Amy

I really liked this boy for a while and lost my virginity to him, realising later that he only wanted me for sex. Then he tried to break up my current boyfriend and I so I had to block him. Recently he has started working at the same place as me and has told others that he still has feelings for me and cares about me even if it's just as my friend. He has since become civil with my boyfriend and they aren't arguing anymore, however I'm left still feeling awkward every time I see him. Am I allowed to have similar conversations, just to say that I don't hate him and want to be civil?

My boyfriend has so many girl friends that I have no idea who's a threat anymore. He can basically do anything he wants that I don't like, he can get tattoos, have female friends that send him nudes etc...

Is it therefore okay to talk to my 'ex' again? Thing is he is not my ex, we never dated - he bribed me into having sex with him because he said he liked me. There's no way on earth that I still like him. My boyfriend found out that we were still talking and told me to block him but I miss having friends. What do I do?

My boyfriend is 'friends' with this girl and she likes every photo of him without me in it. She reacts to his photos with 'love' on facebook when I do just to wind me up. I also saw she sent a message saying 'hope you get back safe' and that they put little hearts to eachother - all sounds silly but he and I put hearts to eachother..

I really do not trust her and he's going to meet her next week. Thing is he hasn't mentioned it to me... Should I be mad or no?

Essentially I m exaggerating, but my boyfriend has many girl friends and one of them recently put her profile picture as her in a dressing gown with her cleavage out. My boyfriend liked it.. Is that okay?

When my boyfriend and I are apart I try to text him as much as I can. If he texts me, I reply within minutes of getting the message. He on the other hand likes to get messages, read them, and not reply for about half an hour. Surely if he was so busy he wouldn't even get to look at my message let alone not reply..

He works in a shop that sells phones so he is allowed to use his phone a lot - they get customers every half hour or so. Today I saw him use facebook yet he couldn't be bothered to reply to me whilst he was there?

Maybe I'm needy and slightly obsessive but I think it's wrong to ignore somebody you're meant to be in love with:/ What are your opinions on this? Am I being childish? We've been together 18 months and are 18/19 years old now.

My boyfriend is going to see his friends that go to uni in a few weeks. These friends are girls. I can t stand the thought of him going out to get drunk with a bunch of girls, as in he will be one of few guys. A few of them have boyfriends but I can t help but think that they ll try something with him.

One of them have took pictures of herself in their underwear and sent them to him to supposedly check if they were okay to send elsewhere. I ve noticed that he s very much a ladies man, he doesn t seem to get on with my brother - they have opposite humours etc. What should I do to get over this? If I talk to him about it he ll just get upset and tell me I cant keep him away from his friends but what else am I meant to do when it makes me feel insecure?

I've been with my boyfriend for almost 18 months and since I've started university and been away from home the majority of the time he has taken up gaming more often. When I'm sat in my house upset (as I'm having a bad time at uni), I wait for his reply and I'm waiting for hours on end.

I tried to save as much time as I could for phone calls and conversations and I just feel abandoned. When I ask him for attention he makes me feel bad because he says he's spending time with his dad (they game together). If I get a phone call it is generally after a long day at work or late at night when he's too tired to properly engage and he gets mad at the silliest of things.

What can I say to him to make him pay more attention to me?

I don t normally look through my boyfriend s messages but yesterday I saw that he was deleting messages before he let me use his phone to play a game on it. Whilst he was gone I had a look and I saw nudes from his friend (who is a girl). I can t remember seeing signs of him asking for them nor particularly responding to them..

When I confronted him about it he said that she just asks him if it s good enough to send to her boyfriend like any girl would to a girl friend. They do have a weird friendship in the way that they have inside sex jokes - the fact that she likes anal being one of them. I know what they re like but I told him this is not okay and he said he ll make sure it doesnt happen again - how am I to know that he doesnt just delete them so I cant see?

He has given me chances before but when he does something wrong it seems that that s okay, but when it s me I m the worst human being on the planet. He made me block an ex that i had been speaking to but it s okay for him to receive pictures from other girls? What do I do? Is this something I should forget about?

No iphone comments I'd rather not;)

It s difficult to trust a guy who has girl friends. He lets me use his phone for games and stuff so it s clear he hasn t got anything to hide, but I just struggle so hard. Like he s going out for the night next week and he hasn t invited me yet he s inviting a girl and her friends, those of which he met on a night out previously. It makes me feel sick to think of them trying to chat him up, like of course they will they re drunk and forget that he has commitments.

