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My ex bf & I are complicated. There was no cheating or anything to cause our breakup, just miscommunication issues between us that took a toll. Since we broke up we’ve been in contact, we were talking a lot at 1 point, then stopped because we argued over something dumb again. I tried to make peace by leaving him a note saying I care about him and dont want to be on bad terms. I even tried to text him again after not hearing from him for a week after that. He replied, but it just seemed like we were getting nowhere so I didnt reply to him. To my surprise he texted me again 4 days later. We talked on the phone & I went to see him. I saw him again last night & before I went he called me to ask where I was. I saw that he kept a picture of us, & pictures of me he’s taken in his drawer. He kept this sweet note I gave him when we were together in the same drawer, & again to my surprise, even the most recent apology note. Yet I still feel like we’re in this wierd place. Do you think this means he still cares about me? Its obvious I care about him, but he still has his distant moments & I dont know what to make of it right now.

*Disclaimer: I’m asking this in the astrology section for a reason, please don’t waste both of our times commenting ‘astrology isn’t real.’ Would really appreciate real advice & answers. Thank you

Dating a capricorn man since january. basically lived with each other. hit a rough patch in may, broke up in heat of the moment bc of his way of shutting down and ignoring when upset, & my freaking out when im upset, pushing him to talk to me. recently we reconnected & had a long talk, agreed to start over. we arent officially back together yet, but agreed to take baby steps. We text everyday, don’t see each other as much bc space was needed, but I’ve spent time with him the past 2 weekends with him. went to the movies, out to eat, around his family, etc. it almost feels like things are back to normal, but I do notice distance sometimes. His texts sometimes are a lil on the dry side, but he always replies. we always say good night. He took off the pictures of me on his wall, but I saw he put them away in his drawer along with little cute notes i’ve given him throughout our relationship. I threw out his trash for him & he actually threw away 2 photos of him & a girl he used to be friends with dated from 2016. Is that a good sign he didnt throw anything of us away? Is it a good sign that we’re even talking so frequently? How can we be closer again & back in a full relationship, will it just take some time? we’ve only broken up and been in this in between phase for less than a month.

I’m an aquarius (2/12/1997) but contrary to what people say, i’m highly emotional. I believe its the scorpio rising in me. My emotions can be very intense and i’m only 21, i’m learning how to control them still. anyways, im currently dating a capricorn guy. (1/11/1997) we’ve been seeing each other since january, our families have gotten close & I practically live with him. He’s very mature and super sweet when he wants to be, but I feel like I get emotional sometimes (the scorpio rising in me ugh) & he isn’t really supportive of it, I know he cares about me but it would be nice to be told how he feels about me & lately I feel like i’ve been pushing for it and he’s not having it. I’ve cried to him about things i’ve gone through in the past, and whenever I try to get him to open up he doesnt say anything in support, he’ll just silently hold me in his arms and let it pass. I love him he makes me feel safe but i’ve never dated a guy like him so I dont know what to make of it yet. I know he has to feel the love that I feel because he shows it, but will never say a word & when I try to get him to I just end up kind of hurt because he won’t budge. I’m not sure what to do. I start to feel like i’m clingly and annoying and that I care more than he does because he won’t ever say he cares, but if I accuse him of not caring he will get upset. I don’t want to lose him or give up on him I just need his reassurance and for our relationship to grow stronger.

So I dated an aries male years ago. I'm taking into consideration that we were still in high school, but still, he broke my heart when I was 17 lol. We were perfect one minute & then the next he just grew distant, and I knew it was coming so I basically had to force him to admit he didnt wanna be with me. It hurt alot at the time, but i'm 20 now, i'm good, and since we have mutual friends, over time we stopped being on bad terms and just became aquaintances. He's dated other people of course and so have I. but... I guess he just ended a relationship he was in not that long ago, and he brought me up to friend and told me to text him so I did. It's seemingly friendly so far, we're older and that high school stuff we havent and I hope we don't talk about. At times it does seem a little flirty and he's been texting me good morning, good night with hearts or kissy faces for days now & im kinda thrown off. I really thought it was just a catching up sharing jokes (cause we're both funny as hell), I don't wanna flirt but I can't help myself.... I just don't know if I should trust him or think anything of this flirting? is it just him bored and looking for someone to talk to? Why am I just suddenly on his mind....

