

Advice please?

Advice needed: I never put out on the first date. In fact i wait until i am in a realtionship before taking that step. Went on a date with a nice guy the other day. He said that he wanted me to go home with him but at the same time he doesnt. He then text me the next day saying that hes glad I didnt go back to his because he would have been all over me and thats not good for a first date.

What does this mean?

I am a bit upset that I got accused of being a serial dater, by someone online just. I want to stop online dating. Since my ex broke up with me in the summer. i have been searching for company and have been on a number of dates online and offiline dates. Some I disqualify for silly reasons, I do want a relationship but the one person i liked out of 20 dates with different guys. Disqualified me at the 2nd stage. The reason i dont know.

Am i a serial dater?

I was out in a club and only had 3 drinks... there was this strange smell within 4 mins my eyes were stinging nose running and i fainted and dropped to the floor. I wasnt drunk off three drinks any ideas?

i have a headache after drinking 2 glasses of champagne and a double baileys. Not a lot i know can I take a painkiller i have a headache and want to go to bed?

Does anyone know of any good health spas that i can join that are reasonable in price? As anyone joined Esporta? How much would I be looking at for a membership. I just want somewhere where i can swim relax book a beauty treatment and have classes. Not really a gym user but understand that I this may well be in the price.

Thanks

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