nicole

So I met my Co worker about a year ago. (Don't work together anymore) and we clicked and hit it off. We exchanged numbers and were constantly texting for two weeks. It slowed down after that but I still saw him at work and my feelings grew stronger and stronger and I fell hard . we still kept in contact but he said he didn't want a relationship. That's cool but he continued to flirt and such with me giving me compliments making me think otherwise. This made me continue to chase him for a few months and now he likes to blame it all on me call me desperate and make me feel terrible. Am I wrong in saying hes to blame for some of this?

But he said he doesnt want a serious relationship can someone help me? What gives?

that causes even more hurt!

so me and my friend from work have been talking for about a year now on and we argue a lot but always come back to eachother . why would friends fight so much that are not in a relationship? we have been on a few dates. I want him to commit he doesn't want a relationship and we are very close. we hung out Wednesday and I told him he loves to hurt me . he said he would prove that he doesn't and I asked how and he never answered. can anybody make anything of this? no negative nancies please.

So me and my co worker started talking in june and we texted non stop for two weeks. then it slowed down to maybe every couple of days and now he text once a week if that. the confusing thing is he took me out for my birthday in august and then we went out on a date last week. He held my hand and treated me like his woman. Now hes back to not texting often. what gives.

Signed,

Confused girl