How do I deal with this jealousy? I m sure there s nothing to worry about but I worry. We re 18/19 and have been together a year so please don t be patronising

I smoked weed at uni ONCE so that I could socialise and perhaps make friends. I realised this was the wrong crowd, but my boyfriend went crazy about it and told me never to do anything stupid ever again. I feel like he can't tell me what to do in this sense as he smokes too and regularly. He told me he'd quit smoking if I promised to never change for anyone again and to not hide anything from him, yet he's okay to lie about quitting smoking?

It really isn't hard for him to not smoke, he goes days without them when hes with me and even went 6 months when we first got together. It gets me down that he's doing this to himself and I know I'll lose him way earlier than I need to if he carries on. Any advice?

First I ll start with what I ve done:

My boyfriend read my diary which said I d been talking to someone I ve had feelings for before and that I sort of miss him but it s totally innocent. Boyfriend to me to block him and I did.

I smoked weed once at uni even though my boyfriend didn t want me to. He told me he d give up smoking if I promised to never do anything bad ever again.

I dance and talk to guys in clubs (again innocently) and he told me not to do that again.

What he does:

He told me that a girl who once liked him wanted to move in with him and thinks that it s still okay to talk to her. This is the girl that tried to split us up months ago, making him choose me or her.

He meets girls on nights out and adds them on facebook, although this does seem innocent.

He carried on smoking without telling me, making him look like a hypocrite.

Is he as bad as me?

I live in student accommodation and luckily I get on with pretty much all of them. I'm not as comfortable as I'd like to be but I'm okay.

The only thing that bothers me is my course mates. I sit on a table with them all and I'm quite quiet so I barely get a word in, even when I try. They only listen if I have something to help them with their work..

They're seeing each other outside of uni though, going to parties together and having food and coffee. I'm stuck here looking at the pictures. They hug each other and get all excited when they meet up.

I made the biggest mistake of not going to societies - even my course has a society that I could've gone to to make friends, I just wanted a break from uni when I'm not there.

I'm not sure what to do now. Do I just wait and see who I meet next semester or even bother trying with this group?

I love him so much, we've been together for a year in a few days. I just really don't get him sometimes. We had a slight argument a few nights ago about the fact that he has been ignoring me for hours on end for the past week or so. He told me that his parents argue and sometimes he's just quiet because he's upset, rather than telling me in the first place so I know that I've not done something wrong.

Last night though he was being quiet again and I just told him I was going to bed as I was grumpy. To which he went in a rage saying that he was spending time with his dad and that I shouldn't be mad at him and all this. He ignored me for hours, like if he'd have told me that he was busy I would have been able to do my own thing but I'm constantly waiting around for him.

Secondly at Christmas he's spending boxing day with his friend as it's his birthday getting drunk and going clubbing. That's fair enough I guess as it is his birthday, but I think he's planning on New Years Eve without me as well. I doubt I'll get to see much of him at Christmas, and I'm back from Uni and rarely get to see him anyway.

Am I being unreasonable or is he? Or both?

My housemate has been vomiting for 24 hours and I'm terrified that I'll catch it. How can I help to prevent this?

My boyfriend has barely spoke to me all night and says that it s because his parents are arguing and he s upset about it. I try to say nice things to cheer him up as I can t go and see him (I m at uni) yet I m being ignored. Is this okay?

I'm going to be at university (early September) until early December, therefore I haven't seen my boyfriend much at all. It's been difficult to not see each other but we've done well so far...

Of course, when I get back, I'd love to see him as much as possible. We work at the same place and that will take up a lot of our time. However my boyfriend wants to go out with his friends (as in clubbing) on New Years Eve. I believe I'm not invited either.

We've been together a year this Christmas and I think it's a special time for us to be together. Am I being unreasonable if I've told him I don't want him to go? I don't want to feel like I'm controlling him, but since I've mentioned it that's what it seems like he feels like I'm doing:/

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I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend last night and he isn't sure whether he finished inside me or not. It was also the day after my period ended so doesn't that mean it's my least fertile time of the month? Will I even need any emergency contraception? Like I've booked an appointment with the doctor to see what they say but I'm looking for advice here as well to settle my mind..

Secondly I find it difficult to take pills so the IUD may be my only option. Has anyone else had experiences with this? Also how long is it left in before it is effective as I don't wish to use it full time. Thankyou!

I have to make an appointment for a meningitis injection and I'm wondering if I can ask this same person about contraception at the same time?

Also can I make an appointment via the doctor or do I have to do it at the reception desk?