Lee

A few months back. I had to tell a girl I really loved (and still love) a truth about me. No, I never cheated on her and no I never did anything bad to her.. However, I really disappointed her and now she has come to a conclusion that I am a "troubled soul".

We never had no argument.. She just lost her repoortee and sassiness.

Usually, we would laugh and talk to one another etc.. She would always give me big beaming smiles and secret signs of acknowledgement when it was awkward for us etc ( I cant tell you why it was awkward for us to just say "hello").. I can say that we or "she" was in a professional environment and it was quite risky for her... Yet she took several of them (risks).

I made it clear how I felt towards her and she was fine with it...

However on our last day among one another, I asked her "are we going to keep in touch?"..

Her response was this: She got up off her seat (casually) then she faced the door (back turned to me) and she said "no... just leave the ****) I cant say the **** - its not a swear word that she used it was an adjective that would give away too much information into the scenario and location/environment etc.. So i would not say so lets just say she said: "no.. just leave the premises". (with her back facing me). Vocally, she never sounded too confided, a little wobbly). Nervous or upset I believe.

Twice I asked her.. but never wanted to ask her a third time ( i cant take it if I see a strong woman like her cry). so I left..

We have got a lot in common.... this is going to sound a bit stupid and for some people, immoral thing to say. However, we are both hybrids... we never mentioned our race to one another - but it was obvious. I can only think now that she did me the favors she did on a race level or because we had some mutual interest in one another!!

Since parting from that environment, she has not been in contact> I tried to forget about her and couldnt. I messaged her on facebook about 6 times... she has not responded and neither has she blocked me. I told her how I feel about her etc... Sadly, she is seeing someone, but he is a schmuck!!... She does not seem the type to cheat and neither would I ask that of her. Iknow she is a very kind, sincere, warm and also a benevolent lady. I love her so much, I would happily take silver and have her hand in friendship, rather than nothing!!!

Most of my friends believe I just need to give her time.. Possibly time for her to make her mind up or time for her to finish with the guy she is seeing. Also, time for me to demonstrate I have made amends etc..

She has not told me to leave her alone or anything. However I told her I shall leave her alone and let her do her own thing if it gets to 2013.. I did include that if she does ever wish to be friends at a later stage I said "my door is always open".....

Any plans about what I should do? Would it be a bad idea to wait to feb 14th and take some flowers and a card to her homne and just have one direct convo (away from the professional environment and know where I stand??).. then put her out of my mind for good?

I feel like I cannot be sure of what she was really thinking, not without direct conversation!!

Please help!

Lately, I have been out with a few friend and one of them recently said to me when he was under the influence "would you come back to mine and **** my wife for me?"

I thought it was a damn good joke! I fell to the floor in laughter! As my mate has a good sense of humour!

So I said "no, she'll have to come round to mine and I will **** her for you, whilst you watch".. And I then laughed..

My mate then hugged me and said "see you later"..

Lol!

I went home.. About 2hours later.. I had a knock at my door.. It was his wife in just a long jacket.. And she said "leave the door open, he's still parking the car"..

I couldn't believe it! She's an attractive woman and he's a good mate.. But I didn't wanna rump his wife!

Also, I'm a mix raced muslim.. I have a relaxed attitude. But that was takin it too far!..

I had to explain that I thought it was a good joke.. And I was absolutly shocked..

I'm still kinda laughin about it too..

When I asked my mate why he chose me..he said "I never, she did! She likes you and she wants a light skinned brown baby.. So I thought why not!!..".

Before I was a muslim and a teenager, I had a few propositions.. But lately it seems like women are being even more sexaually suggestive to me since I have become a muslim.

I would say I'm average looking and average in every single way.. Nothing great about me neither.

So I dunno why me?

Also, I dunno why men enjoy or like the idea of having a woman bred by another fella.

I know I always promise some friends that I'll "help in any way I can".. But I never meant like that!

I'm in the UK.. Has anyone else had this happen, or perhaps your a bloke that likes this mischief and seeing your wife get slammed like a car door...

Women.. Why you get married then break your vowels.. And want another man in that way for?

Yikes!

