Anna

ok so i kinda like this guy but we text all the time and never talk face to face. One of my friends heard that he was really clingy and weird and thats why his last girlfriend broke up with him but I assumed she was just saying that because she was mad at me for liking him. So the sports team he plays on also has a bad rep and I was worried about that anyway. Now today, someone that knows him said that it's true and he is weird so what do I do. I thought he was really nice, a little flirty over text but nice. I don't want to get into a bad situation with him and I don't want to hurt him by going any farther. my friends will judge me and so will a lot of other girls if I dated him anyway even though he's really nice. What can I say that won't crush him but get my point across clearly, I really don't need something like this to happen now.

Alright so there is this guy from my school and we kinda have a big school so I don't know why he picked me out of the crowd but anyway he texts me all the time and it's pretty obvious he likes me, but he is on a sports team with a bad rep and i don't want to get judged for hanging out with him. I mean he's kinda weird and I would never do anything with him it's just that I don't want to be judged by everyone and be called a ****. Anyway we've kinda talked about this a little bit but I don't know if I can take it, I don't know him well enough to know if I truly like him and I don't want to risk my rep, which is a good girl rep, if it might not even last at all. He wants to hang out and talk and stuff but I know that it will just be too weird. He's said how people judging the team is stupid and I think it is too but there still lots of people who thinks it serious. How can I let him down and explain that I like him but don't want people to think i'm different for being around him, without hurting his feelings really badly??

ok so i'm 16 and 5'7" and i'm really sick of gaining weight. I was 128 pounds for a long time and I was so happy and then like six months ago I started gaining weight so I stopped eating chips and chocolate and ice cream all together and i don't eat a lot of food and started exercising. I was sick for a while and stopped and then I started exercising again but now I just keep on gaining weight and now I weigh 150 pounds. I look fat in everything I wear and I hate how I look and it doesn't matter what I do I just keep getting fatter. I don't excerise a lot but at least twenty minutes for four out of seven days of the week which is more than I did before. I'm trying to not just puke every time I eat but I've done it a couple of time and I'm starting to think that it's the best choice even though I know it's not. Can i punish myself somehow so that I won't want to eat and then I can get back down to a normal weight. Right now I have decided that I have to sleep on the floor still I loose weight but I don't know what else can get it going. Please help me I hate being fat!

ok i'm not one of those selfish annoying people, i thought we should get this straight.

I love my grandma from my mom's side and I love all my great grandmas too but my grandma from my dad's side is the biggest *****. I hate her so much. she always tell people in town, we live in a small town that has lots of farmers but we aren't hicks, anyway she always tells people that she owns our farm and our house even though she made my parents buy it for WAY more than it was worth and on top of that she has taken thousands more dollars from us than was agreed. they live right beside us in the country and i hate her. she always comes over and says rude things or tells us about all the stupid things she is doing. she still thinks our farm is hers and it's not. they take our stuff, like actually my grandparents will come to our house and take our vehicles without even telling us, who the hell does that. Honestly i wish i lived far away so i could only see her sometimes. she has said hurtful things to me since I was ten and i can remember coming home and crying, she is now starting on my brother who is 12. i'm sorry if i offend anyone but she is a horrible person and every time i see her i want to rip my ears off. please tell me what to do so i don't explode one day!!!

ok so this creepy guys takes my bus, i live on a farm, he was always weird and creepy to me. I am 16 by the way. So any way in decemeber i found out from some of my other guys friends that he was taking a bunch of videos of me when I wasn't looking, like what a creep. So i got really mad at him, I haven't spoken to him since, I see him everyday and i txted him a bunch of times to leave me alone and he doesn't. he was ok for a while but i caught him taking another video of me and he txted me off someone elses phone and then deleted the messages so that guy wouldn't know what he did. All the guys think he is creepy and so do i. I just hate him so much but he won't leave me alone. should i just get mad at him in person and get one of the other guys to be around when i do it. I hate him because i'm scared of him and he creeps me out. How do i get him to stop for good!!!

i almost always get a mark in the 90 and to be honest i think an 80 is really bad for me. Our grade ten french class is really hard and i try so hard and i am getting the same marks as everyone else except i am getting an 89 and the girl who doesn't hardly even get the class is getting an 83. the teacher doesn't actually give marks she just uses rubrics (where a 4/4 is 100% and a 3/4 is like an 86%) and she just kind of guesses for what your final mark will be. like everything is out of four on this rubric things and i had gotten on two in this whole semester and instead of having that section be a three and a half i got a three all because of one 2 even though i had 3, 3.5 and 4's on everything else. i find it really unfair and i talked to her but she just said that was my mark and that i was doing really good, but if i was doing good i would be with my friends in the 90's mark. i get the same marks as them and she is giving me a lower mark. is she just one of the those teachers and it doesn't matter what i do it will still be a bad mark? i have never been rude or mean to her and i don't know why she is doing this :(

ok so when i was seven my baby teeth fell out and the adult laterals never grew in. when i was 12 or 13 i got braces because my teeth were really spaced out. now my braces are gone and i have this stupid essix retainer and it has fake teeth in it but i have to take it out to eat. so whenever i want to eat i have to slobber it out and then eat with no laterals in my mouth. the retainer also looks really fake and shiny and the teeth are really fake looking. i asked my orthodontist if i could do something better but she said no. why can't i get fake teeth. A partiel or i was looking at the valplast partiel and is it good? i am 15 and i hate not having teeth there for obvious reasons. what would you suggest?

