gonefromthisworld

so i've been seeing (let's call him jake.) jake for about 10 months now. (since jan. 09) we are in an open relationship. around may or so he knocked up this girl, he thought i heard, but i just found out a week ago. he's an amazing guy, and we're more of friends now, sue to restricting situations... also because of this situation, he can't go to the baby shower, or even see the baby born. i dont know the girl, but he said i can go to the baby shower and he's going to work it out. if i go it'd just be to bring a gift and such for him. should i go? what do i say? (i dont think she knows about me) am i crazy or jusst a good friend? HELP!!