My cousin came over from Australia three weeks ago and rented a high performance Nissan.

He passed his test in the UK when he was 17 and is now 28. his licence is still valid too.

The night before we returned the car, this is what happened...

We both went out and decided to put the car through its paces.. I decided to drive the thing and at 3 am found myself doing 130mph as if I was going at 70mph...

no one else was on the motorway and it didnt feel like i was doing 130mph.. it felt like 80ish.

after a while, I noticed a police car behind and decided put my boot down and evade the police... (i had a whim and a sudden bad attitude).. so i went to two and a half times the national speed limit without any problem...

I evaded the Police.. but I know that the Police will probably have the reg of the vehicle, go to the rental firm and come knocking on my aunts door.

I was insured on the car also.. however, my cousin said.. "to hell with it" he wont use his Uk licence for about another 5years anyway and can use his Australian one in future anyway...

I feel a bit upset that we both went and did this...

I think the Police will give me a knock at some time and I am terrible at telling lies, so I feel like just admitting to the offence..

I have no idea what my aunt may say about it if she gets like a summons through her door...

However, I'm kinda relaxed about it in some ways as I know they wont prosecute my cousin for it in Australia.. but perhaps it may remain outstanding if he decides to drive in the UK ever again.

(please, dont bother to tell me "your both fools".. we know this and i'm not posting this to show off or encourage anyone to use your local motorway as the Nurburgring).

constructive answers only please...

I dont see much of it!

I just see people out for themselves these days.

People seem to have no morals and be more wayward and self-righteous than anything else.

I'm 26.. at one point in my life, i sat round a dinner table to eat with family.. had good relationship with almost everyone in my family.. no real problems.. i learnt discipline, i dont and didn't agree with how i was always handled.. but genereally, i learnt some good foundations and it has built a sense of strong character within me. (yes, i made a few mistakes along the way and even went a bit wild).. but i got through my teens without ever gettin a girl pregnant or harming anyone for the sake of it etc... and never tried to be "gangster" or "one of the boys"..

all young folk these days wanna descend to being down.. smoking drugs under age drunking... Ok, so the few public schooled children tend not to... a few people wont.. however, i see people i went to school with up to no good. talking trash bout others.. always having a new partner, living off the state.. benefits etc..

its OK to make a mistake once, but to make the same mistake etc.. are people really stupid, or they so self serving they dont care about no one else? I see mum's only caring for themselves and not there children... so kids end up not liking there parents and be on the streets, starting crews and having crew mates for family etc...

But why do people prefer all this bull **** in their lives.. rather than aim to achieve something good and crate a legacy that will represent them in a positive way?.. so people can actually feel proud..

when i see people i grew up with, I usually reluctantly say hello and cringe at the same time..

i try and look at my phone or put mirrored sunglasses in and pretend not to notice them! lol

It seems to be these are also the people that hate everyone and anyone... pointing fingers at other and blaming others for their downfalls... when its all down to them... How can low life people put others down and then try to take some sort of moral high ground over people who try and do things the right way and actually try to have a honest living...

then these scum bags send there scabby kids to school with other kids and taint the kids where the parents tr hard to raise them into honest adults....

I really do think many people are like cave men or animals! lol!

Do you agree? anything you would add? .. but once upon a time.. british folks did have quite good family values.. but it seems to have gone...

thats why I prefer foreigners... they dont have much, they may be poor.. but they are still good people that work and everything they have, they have gone to work to obtain it...

I'ma salesman for a living and I work as a senior exec selling mobile phones.

For weeks now, I have been have debates about why certain people sell more than others etc.. other than the obvious... like "kevin works more hours than Alan".....

So you walk into a store... do you likeit when someone greets you.. and gives a gentle smile.. do you prefer to be ignored... and approach the sales assistant when you need help or wish to inquire..

is it the brand reputation... you just come straight in the sotre and order what you want,,"wam bam.. thank you and goodbye"..

Or is it: the price, that the prduct is sold the cheapest in that store...

Perhaps it's: the sales staff are well trained.. not pushy.. talk to you and give you the knowledge your after as they listen properly to you and seem to actually care and dont have "another customer" attitude.