alright so there is this guy on my bus and I have know him forever. I have know he has liked me for a few years and i even like him for a little while. but he is super weird and creepy. He didn't used to be all weird and now he is! The first creepy thing he did was get my number by sneaking it off of someone elses phone and then he sent me weird texts and woudlnt tell me who it was. Then he sent me a message from someone else phone that said Nice bum where ya from. the guy whos phone it was told me that this creepy stole his phone and sent me all the creepy stuff, i believe. Now i found out from some other guys on my bus that he took a video of me walking down the aisle of the bus and they caught him. I promised the guy who told me i wouldn't tell the creepy one but seriously what the hell is wrong with creep . Who does that! i don't want to talk to him at all but can i stop this!

ok so my dad is really helpful with everyone. if one of his friends wanted help with anything in the house or yard he would be over there in two seconds but at home it is way different. we ask him to do stuff and he says we are just being mean to him. he is always doing stuff for other people, it's not his job. Our basement leaks really bad and we can't even have carpet. my room is downstairs too and it has mold in it and he never even finished it. he was suppose to finished putting new flooring upstairs but he still hasn't and it has been almost a year. when i ask him to do things for me in the house he jsut makes up excuses that he is too busy or tired. i don't understnad why he can do whatever anyone else asks him, i mean anyone, but not us. i want to tell him to stop being such a lazy person. i am so mad at him, my mom is always doing things but she can't do the heavy work. he never does anything at home and it isn't fair!!!!!! what do have to say so that he will stop being so lazy aroudn the house???!!

alright so i am a highland dancer, lame I know, and it takes a lot of energy and muscle. Last year i noticed it was getting a little harder to do but it didn't bother me. Now i can barely do a dance with out getting really tired and i feel like throwing up and my muscles just feel weird like I have no energy. it's not that i am not fit becasue i still have all my muscle and i can do it. it is just that I feel like crap after. i have no energy to do it, and i am not tired, like sleepy or anything, i just feel like my body will shut down. i almost started to cry in one dance because i was so tired, one that i have been doing since i was nine, but my body didn't want to do it. i really don't want to have to quit because it's too hard. there must be something wrong with me. am i lacking a vitamin or something in my body? please give any and all suggestions.

ok i am fifteen years old and I am 5'7" and a half. I weigh 133 lbs I am just gaining more slowly. I used to wiegh 127 like three weeks ago. I hate being this fat and what can i do to not be this fat. I really want to lose at least those five or six pounds and what is the best way to do it? also is this considered fat cuz i think it is?

alright so i know this guy who dances with me, yes i know it's kinda weird but he is def not a girly boy. so anyway he sent me this forward, it said "Love you baby! :)" and then some stuff about don't ruin it and send to ten people. ok so when i send a forward to people i generally send it to the people it applies to but do other people not do that. I don't like him or anything but I was just wondering if this was a quiet way of saying or not but he is so not the kind of guy to just say that. I don't know but please say your opinion

alright so a new family moved here and the dad asked me if i would want to babysit and i said that i would love to. but they are all boys (2 1/2, 4 1/2, and 6 1/2). I have no idea what to do with them and i might have to come over while they are there becasue the one boy is really shy and they don't want him to get upset. what games should i bring or play with them and what toys do boys this age like. is there something they would all like to do. i want to make a good impression becasue i don't babysit for the family i used to because they got a nanny so i would like to start babysitting again.

alright so i always do stupid stuff when i sleep. For a long time, especially when it gets hot in my room i will just scratch and scratch my skin till its all sore but i don't stop till i wake up and it suck because I have eczema. so i have the stupid retainer to wear and it cracked but i was supposed to wait untill on appointment which in is five days to get it fixed but for some reason last time my tongue so wrecked the things. I woke up with my tongue stuck inbetweent the plastic and now it is so wrecked. do people actually do this stuff and if they do, do i do it because it's hot in my room, it is summer, or just cause i am weird. Also how long can i go without my retainer, i got my braces off in April? Thanks and please answer all my questions.

so i was wondering in the 1940's would it have been weird for a very wealthy family to have three cars to drive. Would each of their children have had one or would they all have had one car? also what was a very popular car in 1940-1942?

ok so i have this friend who i am not to close with anymore because she just makes me mad and she get really grumpy sometimes. so my other friend who doesn't like her made up this name to call her when she was mean and we all knew. so in english we were writing letter to people for memories to read at grad and my other friend wrote to me about the but my friend read it and now she knows and she left her class and the teacher had to talk to her. another friend said she wasn't mad at me but i feel bad we only did it for a day. i texted her and she said she would call me in an hour but i don't know what to say, we aren't close friends anymore but i wish my other friend had never written this in my letter, i never wrote stuff like that to anyone.

i know it's confussing but i don't want to use names

ok so i was wondering if in the 1930's what dances would the people have down in the prairies and what dances would the wealthy people from the maritime have done or did they all do the same dances whether they were rich or poor

ok so i am doing a speech about having high expectations. and so i was wondering does being around people with high expectations much you have high expectation and does being around people with low expectations make you have low expectation? also what happens to people with low expectation vs. someone with high expectations.

hey so i have to have a topic for an essay and a speech for tomorrow, the same topic for both. I don't really know what I want to do but i want a good topic not something stupid and boring. I was thinking abortion vs adoption, or assited suicide or something along those lines. PLEASE give any suggestions you have becasue i could really use them, anything!!!

okay so i am a teenage girl and i hate the hair that i have. well i guess i mean i have leg hair and pit hair like everyone else, of course i hate that. but i have hair on my stomach espiacally down the middle it is sooo embarrassing. i don't know if other people see it but i don't want anyone to find out. also i have face hair which you can't really see unless i am in bright light, which is like all summer. i guess my hair is mostly blondeish but i can still see it. i can't spend all my money on lasering it all off but i really hate. is there something that is safe, not going to take all my money and will actually last. I will not shave it, as if i want to shave my legs, armpits, stomach and face everyday. Would waxing last very long and would it look even worse we comes back. please give all your knowledge... and please please please don't be mean.