TinyMe

I am 5-6w pregnant with a child I didn't plan on. I am having a pretty hard time coping and really just wish I had someone to talk to. Most people here were actually trying so it's hard for them to relate to how I am feeling. I have days where I want to have the baby and others that I don't. I've been considering abortion but doubt that I could go through with it. I just wish I could talk to other women in my situation. I'm not married and don't plan on staying with the father so I would love to be able to talk to other single pregnant woman that aren't as excited about their pregnancy. I'm sure as things are sorted out I will become more thrilled with the pregnancy but right now I can't help but feel bad about it. I am 25 years old and employed full time and think with a little assistance I could raise the baby fine.

Please don't write about your opinions on abortion or that I should adopt out my child. I am just looking for a place where I can talk to other women like myself.

I am 25 and about 3-5 weeks pregnant. I was taking birth control but have had some really bad reflux causing me to throw up at night. I though I was fine but it turns out I must have thrown up enough of the pill ( I took it in the mornings). My boyfriend is recently unemployed, severely depressed and takes a lot of his anger out on me. He yells at me and snaps at the smallest thing. He has kicked our dog in anger and has also thrown the cats. He has never been violent towards me but he loses his temper very quickly. He's so depressed he refuses to leave the house to even walk the dog so the dog poops in the house. I finally saved a little money to move out with roommates but I can't do this with a baby. My family is supportive no matter my choice but they are pushing for me to end the pregnancy. I know it is the smart thing to do but my heart isn't all of the way in it. I know that I would worry about my boyfriends temper with a baby since he complains when he hears babies cry in public. I have doubts that he is capable of even loving a child. He has a very hard time being emotionally supportive of me so I worry that he is incapable of loving a child. He doesn't know I am pregnant and I don't want to tell him if I am not keeping the child.

I am so torn between wanting the child and knowing that both the baby and I would suffer. My family supports any decision I make but they are pushing for me to end the pregnancy. know part of the reason I want to keep the baby is because I have such a low worth of myself that I think a baby would love me for who I am but I know this is horrible thinking. I don't want to be one of those people who have babies because they aren't loved by anyone else. I don't think I am emotionally mature to care for another living being. I often feel like I should be further than I am. I don't feel like I have matured since college. I can't handle money and don't know how I could support a child on the little money I make.

I am just so lost. I don't know who to turn to. I can't find any forums for people in my situation. I have a couple of friends who are doing the single parent thing but they seem so much more mature than I am.

Please don't lecture me on the responsibility of having sex since I am fully aware and am taking complete responsibility for my actions. I am just looking for some advice or a place where I can talk to other people like me.

Here are the essentials to my story. I am 25 and have had a couple of sexual partners (both long term boyfriends). I have read every book with and without pictures to figure this out. I feel awkward masturbating and it does nothing for me (I need added stimulation of another person). I have tried many sex toys and they all get me to the same point. I get to the point where I feel like I am almost there and then nothing. Not an orgasm but just complete lack of interest and nothing feels remotely good. I don't put pressure on myself, especially during sex though. I'm always too distracted to worry about it. All of my worries come after sex. I often wonder if there is something physically wrong with me. I have tried so many positions and added things to sex and they feel great but I can't ever get over that last hump. I'm very close to asking my doctor about this but I don't really think there is anything that she can do. I do know that my uterus is tilted backwards if that makes a difference...

My mother has been without internet for almost 2 weeks now and her phone has been having problems for the last month but the phone still works most of the time so she doesn't worry about it. In the last week she has spoken to multiple people that keep telling her that the work order is coded wrong and that they "promise" to send someone out that same day to look at it. The last person she talked to was a supervisor (yesterday) and he told her that he would make sure someone went out there that same day and that he would make sure to forward all of the incorrect codes and other errors to someone higher up. Well, as you may have guessed, no one showed up yesterday and when she called today she was told that the supervisor had coded the call for a problem phone instead of an internet problem which she made sure to stress to him was the more important issue. Now, she was told by this other person that someone will be out today but she has heard that story for 2 weeks straight.

What should her next step be? I was told about Comcastmustdie.com and that it was a good site to get someone from corporate to look at the problems but all of the posts are from 2008 and it looks like they aren't planning to update it. She wants to send emails to the corp people but I doubt they will actually ever see it. She has been a loyal customer for 15 years in 2 states. Please let me know if you have any suggestions!!

I am looking for a website where similar to MySpace but is a place where people go to make friends ONLY. I'm just looking to make friends but not weird people out by randomly contacting them. So to summarize, I am looking for a website where people go to make friends you can actually hang out with, outside of the computer. I really appreciate your help. It's been tough since friends have gone away to school and not come back after :)

Thanks again!!

I am looking for a website where similar to MySpace but is a place where people go to make friends ONLY. I'm just looking to make friends but not weird people out by randomly contacting them. So to summarize, I am looking for a website where people go to make friends you can actually hang out with, outside of the computer. I really appreciate your help. It's been tough since friends have gone away to school and not come back after :)

Thanks again!!

I can't find it anywhere. Watch-movies.net doesn't have it yet. I don't want to download it. Has anyone seen it online yet?

I would like to know what your thoughts on why your hopeful should be president are. I'm not looking for why the OTHER person should NOT be president. I want to know what reasons you have for your delegate of your choice should lead the country. What does he have to offer? What does he stand for? If there was one thing that you could change about his current campaign, what would it be? What would you add?

Try and convince me why your candidate is the best for the job.

I had a company (National Express Florist) call my job and say they were supposed to deliver flowers last week but didn't because no one was home. They said that they wanted to deliver them and wanted to know if someone would be home at 7. I told her I might not be but she said anyone would be fine. Then she asked to confirm the numbers that were on the invoice which was a number that I had for less than a month and I didn't give out and my work number. They also gave me a number to call if I needed to reschedule the delivery. When I called the number 2 minutes later, it was for some computer company (the woman was really confused when I said florist).