I'm 19 years old turning 20 in about 6 months and live at home. For over 2 years I was a hostess and then a server at buffalo wild wings but recently things got ugly between a new manager and I and I ended up losing my job because of it. Basically, I went and applied to hooters because it's sports and food, things I have experience in and I need to be making my own money again, fast. I got told I got the job today and that the GM will be calling me tomorrow to start training. Honestly I do want the job, but when I told my parents they literally told me that they can't stop me from working there but that it's degrading and disrespectful, one step lower from being a stripper. They told me they wouldn't feel comfortable with me working there and if I still choose to then in a few months I need to save up and move out on my own. Now i'm so conflicted because I don't feel that way at all, I'd just be waitressing I don't see it as degrading myself I don't want to decline the job offer but I also don't want my parents upset. I kind've just want to hide it somehow. I need advice.

i've had my belly pierced for a full year. no problems. i buy a belly ring from icing and when i put it in it was fine, but i noticed a little thinning after... again, i go to the piercer and he says that the piercing doesnt look like its rejecting again, he just changes the jewelry because the metal from the icing jewelry may have irritated it. All was well again, i had that other jewelry in for a little less than month until recently it got iritated and itchy, and just pushed out. Again, after a year of having that piercing i go to the same piercer & he tells me to wait a few days then come back so that he can do the piercing over if i want it. I really love it & want it but i'm just scared of it not going well again. it was perfectly fine until i changed it to i guess some bad jewelry... do you think i should go to another piercer? and usually i sea salt soaked it, what is the most effective way to clean a piercing and the best way to prevent any future problems? i put a plastic ring in one time, and thats when my piercing was best. im thinking i should stick with that or surgical steel, and stay away from irritating metals.

yesterday i was (trying) to online shop nordstrom.com, i selected an item and them went to check it out. when i tried to check it out, and error page showed. no confirmation or anything. i figure it didnt go through so i refreshed the page and tried again. still didnt work! so i went to check my account online and IT SHOWS THAT I WAS CHARGED TWICE FOR THE SAME ITEM!!! its pending still but how could they have taken my money TWICE if an error page showed up both times and they gave NO confirmation or any sort! it even still shows that i have the item in my "shopping bag"!!! to top it off, i called customer service and they said theres nothing showing up with my name or records on it. so basically i got charged twice for something i'll never recieve?! what?! next, we called my bank and filed a claim. its the weekend so theres nothing we can do yet. but if it shows that the transactions have gone through i will be even MORE upset. this is ridiculous. where do i go from here?

im 16 and 5 and a half feet tall, 5"1 on a good day haha. one of my friends believes that once your period regulates, (after about 2 years) you wont get any taller after that. i've had mine for 4 years. is she right about that? plus, my mother is 5"2 and my biological father is 5"8. so i dont really have "tall genes" in me.

im a cheerleader at my high school, and since my coach realized im much lighter than the previous flyer, we've switched roles in the stunt group- im the flyer, the other girl helpe base me. im not experienced in flying, you would think its the easiest but to me its not! i've only got the half, half cupie, and BARELY a full extension right now lol. i need some serious tips, because i have a big competition march 3rd, and we need to add difficulty to the stunts if we wanna come close to winning it. One of my biggest problems i have while flying is that when im going up, i start to push my bases away. i dont feel myself doing it cause im moving too fast, how can i stop doing this? ANY tips on good flying, like pushing off, balance, staying tight, etc. Would be greatly appreciated! Help a fellow cheer girl out! thank you! (:

The shutter screen always gets stuck there and only lets me take pictures when it wants to. -.- i havent had it the rain at or anything. so yeah, how can i fix this problem? it started doing this yesterday.

*things you should know so you wont be confused* : i Go to two high schools at once, i take regular academic classes at my public school, and then in the afternoon i take performing arts classes (theater major) at a performing arts school. However, the performing arts school has academic classes too, which my boyfriend takes, and in the afternoon he has his digital editing/photography classes. so on school days, i see him only in the afternoon. Caroline and lily, who you will know about soon, also go to the performing arts school full day. they have the same Academic classes.

