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I just answered this for my homework for counseling tomorrow in a last ditch effort to save the marriage. I am interested in how others would answer the question.

If it matters, I have been married for 2 years to a wife that has been previously married once and has 2 sons. I have never been married before. I moved out of the house about 1 month ago.

Looking for one to help with insulin dosing

I would be a first time ferret owner but I have a friend who is a veterinarian and have been around several ferrets before. I am looking into getting cages/bedding/food/vitamins right now.

The ferrets would have to live with two young human cubs (males aged 8 and 12 years) and a 5 year old male chihuahua who thinks he is human (he was fixed late and seems to be a tad more territorial since being fixed), The dog and the ferrets can be kept separate if it comes to that.

One of the details about our new (6 months) marriage that I thought made her happy was the fact that even though we are struggling financially (we are living paycheck to paycheck, do not have cable, rarely go out to eat, etc) I did not inquire into how much money she spent and what she spent it on. I do not open her bills or check her account balances. She has said at times that she is happy about this arrangement. Recently she has begun asking why most of my bills for starting my own medical practice (in MI of all states) are sent to the office address. She has also started opening checks from the local university (where I teach at night for more income) and depositing it for me when delivered while I am working on a Saturday. She said she wants to discuss my financial matters and bills this weekend, with no offer to discuss hers. I tell her OK, I have nothing to hide. This morning, she becomes angry and opens my mail without discussing it with me. Am I bad for being upset?

I recently married and my wife has 2 sons by 2 different men that she shares custody with.

Yesterday in church many people were wishing me a 'Happy Father's Day' or even a 'Happy First Father's Day' My wife did not notice because we were not sitting together (she was the liturgist (spelling?))

Several of my family members did the same.

What do I do or say when asked what did I do for my first Father's Day?

My wife did not say anything about it and the boys were with their fathers.

I don't have children of my own. I try to give input on raising the boys without being too intrusive. I get asked my input on raising the boys. I care for them a lot, go to soccer and baseball games, etc.

Anybody have any ideas on the situation for me?

If you are in a similar marriage, how does this work for your Mothers/Fathers Day?

I recently married and my wife has 2 sons by 2 different men that she shares custody with.

Yesterday in church many people were wishing me a 'Happy Father's Day' or even a 'Happy First Father's Day' My wife did not notice because we were not sitting together (she was the liturgist (spelling?))

Several of my family members did the same.

What do I do or say when asked what did I do for my first Father's Day?

My wife did not say anything about it and the boys were with their fathers.

I don't have children of my own. I try to give input on raising the boys without being too intrusive. I get asked my input on raising the boys. I care for them a lot, go to soccer and baseball games, etc.

Anybody have any ideas on the situation for me?

If you are in a similar marriage, how does this work for your Mothers/Fathers Day?

Justin Verland just threw a no hitter in his second year in the major leagues.

So anyone want to tell me wedding stories? Did you trip walking down the aisle? Were you actually concsious during the ceremony? Did you get in a fight with family/spouse?

So how many married guys out there actually didn't have a bachelor party which included strippers?