So, I'm guessing this was someone trying to serve papers or something but I have no idea for what. I have a few outstanding debts but they usually leave the documents even when no one is home. I have a judgment against me but I am paying that on time. I get lawyer letters in the mail and I ma just trying to save up for a bankruptcy lawyer and the associated fees. I don't have any warrants out for my arrest or anything like that.

Any ideas? I appreciate all that can help! I am kind of scared to go home.

Here's the problem that I am having with reading posts here. When someone shows their support of one candidate, they are fanatics. I've seen people bring up good points on both sides and people here have a hard time accepting that someone's opinion is different from theirs. It's ok to say that you don't agree but take into account that even if you have a good point but you add something unintelligent, no one is going to take you seriously. By saying that Obama is a good candidate but then saying all McCain supporters are idiots, you come across as the idiot.

Both of these candidates are flawed. Only an uninformed person would think that either of these men are the perfect candidate. I have seen things that I like about both of the men and things I don't like. If you follow a candidate blindly, you end up the fool. There is no way you can agree with a candidate 100%.

Personally, I like Obama. It's not a race thing with me. I just like his ideas and his direction. Now, I am not a fan of his flip flip to wanting off shore drilling or the fact that he doesn't have as much experience. I like McCain's experience and the fact that he stays firm to them usually. What I don't like about him is that he is more for big business and less for the average American. I'm completely against McCain's proposed tax cuts since the richer the person, the higher percentage of tax cut but I'm not a fan of the way Obama adds taxes to the richer either. I'd go with Obama just because the people that need the break would be getting it. http://outtheotherear.files.wordpress.com/2008/07/...

What are your thoughts about people's blind following of the presidential hopefuls? What's with everyone being so rude and unintelligent with their comments?

It says that it will be automatically updated to the newest version. Does that mean 2.0 or 1.1.5? Also, is there a way to restore to 1.1.4 directly or will I need to restore higher and then downgrade?

Thanks in advance!!

I am about 170lbs. I'm looking for something to ride around town (3miles each way at the most). It doesn't have to go really fast. I don't really have a preference on gas or electric. Does anyone have suggestions on a good model? I am looking to spend no more than $600 if possible.

Thanks!!!

I have itunes set up at my house and at my office computer. I sync my itouch only to my home computer. I had a friend convert all of my cds to mp3 a few months ago so I could make an awesome play list. So, there are many songs that aren't downloaded from itunes and I would like to play them at my computer at work. Is there a way I can play the music from the itouch in itunes? Thanks!!

First, thanks for reading!

Buster is 1 year old. He was a puppy store puppy and we brought him home when he was 6 months so potty training has been tough. He is still not potty trained fully and has accidents in the house (mostly poop).

I leave at 730a and come home around 6. My bf leaves between 11-1 and is home after I am. So, what is a good time table to feed, take him out, and play? Currently he is up at 6:30a to potty and a good run. Then he comes in and eats. I leave and when bf comes home they hang out together. Then bf leaves. I come home and calm him down for 30 minutes (he is VERY excited to see me...he's a mama's boy). Then he goes outside and after 15 minutes I go out with him (he's shy and doesn't like to poop in front of me) for about 30 minutes. We do a little training at some point. He goes out one more to potty and then we go to bed.... Any suggestions?? Also, any suggestions on how to calm him down??

Buster and I thank you!!!

I have always had cramps really bad during my period (not before). They were so bad I was rotating prescription pain killers before going on the depo shot to stop them all together. Well, my last shot was over a year ago and I haven't had a period so my doctor put me on Provera 10mg to get things started. I'm on day 3 and the cramps are becoming borderline unbearable. I'm close to vomiting and can barely sit up at my desk. I've never cramped before my period so I am worried that the pain will just keep getting worse. Any ideas? I'm already taking 800mg to ibuprofen and 2 Tylenol (alternating per my md) and it still hurts.

I have lived in a dorm, with relatives and with boyfriends but have never just been in my own place where I can do things my own way. I foresee a breakup coming since neither he nor I are happy anymore. I am looking for things I am not taking into account. Here's what I have so far...

Rent (heat and hot water included)

Transportation

School loan payments

Electric

Cable/internet

entertainment

laundry

Is there anything else I am forgetting to budget for? I don't have any credit cards or other loans...

Thanks!

After finding many DVDs that have had a run in with my puppy, I would like to burn a copy of my DVDs and store them somewhere. What's the best external drive for the lowest price? I won't be selling the DVDs at all. It's just for my own personal use....

Thanks!!

Dear Senators,

I appreciate the fact that you have taken time out from trying to fix the economy, finding ways to end the war in Iraq, and many other serious problems to deal with the problems in the MLB and NFL. I may not be able to feel my children and I am going to loose my house but I don't know what I would do if MLB players were taking steroids years ago. I mean, with the NFL spygate going on I didn't even notice the unregistered child molester watching my child. I was too upset to attend my marine brother's funeral because of the accusations against Clemens. My neighbor's baby was shot last week by a gang and the only thing that kept her sane was the fact that she could watch testimony about steroids from the hospital room. My cousin is about to flunk out of school because he has been home, worried about people video taping football games. So I thank you for looking past things like improving life for US citizens to tackle these privately owned sports matters.

I have a great American Eskimo male with the best personality ever. He is a great example of the breed and I would love for him to mate with a female dog. Does anyone know of a good place that puts good breeders together? He is scheduled for his genetic testing/ screening Friday. The vet thinks he's a great candidate so far! Thanks for your help!