Karl Lane

So i've messed around a few times with a friend of 12 years where i started having feeling for him about 2 years ago. Anyway yesterday we were messing around and before things got to far i asked to stop, told him i didn't want to go any further and i want to go on some dates with him, seeing each other as more than just friends. He agreed but said we'll always be friends and then kissed me. We talk about everything so he knows how alot about my life and struggles. The question is does he feel pressured into a date because were friends or could he actually like me more than just friends. I don't want him dateing me if he doesn't want to obviously i respect what he wants aswell. Any tips and advice would be great.

So i've messed around a few times with a friend of 12 years where i started having feeling for him about 2 years ago. Anyway yesterday we were messing around and before things got to far i asked to stop, told him i didn't want to go any further and i want to go on some dates with him, seeing each other as more than just friends. He agreed but said we'll always be friends and then kissed me. We talk about everything so he knows how alot about my life and struggles. The question is does he feel pressured into a date because were friends or could he actually like me more than just friends. I don't want him dateing me if he doesn't want to obviously i respect what he wants aswell. Any tips and advice would be great.

hi everyone im 21 last night i had a severe pain in my calf it was that painful i screamed the pain lasts about 2 minutes a time the release but now i have a dull acheing pain and my calf feels tight and is fairly difficult to walk on. i do have hypermobility syndrome if it makes a diffrence. it occured when i stretched my legs out in bed, and it has happened several times before can you help

hi im 21 gay (if that makes a diffrence) and have hypermobility syndrome which is a ligament and joint condition. i have always said i will never let it hold me back even if it means i become wheelchair bound in my 30s, yes i know about being wheelchair bound as my mum is. ive always wanted to join the royal marines but will i get accepted with my medical condition i work out, run ect but it does cause me a great deal of pain. will they accept me if i pass?

hi im 21 i have been deppressed for little over a year, it all started febuary last year i was attempted raped (i got away) little after i was diagnosed with depression but i had no idea why i was depressed i blocked the attempted rape out for a whole year it was like it never happened, something triggered my my memory almost exactly a year later. since my depression has got really bad the person in question then got in contact with me we had a big arguement. since then i started seeing him except hes not there i see him in my house places that i go. no matter how much i ignore him and run away from him he always seems to find me, he just stands there and says nothing. i have been given a appointment for councilling for 4 weeks time, the doctors councilors know nothing of this i plan on telling them when i have my appointment. i cant go to police it is to much to handle. sorry for the essay any advice?

hi started of with a red rash on my stomach and my arms which was very itchy and i keep getting a pins and needle sensation all over my body but this isnt constant. this started friday went to the docs saturday and was given anti histamine and told it was most likely a allergic reaction since then it has spread to my whole body including my legs face back and private areas. and my face only has become exstremely spotty and ive never suffered from more than one or two spots a month and im now 21. it aslo has started to hurt when i swallow almost as though my throat has got narrower please help

a 6kg weight fell on my inside ankle bone it bruised almost immediately it hurt to touch and i cant move or put wieght on. Dont know weather to go to a+e as if ive just bruised it i will feel like idiot what can i do?

For the past 4 weeks i have not been eating properly on average i eat one meal a day today i gave my self half a plate of mince for dinner i couldnt even eat half of it and thats all ive eaten today. I am suffering from depression but im getting treated for it atm. Im 21, 6ft 2, and im about 10 stone 7 where as 4 weeks ago i was 11 stone 6 so i have lost lots of wieght and i seem to always get i'll what should i do? Thanks

Hi im 6 ft tall now wieght 165lbs and im still losing wieght I go to the gym 5 days a weeks eating protein and carbs and have protein shakes every day what do I do

Hi I have found a guy I really like and I have started crushing on him really bad he knows this he likes me to and we are going on a date 2mos the best thing is we are both bi. He has the biggest smile I have ever seen and lovely blue eyes but when I meet him how do I play it without putting him off x

hi i am attracted to guys ive had a few bf i love all the affectionate stuff but when it comes to sex i just dont like it and afterwards i think of my self as being dirty and disgusting i am bi so im also attracted to women and i havent had any sex with women i dont like the thought of it what does this mean please help

Ho I recently got a bf about 2 weeks ago he asked me out while we were both drunk um since then he continues to go on dating websites! We make plans then he changes them hes not who I thought he was and to top it of I havent been able to contact him all weekend

hi i met a guy and went on a date with him we went back to his and cuddled up watching movies i ended up staying in his bad that night with him and im not going to lie a few things did happen. i really like him now did i make a mistake staying that night and how do i tell him that i like him and want to cut the naughty out till we are together

Hi there I have recently got a boy friend and yes I am a guy so we are gay. ) he feels he is not satisfying my needs as he cant make me ejaculate. But that is not the case at all I just have a very high sex drive and only one person ive met has ever been able to make me ejaculate. So how do I tell him that this is the case without making it sound wrong. X

Hi I have severe neck pain after being hit in the neck by a metal fence post with some force. I was driving a dumper truck and was loaded with a metal fence post with a big block of concrete on the end I had to unload it by hand for various reasons and as concrete hit the floor th post came up and wacked me in the neck I am in alot of pain and can barely move my neck so I have taken this morning of to go to the doctors is that the right thing to do and really I dont want to su work or anything so should he keep me happy and let me do what ever the doctors say Im a labourer btw

Hi Im 20 years old I have dated girls I find them attractive but just dont feel comfortable performing sexual acts with them there for ive havent had sex with them but have done other stuff but didnt feel comfortable. I find guys very attractive feel comfortable performing sexual acts with them and have had sex and enjoyed it but then afterwards I feel dirty and think what have I done Im not going to do it again but I cant help my self atm I consider my self bisexual

Hi I work.bank holiday on Monday I was told yesterday that I am not entitled to a day in lieu I got no extra pay it was just like another day as far as I was aware if you work a bank holiday you are legally allowed a day in lieu but he says it something to do with the retail sector that I am employed under bearing in mind I do nothing to do with retail

I have just put 3 baby silver sharks in my aquarium I floated the bag and that like you should caught them in the net and released them within 5 minutes they where dead they started jumping not very high and then they just floated to the bottom there is a oxygen plant in there where u put the air pump into and its heated at 24 c what happened

Help I have been working for this company for 2 1/2 months Im supposed to be a plant assistant which I have done everything but. On aevery it said 30 hours plus I am doing 35 every week but Im being told its not enough I cant work anymore hours because of family commitments and my own ill health this is a very intense labour job which it wasn't ment to be do I have to work more hours I dont have a contract he hired me for my plant knowledge which I get minimum wage for and I do alot lv plant research for him in my own spare time can u help please.(sorry it so long winded and no punctuation)

I have met a girl whos telling me she really likes me and she thinks its to good to be true, the trouble is it is I dont have any feelings for her . Then there this guy I really like him I cant stop thinking about him I wake up thinking about him dream about him but then hes got to move to Manchester next week which is 300 miles away what do I do help x