victoria

so i am engaged to this guy that i have been with for 2 years. well along time ago when we first started dating we were 2 months in to the relationship and i went over to my best friends house and her and all of her brothers wer drinking. well anyways we were hanging out with her brothers watching a movie, and she left the room and went to bed, i didnt notice till later but i just figured i would go to bed after the movie. well i ended up accidentally falling asleep in there and it was in the same bed as one of her brothers. that same morning i called him about it and told him everything but he just called me a liar and assumed i cheated on him so he broke up with me. later on we ended up getting back together but then broke up because he said that he still couldnt trust me. he then joined the military and we ended up getting back together after bootcamp. every thing was going good, we got engaged and we are supposed to be visiting eachother in a week (hes stationed across the country so i havnt seen him in a few months) well he got really drunk and brought everything up again about how he thinks im a liar and how he thinks i cheated on him. he says that he cant trust me and he doesnt even know if he should go through with the wedding. he hung up on me and said that if i want to talk to him then i need to tell him the truth about everything that happened that night. i have told him the truth millions of times but he just thinks im lying to him. should i just lie and say something happened, like i gave him a hand job or something, just so he would stop thinking that im lying and we could start to move forward again?? help idk what to do or say to him to make him not brake up with me again.

i have a small budget for my wedding so i didnt really want a wedding planner but im stillvgoing to school and working part time so i dont have much time to plan my wedding, so what is the average that you would pay for a wedding planner?

i live in san diego and i am set on having my wedding on the beach, but i also want to have the reception on the beach as well instead of renting out a hotel for the night. so wich beach would be best? and also wich permits would i need?

i've been having to pee WAY more often than regularly. i know its not a uti, because iv had one before and this time i just have to pee all the time, and i have no control like i cant hold it in, i need to go right away or i feel like im going to explode. what else could it be?

i want to get him something unique, but not to expensive. he's in the marines and the next time i get to see him is on christmas. i've already made him a scrapbook of us, a costum made football jersy and other stuff for his birthday and what not, but now im out of ideas....