Or... s it that you actually like the person who is selling the product to you and you feel moe like your buying of the sales assistant, rather than the store??

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perhaps i missed something out.... a bit like when i see a cute girl in a store and i dont need anything... so i go to the shop and just buy a tie and maybe a pair of socks as an excuse to "break the ice" with the attractive assistant!!......

I am very interested in this, I get passed about various stores to "get the sales up"... I usually do and i try to educate and create a good atmosphere in each store i work in... i think the customers can tell when a store is "needy" and is desperate for the sale... so i try to be neutral and always attempt to let the customer feel they have chosen the product...

Thanks in advance people!

i kinda chatted up a really cute girl today and she was really laid back and easy going..

i clicked with her in the first minute and she wanted to add me to facbook etc...

then i kinda accidently did shopping with her and freaked out and made my excuses to leave...

she was realy cute, a yr younger than me..

something felt weird about meeting this girl.. and jammin with her like straight away... i wont day where i met her, as its shameful and not it wasnt in a strip club or anywhere that bad... but if i mentioned it, then you would no my personal circumstances etc...

but she told me where she would be next Wednesday.... as if to say "if you wanna see e, this is where you'll find me!"...... so... i dunno if to go and meet her next wednesday.. i been single for ages and i like it.. but this girl does seem nice and down to earth... as well as very attractive.

hmm.. is she playin it cool, as she never wanted to switch numbers... but yet she told me where she will be next wednesday afternoon.. i dunno though... cos nothing should go perfectly smooth.. i'm too cynical to believe that things should be a walk in the park.

what would you do?? i am not nuts about her, but i like her and am interested.. i'm 26.. so my chasing the tail days have been long gone and dusted! and i am a righteous man these days, not a wayward guy. lol

I am tired of people agreeing with each other over the same decisions.. just because it seems right and is categorically correct.

i have seen so many questions on here and not even bothered to answer.. as people love to "thumbs down" people and not question "why is that wrong" or "why is that correct"....??!!..............

If everyone is to follow each other rgeardless, then you are fools.. a wiseman is a man that changes and evolves righteously.

i even seen people thumbs down my answer about "if a woman had a knife and was to stab you.. isit ok or would you punch her in the face"... My answer is "yes, in self defence it s intelligent to defend yourself".. have people no common sense??

Does it really make me militant like Malcolm X??

I have bought a new car. I bought a BMW e36 1.8i 115bhp mtec for the summer. It's in great condition and drives like a dream.

However, I know that the technology on the newer cars and new engines are but more powerful and offer things like six speed gearboxes.. but I love an e36. I have had two of them before and I just find that they get better with time. The new BMW's are ugly, they drive about the same.... however, my e36 is easy to maintain and I love it in terms of looks and the way it drives. its reliable too... I only think about better economy due to the fuel prices increasing.. I would like to put a six speed 2.0i from an e90 320si with 173bhp in the car. the 1.8 i have is a 8valve and not a 16valve.. I like power but I don't need m3 420 bhp... cos i like to cruise rather than race.. but i do like a bit of punch and fury in a car.. and the 16valve sooth fizzy rumble of a bmw is amazing.

I looked at new cars and I cant see the point in buying a car I will only dislike.. sure other people may like or be impressed by them, but i wont.

I seem to only like BMW, Honda and Nissan. Mercedes is OK... but i only like the c class coupe.. hate mercedes salesman... they so stuck up!! wouldn't give one my money! lol

if i was gonna sped big bucks on a merc.. i would want to buy an old 190sl..

I feel that BMW have lost the way in many respects.. I like the way the new cars drive but they look terrible. the new z4 is a great car to drive... however it is not iconic like a z8...

Even the new audi a8 is horrible... cars just look really stupid with this blue motion or efficiency dynamics styling. also, the new dash boards in BMW's are rubbish..

The one series m coupe is a great car.. however, I still prefer the e46 325ti m sport, its got more exclusive as time has gone on....

and with the government having scrapped damn loads of perfectly fine cars a few years ago.. good cars are vanishing quick.. classic cars will not exist from the late 1980's all the way through to the 1990's.....

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