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Last night a guy I've been dating came over and we've never been intimate so I thought it was going to be the night. We started making out and then I felt down there and he was not ready. He never got ready. I didn't say anything hoping he would communicate with me. What do I do or say next time if this happens? I don't even really know what the reason is.

I hung out with a guy on Monday we went to a concert. He hardly contacts me during the times he sets up dates. He was sick on Monday. Wanted to know if I should text him hope that he is feeling better since I hadn t heard from him. That was out 5th date. I hate these akward first stage dating scenarios of contacting people.

This guy I've been dating takes so long to text me back and it bothers me. It is rude. Yesterday he text me asking what I was doing this weeked. I said I was going out with some friends tonight but free Saturday and then I asked what he was doing this weekend? He then took 7hours to reply which was at 11:30. He responded with his plans for the weekend but said he was free Sunday and asked if I wanted to go to a concert Monday. I don't know how to respond. I need to tell him how I feel about taking so long to respond. Any ideas?

A guy I've seen a few time was texting me last night about cajun places to eat. I said those looked good. I thought he was going to ask me out and he didn't. Why would someone randomly text me about cajun food? Makes no sense. Or maybe he thought I would say "let;s go." I didn't because he blew me off the last time so I wasn't about to ask him to something. 

I asked a guy to check out this Halloween parade today last night. I sent him the link with the information yesterday evening. He said it looked cool and asked if it was from 6-8? I said I knew it started at 6 but not sure how long it was. Then I haven't heard from him since. What should I do now? 

I ve been on three dates with this guy. I think we have great chemistry and it seemed to be going good. He doesn t really contact much in between the dates and he takes forever to text back. I was wondering should I be waiting for him to set up the next date? He s set up the last three and I never know if he s waiting for me to do something. There is this Halloween parade this weekend should i invite him?

There is an Italian fest this weekend starting Friday ending on Sunday. I want to ask this guy out but not sure what is the best day to do so where there is not much pressure.

I was with my bf for about two years. He is so great for me and was my best friend. He was fired from his job and it had been almost a year without him finding a job. He is 32 and I told him I couldn't wait any longer for him to figure out what he wanted to do. He would still give me money from rental properties he inherited but I don't know I just felt afraid he wouldn't be a provider. Now I just miss his company so much and fear I may have made a mistake. Would you all have let him go for the reasons above?

Ok so I used to work with this older man and we became friends because I am a nice person and we worked together everyday. I am NOT attracted to this person in any way shape or form or have been inappropriate. I left the job and he messaged me saying he missed me and if we'd have lunch. I said sure thinking just to catch up and that was that. Now every month he asks to have lunch. What can I say to him that is not mean but saying no thanks I don't want lunch with you every month. He's getting creepier and creepier.

Ok so I been thinking about this girl I used to work with. I went to a party they were having for customers to see if I'd see her there. I walked in and bam she was there. My heart fluttered. She takes care of the events for the company so he was working. She saw me and gave me a big hug and we chatted quite nicely. Then I mention I remembered she played music and that I would like to check her music out one day. She said yeah follow me on Facebook I always post the dates there. Then I went to add her and she saw she was unfriend-able so then she added me. Then she had to go back to work of course so I just hung out. Then the event ended and he was busy so I didn't get a change to talk to her again. It's so weird I keep thinking about her nonstop I didn't realize how much I liked her. But now do I just wait for her to reach me on Facebook? PS she is french if that makes a difference.

I started a restaurant because it is my passion and I work relentlessly at it. My best friend asked me if she could partner with me but wanted to change everything about it and run the show so I told her no not at this time. She also had turned into a materialistic person makes so much more money than I do so I just was turned off that she couldn t support me humbly she just wanted a piece of the pie in my restaurant not passionate about it. So a year later she opens her own with her sisters boyfriend and her restaurant is booming because they are loaded with money and I am struggling. I just can t get over this it makes me feel like a failure. I don t know how to overcome this situation it makes me feel so awful.

So my boyfriend wants to watch a soccer game with his brother and said he more than likely will stay the night. I told him I don't understand why he must stay the night and would much rather him come back home with me. He then tells me I am too controlling and he has a right to stay at his brothers whenever and whatever time. I know he is not cheating but I just think it is weird to stay over someones house in their 30's if we live 30 minutes away. What do you all think?

So me and my boyfriend have been together for 1.5 years. We are opposite but really enjoy each others company. He is very extroverted and I am very introverted. He got fired from his job 4 month ago and he still has not found a job nor does he look like he really wants one. I tell him that he needs to find one because I have never been one to go to work and let someone hang out all day. He still helps me finanacially and with other tasks so I know he cares for me in that way. The job thing worries me especially about thinking a future of marriage for us. With all of that stress I have had anger explosions where I just insult him and am so mean. I apologized and acknowleged I have a problem and I need help. We both want to try to change and make it work. The question is I feel so horrible for how we ve made each other feel. So not sure if we should work it out?