raelyn

I am in a long distance relationship. And I cheated on my boyfriend at the beginning of our relationship because I didn't know we were really serious. But he just recently found out. I have a part time job. I'm a full time dancer and a full time student. He gave me an ultimatum, I either come to him (in Canada) or he leaves me. I don't have the money to spend to go to him and my parents don't approve of him. I'm 19 years old. Should I try and go or should I just tell him no and see what happens? Help...

He always tells me to respect him. If I don't give him what he wants he yells at me. He says I never respect him and that he gives me everything I want. He believes that if he asks me not to do something. That I shouldn't do it and listen to him. I think he's a jerk and everyone around me tells me to kick him to the curb. But I love him with all my heart. I thought he was the one I wanted to marry some day. What should I do?