Ashleigh

I've been seeing a guy for a couple of months.

Lately he has been kind of making sure we don't get too attached to each other but he still wants to see me. I've told him straight up if he's over it we can call it off but he hasn't wanted to.

We had a long talk and I told him if its just sex then I can't do it without it leading into anything else in the future. He told me right now he feels like a relationship will stop him from achieving what he could while he's single, with his career and etc and he said he doesn't want to rule out a relationship in the future completely. He said if I didn't want to have sex its understandable but he asked if we could still hang out. And said if I just dropped him that he wouldn't like it at all.

Is he being genuine??

I have been dating this guy for a little over 2 months. Everything was great and we got a long awesomely. But every time we began to get closer he would back off and seemed to have some where identity crisis. Every time he felt himself getting more into it he started to back off.

He started to ignore me literally for days on end, and then we had a long talk about it all. He tells me this is the first time he's every said or anything like this. He could barely talk...

He said he doesn't want to complecate his life with everything that comes with a relationship, but he loves hanging out with me and he doesn't want it to end, I said I can't do it forever and he promised to not just drop off the face of the earth.

So we hung out a few more times and he was really keen. Then he has gone back to ignoring me again!should I not bother with this guy anymore?

So I got into a pickle and ended up dating/sleeping with two different guys. I don't do this kind of stuff so its a bit new to me.

Is that bad??? Or is it normal while dating?

Is that even a thing?

Do some men just not enjoy it at all?

Strange recent experience.

Guy Refusing it and offering to do all the work cause he "doesn't understand why he doesn't like it"

Is that normal lolwhat

I am on the pill but did not wait until the specified time of taking it to have sex. I only waited 1 day when it stated to wait for 7.

I do not take the sugar pills in my pill plan so I have no way of knowing if I've skipped a period.

2 weeks after the deed I began to feel sick and would vomit often, gaging and stomach turning, I still gag a lot but don't get as sick as I did.

I have been having lower cramps, peicings feeling but where I would normally get period pain but this pain is different and doesn't last long. But there has been a tight feeling in my abdominal area for weeks and when I stretch even it feels tight and a bit painful.

I have been feeling extremelytired and have been napping a lot and feeling eexhausted when I am normally very energetic. I feel lithargic and not bothered to do regular things I normally love.

I have been getting headaches often and they just make me want to sleep.

Please help am I pregnant?

I am on the pill but did not wait until the specified time of taking it to have sex. I only waited 1 day when it stated to wait for 7.

I do not take the sugar pills in my pill plan so I have no way of knowing if I've skipped a period.

2 weeks after the deed I began to feel sick and would vomit often, gaging and stomach turning, I still gag a lot but don't get as sick as I did.

I have been having lower cramps, peicings feeling but where I would normally get period pain but this pain is different and doesn't last long. But there has been a tight feeling in my abdominal area for weeks and when I stretch even it feels tight and a bit painful.

I have been feeling extremelytired and have been napping a lot and feeling eexhausted when I am normally very energetic. I feel lithargic and not bothered to do regular things I normally love.

I have been getting headaches often and they just make me want to sleep.

Please help am I pregnant?

I am on the pill but did not wait until the specified time of taking it to have sex. I only waited 1 day when it stated to wait for 7.

I do not take the sugar pills in my pill plan so I have no way of knowing if I've skipped a period.

2 weeks after the deed I began to feel sick and would vomit often, gaging and stomach turning, I still gag a lot but don't get as sick as I did.

I have been having lower cramps, peicings feeling but where I would normally get period pain but this pain is different and doesn't last long. But there has been a tight feeling in my abdominal area for weeks and when I stretch even it feels tight and a bit painful.

I have been feeling extremelytired and have been napping a lot and feeling eexhausted when I am normally very energetic. I feel lithargic and not bothered to do regular things I normally love.

I have been getting headaches often and they just make me want to sleep.

Please help am I pregnant?

We see each other 3-4 times a week. But when we don't hang out we don't really talk. Texting or anything. He's not a fan of it so we just don't.

Sometimes I'll text and not receive a thing back but then next day he will be into hanging out again and be fully into it when we hang out.

Is that something to worry about? Or is this a normal thing?

I've never dated before. I've always been in a long term relationships with people who used to be friends.

So this dating business is new and confusing.

Me and this guy have been dating for 2 months almost. We see each other about 3-4 nights a week. He works long days so days are out of the question.

I've gone on a road trip to meet his family even and they loved me. Maybe a little too much. Calling me daughter in law and shit haha

But when we don't see each other the contact is little to none. He is horrible at texting and even his friends complain about it. He just won't text often or even never unless we are organizing something.

Course it freaks me out I'm a woman and that's what we do. Though I don't show it I just don't text back and leave him to it.

We caught up on the weekend and he was all over me, wanting Mr to sit on his knee in front of all our friends. but now contact has gone back to almost zero. Until we hang out again.

Is this normal? Wtf is this? I'm so confused

So everyone scrolls through the crap on Fb. But if its someone you're dating. And you want to show that you are a confident, attractive woman without showing that you're actually doing it for him.

What sort of stuff would achieve this?

I've been seeing a guy for about 2 months. We get along great. He digs it. But damn I want more, fuck dating honestly. I wanna tell him how I feel and I never have apart from the old "I like you" generic bs. So I wrote this up. How do you think this will go down with him???

I've fallen for you really hard these last couple months. You're the perfect bloke in my eyes. You're real n see things how they are. There's no bullshit n damn do I feel comfortable with ya. Someone like you is hard to find you know. And fuck do I want you so bad. You being so damn good looking and the amazing sex is just a bonus haha

I've held this all in cause I duno how you feel but I just honestly can't hold it in anymore. I know saying this will either make it or break it. I'm not wanting to push you into anything, I know you have stuff on your plate n I don't wanna add to that or make you feel like you have to do anything. So I thought I'd tell you how I feel before we get anymore into it cause I can't help but continue to get more into you. If its not your thing you know I'm chill, can't force people to do stuff.

So I've been seeing this guy for about 7 weeks. We're both pretty into it. See each other a bit.

If I were to send a "picture" to this guy, would he dig it or would it make me look like a bit of a slag?

I have been actively seeing this guy for about 6 weeks. We get along amazingly, he even took me to see his family for a road trip on easter. We see each other about 3-4 times a week. I don't blast his phone with texts and he spends loads of times with his mates and I mine.

We talk for hours and get extremely close and he makes sure to hold my hand tight while sleeping. He even said "we could just make love till we sleep" and throws in a "darling or baby" that he's obviously thought a lot about before saying.

I have been a little closed off so I don't seem needy and clingy. To the point where he asked if I missed him and I didn't reply.

The other day he didn't contact me back after we had an amazing night. We left with kisses and all the normal things. But he has suddenly gone a bit quiet. I'm a little confused, if he hasn't replied to me I simply don't text him till he says hey again. Which he did about 15 hours after not responding to me. But when quiet after a short conversation.

Now, what could this mean? Is he over it? Or is he seeing if I am really into him?

This has happened once before but I messaged him and said I like him quite a bit and he was right back on the band wagon and into it more than before.

We spoke about how we feel once and both said we are gonna go with the flow and see what happens.

What are your thoughts on this? Is he waiting for me to miss him? Or is he just right out done with it for some reason?

I know this is quite generic but I need to know.

I've been seeing this guy for about 5-6 weeks. We have gotten along since the day we met, in personal actually insanely well. He is different than anyone I've really met. He's 22 and hates the internet, hates texting and doesn't often text anyone back. Though he used to text me sometimes, still from the start his ttexting was slow. But recently, we caught up and had an amazing time, it was great. And now he is ignoring me afterwards, he hasn't done this before and there had been no warning signs. I also didn't say anything that would have thrown him off.

I didn't send a million messages either as I'm not desperate. And he definitely has his phone.

Why would a male do this?

So I have recently moved back to my home country. I met up with an old school mate while clubbing. So I gave him my number and after a couple days we hung out. We ended up having sex a couple times.we casually texted, nothing serious and I never bombarded him with texts. Just occasional. Then we hung out the next night and he was cuddly as ever and we had sex so many times. He kissed me lots in the morning before work then he continued texting the next day. Things got a little more intense and he said he wanted to catch up more and hang more. I don't like getting intense on guys so I stop when the conversation gets stale. Later that night I asked what he was up to he replied etc but when I asked if he wanted to "hang" out he never txt me back. And we were having a pretty heated converation. What's this mean? Is he playing hard to get or is he busy doing other things? I'm confused if he wants me or not and its driving me crazy

Me and my partner recently broke up but are still living together. We still talk and watch TV and play games etc. He doesn't hate me and we still get along.

He broke up with me cause he said he couldn't handle stress as his family members are terminally I'll. He thought about if he really wanted to leave me for days, he was broken and didn't talk to anyone.

I am a musician and that's part of why he fell for me. I want to cover a song to let him know I still love him and let him know I'm sorry this happened. I want to put it on Facebook and for him to watch while he's away at work? Is it too soon? How will he react?

Me and my partner recently broke up. We are currently still living together for the next week.

We still talk and watch TV and play games together. This has happened in the passed and he was devastated once we were apart and wanted me back more than anything. He has had some stress in his lives which cause him to break a little and leave me again.

I am a long term musician and that was part of why he fell for me. I was wondering if it would be too soon to cover a song and upload it to Facebook. A song that explains how I feel but not in a sense that everyone would know about it.

My boss consumes sometimes over 3 bottles of wine while acting as manager. We, as licenced to serve alcohol are by law supposed to cut anyone off who is deemed drunk, but for fear of loosing our jobs we continue to server our drunk bosses.

They get violently drunk and swear and scream at the employees, just recently yelling at a pregnant employee over something minuscule.

Is this illegal? What can be done about it?

Me and my partner have been together for while. We have known each other for years and both consider each other soul mates.

Though as with every relationship, the initial spark dies down as you become accustom to each other.

We recently were seperated for private reasons for a short period of time. But came back together as if nothing had happened.

It was like experiencing the start of the relationship spark all over again. And feeling that again, now that it has gone again, I would like to keep that going to a certain extent.

Are there any ways or tricks anyone knows to keep that special spark alive in long term relationships.

We already go on dates and do things together.