NOW HERE'S THE STORY.

today my boyfriend text me while im still at my regular public school telling me that this girl (her name is caroline) kept messaging him and calling him (he doesn't respond.) over the weekend and that in school she tries to flirt with him and hug him but he brushes her off. (because he says shes ugly and she's kind of a whore.) he doesn't know how caroline got his number. well, this was a surprise to me because caroline KNOWS that chris (boyfriends name) is with me, and she tries to be all friendly with me, even today when i got to my performing arts school and saw her, she tried to say hi and start a conversation with me. i didn't mention anything about chris because i was waiting to see if she would say anything about it herself, but no. she says nothing about it and tries to be my friend, saying "your so pretty!" and all these compliments and stuff like that. so i tell a friend of mine named legacy (i just love her name.) about it and she says "you know that lily gave her his number? she told her that chris likes her, she did it to be funny. lily always does stupid stuff like that and she thinks its funny but its not." at that point i was really mad because lily is supposed to be my friend, not just an acquaintance, an actually good friend! lily was not in school today so i did not have the chance to confront her in person, and i dont want to bring it up over text because i think thats stupid, i'd rather ask her face to face. so, do you think im over reacting? should i be mad at lily for what she did? i just think what she did is sketchy.

not my whole hair, i want just some of the back done like this http://blackamericanmoney.com/blackblogg%E2%80%A6 , except in a nice, dark purple. sort of like a plum or violet. my hair is almost like a pitch black color, so i know i will have to bleach the hair i want colored alot. i dont want to make any mistakes so my questions are : How much should i bleach the hair? will the purple color come only come out rich if you bleach it to an almost platinum blonde? how should i care for my dyed hair so it isn't too ruined by the bleach? and what products would you recommend for me? i've heard of products that you apply to the dyed hair right after its done, that moisturizes and nourishes the hair, because the bleach will make it dry. i am definitely going to try and buy something like that also. im going to do my hair next week, and i will be getting products at sally's. how exactly should i go about dying the back, because i dont want too much purple, just a little purple that peeks through and adds some pop to my hair.

as you can tell, im no hair dye expert. so i could really use plenty of help!

im not a violent person lol, but i heard that most aquarians (like me) can knock someone's lights out.

i've heard that all aquarians have nice eyes that are almost doe-eyed, and they look like they are lost or in another planet. People tell me all the time that i look lost and off somewhere when im not! Btw im an aquarius myself. is it just me or is it like that with all aquarians?

how did it start? explain please? i like drake i guess but when common called him canada dry i was Lmao. !

im a teenager (going to be 15 in February) and i love perfumes and fragrances! i am just addicted to good smelling things i guess : ) my favorite are britney spear's Fantasy and Beyonce's Heat. However, i want to have a Signature scent that smells Amazing. something that's not too "little girl" smelling OR that doesn't remind you of your grandmother. [* in other words, no cotton candy or cupcake scents, and no musky, elizabeth taylor inspired scents.*] i could really use the help of any girl in their teens or early 20's to give me some advice on a good fragrance that isn't pricey, last a long time, and is suitable for me. My favorite kind's of scents are fruity and tropical.

Thanks for your help!

UGH. For the record, i dont usually pay attention to astrology and im not one to judge ppl on their zodiac signs, but this is the best way i can give you an insight on what the person im talking about it like. So im a freshman in high school, and one of the first people i meet and become good friends with is a taurus girl (however, dont worry alot about the taurus, she's an amazing, fun and caring friend, and so far we get along really well! she might even become one of my best friends as the school year progresses. :) anyways, Taurus intoduced me to her aquarius friend, and at the beginning aquarius was the nicest person! within 10 seconds, she gave me a big hug and started asking questions about me and all that. She's really loud and eccentric, however, and because of this some ppl in my class dont like her, and when they talk, i ALWAYS defend her. i've been nothing but nice to her and we always play fight and fake argue and she was sooo cool! but lately, she's been acting different towards me. now before i go into the issue, i'll tell what aquarius does to me : She'll come to school happy and dandy towards me, then later she gets all moody and when i try to socialize with her, she isn't into all and is focused on something else. then, she always leaves me standing there like an idiot, to go with other people. (i always forgive though.) then, she'll be okay again and want to socialize. SO thats how shes been acting lately. & you can see why i've been spending more time with taurus, because she always has a good additude and her mind is always made- i try to stay away from wishy-washy people who change up on you for no reason. so the other day, aquarius DARES to tell ME that i always leave people hanging and that i switch on people. IS SHE SERIOUS?!? i even caught her telling taurus about it, but when i ask her to talk to me about the problem, she says its nothing. she's really pissing me off. Now, i already know how i am- im not a fighter or one to get into arguements, but if you bring it on, i will surely explode on you. luckily, i have some self-control, but idk how much of aqua's additude and intensity i can take. the funny thing is- im an aquarius TOO! but im the wierd, funny, happy, and im not as intense. so it's not like i cant understand her and how she is. How can two aquarians solve their problems in a civil way when were both convinced that we are are right? Thanks for taking time to analyze my question, i could really use help.

& please explain why. thanks (: