NETTIE THE SHRINK

Okay, now I answered this question from "marriage and divorced" and I put this answer to the question. Next Please, because, for one it did not even belong into the thing they put it under and for another what they had written to go with their question was just unreal. The question asked "What do you miss about your home" And like I said, I answered "Next Please'' I then lose ten points due to a violation; How, is that a violation? It was not rude in any way. I know that you lose ten points for having a violation I just do not think it is right in my eyes. That they removed my answer and then took ten points on top of it for only those two words...

I have seen many people do it; so, for my very first time I done the same. And now, look I paid for it. Do you think it was wrong for them to give me a violation for something so dumb as that?

When you are married to love of your life- what would make you want to even cheat on them? Now, days that is all you see and hear of that someone cheated on the person that they are with. When you are truly in love with the person you are with; you will commit yourself to that ONE person- just like when you are dating someone- once it comes to the point that you sleep with them that should mean you are with that person and that person ONLY... True love is the most precious thing you'd ever find and it is the most rarest gift you'd ever come to find. So, if you have that special someone then do not hurt them by sleeping around- if things change between the two of you then sit down and talk things over or get some help. IT DOES NOT MEAN CHEAT. For the ones who do agree with me leave a comment and try to win the ten points

Does it mean for me to enter the Email address- that I used to sign up with it?

I have been trying to set up my playlist- from playlist.com and it says on the part, where I would send it. To, enter the myyearbook Email address; when I do so, it keeps telling me,, that it failed and also when I tried to send a picture from photobucket to test it- that also said the same thing. So, I take it that it is not talking about your real Email address that you use to sign up with. Does anyone know what to do?

Whomever, is right will win the ten points and five stars

True love is something so very true- not everyone will be that lucky to share such a thing but when you do and you find someone you love so dearly. Make sure you hang to them as if they were something for very precious because you will not ever find another true love. It is one chance in a lifetime. Hold it close as if it is something you treasure...

....♥....

Shrink Nettie

Age- 31 Years Old

Married 17 ½ years and life experience

(2 years) Psychiatrist

13 years- Photographer

Is your love making something real spectacular? Or is it something that REALLY needs some work...

So, here is where you are going too tell (us) me what needs the help in the bedroom- if there is not anything that needs the help that's great. Does your partner do all their duties that they should be doing? Or how about this one- do you ever feel like your partner is making up excesses where he/she can get out of making love with you?

Anyhow, there are going to be a few questions to answer and the top winner will win the ten points and also five stars

1. Is your love making Spectacular?

2. Is there anything that needs work on?

3. Is there any duties that your partner doesn't do anymore?

4. Do you ever feel like your partner is making up excuses to get of making love

Here is where I am going to choice the best wish of them all-

The rules to this is-

1. NO LYING WHATSOEVER

2. Make sure that the wish is to do with something you want

3. List your top three wishes and make sure that the first one is your MAIN wish

4. Always have faith in yourself

My wish is-

Where I can just be able to out life the time; that the Doctors, gave me. Because, I want to be able to watch my Daughter drive her first car, to go to prom, to see her marry the man of dreams, to see my first grandchild be born and to hold him/her and also I want to be able to see her grow her very first gray hair. No, way though for this to happen because they say I have less then two years to live. due to this disease I was born with...

So, now tell me your wish- winner takes five stars and also the ten points.

I am asking this question due to I am one of those "Heart touching loving Wives." I am always saying loving things to my beloved and at times the words are amazing that he just gets lost in words. And no, it is not because I am dumb and it doesn't make sense either. I have also written him many of poems. So that is another thing I would like to know- have you ever wrote any love letters, poems or anything along those lines (For the heck of it) Hide it where he/she would find it???

(Read, the question very close while answering it. I have already been married to the person for 17 years. I am asking this question to see how many people would really be able to put up with all of the things I have done and also think nothing of it. Well, I have on the part where he made it where I never could have a child from him. Which really upsets me. Now, after reading and understanding the meaning the question you will know what it takes to have true love for someone.) ONLY PEOPLE WHO ARE MARRIED OR DIVORCED- AGES BETWEEN 21 AND UP (PLEASE LISTEN)

Say if you fell in love with the person you were with. Not just in love but "Madly in love" with this person- then you come to learn something that the person never told you about until the night before the wedding- and it is something that should have been told; before they even began dating. Then the person was to over look their beloved secret that was kept from the other knowing. After the two were married for over six months and then learns that there is even more behind the secret and never told. This is something that would cause the loved one not ever having a family. Would you still be able to look over what that person has done and never even told you?

(Now, this secret is first I found out about him dressing up; and was something he really enjoyed doing. No, he is not gay or any of things just wishes was the other sex. Later on found out that he was taking hormone pills where he would be able to have boobs) Then later on went back on the pills was on them three times after that and then last time made it where he was not even able to make love, like he use too and also lost his thing in size by over four inches and lost the width as well... What would you have done? Would you have been able to look over this, Would you have been able to stay with the person? Also the night before the wedding when they told you "BTW I enjoy dressing up in female clothes" Would you still have went through the wedding after all? Also when the person is no longer able to get in the mood and give you the love you need- how would it make you feel?

My husband is being the same way- things were really bad for him and me years ago. He use to always want to make love with me; no begging, no asking, no nothing it just happen. Then one year after our marriage it all started to come to an end. It hurt me really bad, here I was wondering what could have went wrong, is it really me, is it the way I look, is it the way I feel, is it the way I move? these are some thoughts that went through my mind at that time... I even told him back years ago "if things do not start changing with you showing me some love, your feelings, giving me affection and being like you were things will end" He must thought I was lying- because after two more years of him putting me in pain like this- I moved out for six months. Things still never really got any better. As the years went by I really thought he would change for the better- knowing that he is putting me into all this pain. It was always his way or no way (After things have changed)

I did everything and anything for this man; just to find me "Sexy" like he use too... I even went to the part of going down to 92 pounds and at that I was only at 132 LBS... He use to make me feel so loved, so wanted, so real- now all I feel is hate, ugliness, rejection, a broken heart, and much more... Here I am now 17 years later (I am only 31) and he still has not gotten any better- ALL IT HAS DONE IS GOT EVEN MORE WORSE... My tears mean nothing,my feeling that I show do not help much- talking to him doesn't even help any... He isn't cheating on me this I know... I have went to him asking "what's is it that you do not like about making love with me. Is it me, what is it" Is what I ask him I have even told him other ways for us to try on making love- thinking it would get him all hot and bothered. I then told him about my Fantasy I have kept to myself for over 16 1/2 years- which was for him and me to have hardcore. I would love to be tied up, to be spanked, and many more things in those lines. Hell, I am not even able to have him give me any oral sex anymore either- I use to always give it to him. I really enjoyed really.... Once he stopped doing so after the year, I still went on for a long time but then I also stopped for the longest time. Now once again I have been giving it to him again thinking "this will help, this is what he has always loved from me, maybe this will get him back into the mood.... I was wrong it doesn't help either. If you people would know any ideas to try out- to have him wanting to make more love than once, a week, once every two weeks- hell there been months in there and just this past year he stopped making love to me for a whole year and half. This past June- is where he started making love with me again. You , would think it would have been a lot of times NOT!!!! Try only ten times since then- Three days ago (Sept 14th) was the last time any thing took place- today, I was showing him "I want it baby" I even told him- nothing at all.... There is so much more I can tell you but this should be enough though. Please help

My husband is being the same way- things were really bad for him and me years ago. He use to always want to make love with me; no begging, no asking, no nothing it just happen. Then one year after our marriage it all started to come to an end. It hurt me really bad, here I was wondering what could have went wrong, is it really me, is it the way I look, is it the way I feel, is it the way I move? these are some thoughts that went through my mind at that time... I even told him back years ago "if things do not start changing with you showing me some love, your feelings, giving me affection and being like you were things will end" He must thought I was lying- because after two more years of him putting me in pain like this- I moved out for six months. Things still never really got any better. As the years went by I really thought he would change for the better- knowing that he is putting me into all this pain. It was always his way or no way (After things have changed)

I did everything and anything for this man; just to find me "Sexy" like he use too... I even went to the part of going down to 92 pounds and at that I was only at 132 LBS... He use to make me feel so loved, so wanted, so real- now all I feel is hate, ugliness, rejection, a broken heart, and much more... Here I am now 17 years later (I am only 31) and he still has not gotten any better- ALL IT HAS DONE IS GOT EVEN MORE WORSE... My tears mean nothing,my feeling that I show do not help much- talking to him doesn't even help any... He isn't cheating on me this I know... I have went to him asking "what's is it that you do not like about making love with me. Is it me, what is it" Is what I ask him I have even told him other ways for us to try on making love- thinking it would get him all hot and bothered. I then told him about my Fantasy I have kept to myself for over 16 1/2 years- which was for him and me to have hardcore. I would love to be tied up, to be spanked, and many more things in those lines. Hell, I am not even able to have him give me any oral sex anymore either- I use to always give it to him. I really enjoyed really.... Once he stopped doing so after the year, I still went on for a long time but then I also stopped for the longest time. Now once again I have been giving it to him again thinking "this will help, this is what he has always loved from me, maybe this will get him back into the mood.... I was wrong it doesn't help either. If you people would know any ideas to try out- to have him wanting to make more love than once, a week, once every two weeks- hell there been months in there and just this past year he stopped making love to me for a whole year and half. This past June- is where he started making love with me again. You , would think it would have been a lot of times NOT!!!! Try only ten times since then- Three days ago (Sept 14th) was the last time any thing took place- today, I was showing him "I want it baby" I even told him- nothing at all.... There is so much more I can tell you but this should be enough though. Please help

I have been married for over 16 years now with my husband- things with us have been in a lot of our ups and downs, I would say more ups than down though. I am always trying so hard, I have even given up a few times here and there I just never can seem to get my husband to show me his love; when him and me were dating he was so sweet and so loving; that is what made me fall so much in love with him but that was also when him and I were best friends- he was my world, my everything he still is though but back then he was just WOW. He made love with me, showed me his feelings, said sweet things to me, he really made me feel like I was something and someone. After our first year of being married everything just seemed to die off and gone the hell- the love making was not longer the same he stopped saying he loves me- the only time he does now is when he is at work and he calls. He no longer says he sweet little words he use to always say. He still does not do these things (HE IS NOT CHEATING THIS I KNOW) I cannot get him to ever make love with me, whenever I want to do anything with him he is always making up something and saying some type of reason. He has even said many of times we could not do so because our daughter is here; well, when she isn't he still doesn't do anything with me. He then looks for another reason and another and another. Four months ago he did not even make love with me for over a year and half and this was only a month ago and within that month he has only made love with me three times. Out of our whole marriage he has only made love with 550 times if not less. I love him do not get me wrong; but I know there is not anyone out here in this world who would put up with this. I know that love making is not everything but it is a big part of being together. Showing your love, it is something that you do. He only does these things when he is good and ready and then it is not even really making love- he just does it. I can go on and on with things that are not shown with him but then you would all really say that there is not any love here from him.... The thing is his mother raised her children not to love anyone but her- not to show any feelings- and this is pretty much what happens with me and also his mother was so mad he got with me and also that he married me. My question is what do you people think it is on why he will not make love with me?????