Robert H

Hello everyone. Just looking for some addvice. My wife and i have been married for four years. she is a stay at home mom with two kids 3 and 1. I work 12 to 16 hours a day and i get home and have to cook dinner for everyone becuase she wont. she wont clean the house at all. I cant clean it and stay ahead of it when im not home. all she talks about is buying a bigger house so she has room to put things. our house is 2600 sqf and we have a shop thats 40x50 that she has full of junk. she set around and takes care of the kids and shops online all day. she spends around $2,000 a month shopping for the kids and herself. What should i do? i love them all but am getting depressing me.i have spoke to her about it and she looks at me like im crazy. I know taking care of the two kids is hard work and is a job in its self. just been thinking of how to be happy again.

My Wife and I have been married for 2 years now, been together for 5 years total. We were very happy until we had a baby and everything has changed between us. We both love the baby and she is our world. I believe something isn’t right with my wife after having the baby. The baby is 10 months old. My wife just quit doing anything. She will sleep late and give the baby what it needs and that’s about all she will do. No motivation what so ever. I work and support the whole family. When I get off work I go home clean, cook, etc. I pretty much do it all. I know it sounds one sided but it’s not and it hasn’t always been like this. I have spoken to her about this because I don’t feel loved or treated right in that manner. I also found out she had been talking to another guy about a month ago (not physical) and it ended before I found out. Is this her hormones like postpartum or is this her not caring about me at all? I don’t feel that it’s just about the money because I told her if she wasn’t happy she can leave and I would buy her a car and a place to live. I just want her to be happy either way. Can this be fixed?

this is for a bet and we want to know.

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My Girlfriend and I split up and this is the story. She has been in love with me for about five years and I have had a thing for her for as long. We where best friends because both of us didn’t think we had a chance with each other. Anyways her and her EX boyfriend where having problems and she wanted to talk. I did what any friend would do and went and had what was suppose to be a beer with her and we where having a good time. I went dancing and she came with and it went from there if you know what I mean. Anyways the next morning we woke up and went our differ ways. I told her that she needed to forget about what had happened between us and give her boyfriend a chance. Two weeks later we are together and doing great. We where together for two months and her roommate kicked her out and she doesn’t have anyone to help her and she cant do it on her own. So I let her move in and we are great for another two months and she started acting differ because a ex girlfriend of mine texted me and I told her and showed her the text. She snapped on me and I asked if her ex had ever texted her? She said no…. then well yeah a few weeks ago and I said you didn’t tell me and I told you bc I have nothing to hide. Then it went from he texted me weeks ago to a few days ago. I asked how he got her new number which I was paying for and she said that she felt bad about what she did and wanted to let him know so she would feel better about it. I said cool. Then I caught her hiding her phone so I asked her are you taking to him??? She said no. I asked again same no. so I looked up my phone bill and she had been talking to him for about a week more than she talks with me. I told her to pack up her things and to give me my hummer back because she was also diving it. Last night I missed her because I do love her and she was texting me like crazy trying to change my mind. My mind is saying no but my heart is saying yes.

What would you do?

I was planning on marrying this girl. Every thing was great. We always have fun and she tells it how it is and I’m deeply in love with this girl. The big question came up she asked how many people that I have been with and I told her I would tell her if she told me. She 25 and has been with 35 guys and has had 2 threesomes and has slept with 3 guys at the same time. Its hard to get over this Because I do love her but I don’t know how to get over this. She says she regrets it but she was just trying to find the one and she wishes she would have meet me a lot sooner. I don’t know if I will ever get over this. Help me please. In need of some advice.