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Hey, I met this girl a few times in person and added her on Facebook. I really want to start talking to her and maybe get her number, but I don't wanna seem creepy since we only met and talked a handful of times. What should I do? Thanks.

Hey, I'm an average looking guy. But the majority of my buds are either better looking than me or have more muscle than I do. So naturally they're the first ones out of my group most girls go to. I'm naturally nice/shy. How can I compensate for not being as good looking or as muscular as my buds? I am always polite, I have good hygiene (minus some acne that won't go away), I'm on the skinny side. Any help would be great. Thanks.

Hey, about a week and a half ago I hooked up a few times with a friend of a friend. She added me on Facebook that night. I've been pretty busy since then and we only had contact once and it was brief. Should I do something or just leave it alone? I don't want to seem like a jerk. I feel bad. Thanks.

Hey, Saturday night I hung out with two of my female friends. One I am pretty close with, the other I only met once before. I ended up hooking up a few times with the one I only met once before. Now I don't know what to do with the situation. I don't know if she was just having fun or is actually interested in me. I also don't want to damage my friendship with the girl I am close to. What do I do? Help? Thanks.

Hey, I've always been the nice, sweet guy who has manners and opens doors for girls. I don't have alot of luck with girls, only had two girlfriends and I'm 22 and single. Yet I see, I admit some of my friends, who treat girls like pieces of meat, are vulgar, sorry for the expression, but f@#k and chuck them, but yet they get all the girls. Should I just give up and become like those guys? Thanks.

Hey, I'm a guy. I'm wondering how important it is if guys style their hair or not. I style mine when I work, or go to a wedding, dance, etc. But otherwise I never do, even if going to a party. I get hair cuts regularly, and keep it washed, but how does it being styled or not affect when you first meet a guy? Thanks.

Hey, this girl and I have been good friends for over four years. I was naive when it came to girls when we first met. But now that I look back on it, I'm pretty sure during the first year to 18 months, she wanted to be more then friends. I hate to use the term, but she was coming on to me I think. I was never sure if she was and was always too scared to try anything. I would love to date her but it's not really an option now. But it's killing me not knowing if she actually liked me. Could I ask her or would that damage our friendship? Help? Thanks.

Hey, I'm a guy with almost 0 luck with girls. I'm 20, 5'8, 130lbs, brown hair, green eyes, average looking with a little acne that I am trying to get rid of. I have good hygene I can make girls laugh, I always try to act like a gentlemen around girls, opening doors, etc. I treat them with respect, I'm pretty smart, but not a genius, I try to never rush them into sex or anything. But I also become shy and awkward at times, and I don't have alot of confidence, and am not a ladies man. Am I missing something that other guys have? Help? Thanks.

Hey, I'm a guy, and one of my close friends is a girl. While walking her home tonight it came up that she has a school concert this week. So I jokingly said that I'd go and support her etc. I wouldn't mind going, but if I actually went, would that be creepy/weird? Thanks.

Hey, I've known this girl for just over three years now. I've had extremely strong feelings for her since the first day we met. Well up until about 4 months ago, we hung out 4-5 days a week, she trusted me with everything, I was one of her closet friends, and her mine. We've had moments of "more than friends" type stuff. But now it seems that 90% of the time now she only talks/calls/texts me when she needs something. It makes me angry, upset, etc. Why after 3 years the sudden change? Is there something I can do/say? Thanks.

Hey, I'm an average looking guy. I always try to be nice, and make girls laugh yet I have little luck with girls. So simple question, what do you look for when you first meet a guy? Or what do you look for in a guy in general? Help/tips? Thanks.

Hey, this girl and I have been pretty good friends for a few years, and I like her alot. We hang out a few times a week, and are pretty close. I've never been good at making long conversations, but she would usually do most of the talking. Recently though, there has been spaces of silence between us. I rack my brain trying to think of something to say, but I just end up repeating myself after 10 mins. How can I get better at conversations? Thanks.

Hey, I met this girl just over a year ago through friends. We quickly became good friends and are very close. We call each other brother and sister. She's a few years younger then me, and I realize that she is very attractive, but I see her as my little sister. Well the other night we were hanging out and a guy that she is starting to date was all over her. I got really angry and wanted to tell him to keep off of her but I restrained myself. Is something wrong with me? Or? Thanks.

Hey, I'm a 21 year old guy and I've been saving sex for marriage. I've had a few girlfriends, and it wasn't a problem with most of them. But as I'm getting older, it's getting harder to not go all the way. And it also seems that most girls aren't waiting for marriage. Should I just give in and have sex or?

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Hey, I've known this girl for over three years, and have been in love with her since the day I met her. We're pretty good friends, but she isn't interested in me. But whenever she calls me and we hang out, I sweat pretty badly, even right after a shower. Only happens around her. What can I do to stop this? Help/tips? Thanks.

Hey, I've been very close friends with this girl, we consider each other family. I'm a guy. A week or two ago she broke up with her b.f. of almost a year. Well she has started to hook up with, and spending time with a mutual friend. But he is a man-whore, who doesn't want a relationship. I like the guy as a friend, but she can do alot better, and he will only hurt her. The last thing I want to see is her hurt. What can/should I do? Should I warn her or? Thanks.

Hey, I met this girl 8 months ago. After 2 months of talking and hanging out, I kind of made it evident that I liked her, and would like to pursue something more. She said she liked me too, but had to get to know me better before anything else happened. So after another four months of getting to know each other, I asked her if she knew me enough now, but she said another month or two. Finally yesterday I asked her straight out what the deal is, and she said "Sorry, you're like one of my best friends now". I'm alittle angry and feel defeated. Was she just messing with me the whole time or did I mess up some how? Any advice or help would be great. Thanks.

Hey, I met this girl almost 8 months ago, and have liked her since, and get the feeling she likes me also. She doesn't like talking to on the phone, nor do I. So our main contact is text/in person. We texted abit last night but it was short. So what is an acceptable amount of texting in a week? Any tips/help would be great. Thanks.

Hey, Earlier I tapped a bumper parking my car. Instantly the guy starts yelling at me, I apologize and get out but he still gives me an attitude the whole time. I go to his car, and get on my hands and knees and examine both bumpers, not a scratch, dent, crack, or hint of paint transfer. He still isn't happy, so he grabs his bumper and starts to shake it with both hands, saying "look how lose it is now!". I reply, "How do I know it wasn't like that? And you shaking it is making it lose". He shakes it three more times. I tell him that since there's no damage I'm sorry for the inconvenience, and stuff happens. He demands my number, which I give him. As he gets in his car he yells, "If anything happens, I'm calling you". So since there was no damage, what can happen now? Would I have to pay for anything since there is no damage/proof? He seems like he'd try to scam me. Help? Thanks.

Hey, I like this girl, we're friends, but not that close. Well she doesn't text, and I don't have the guts to call her, so I was going to write something on her Facebook. I wanna put something like, "When are we gonna hang again? I miss ya", or simply "Hey". I want to put something that she'll respond to but won't make me look desperate/creepy/corny. Any ideas or advice would be great. Thanks.