Lynsey T

When my hubby and I got married we talked about having 3-4 children. We have three wonderful daughters and I would like to have one more. He told me yesterday that he scheduled a vesectomy and he does not want any more children. We are a happy, stable family. Financially secure and could easily afford another child. I am a stay at home mom, I do the cleaning, cooking, laundrey etc. He hardley ever has to lift a hand (he does do things to help me out, I just feel since I stay home, the home is my job.) I am very upset about this. Any advice?

My husband's best friend is cheating on his wife. I am not a close friend of his wife, but do consider her a friend. He is not planning on divorcing his wife. There are children involved as well. I know his wife has no clue. Should I tell her or keep my mouth shut?

I have a friend that will call me multiple times a day (10+), then just show up at my house and not leave. She doesn't work, is always eating my food and asking to borrow money. I have children to support and cannot afford to take care of her too. She is starting to get on my last nerve.