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I don't mind if it's from abroad. I'm talking about mass bulk. Thank you :)

I personally have had a binge/purging problem for several years, but it's more concerning my friend and my friend's mother's approach to her problem. She excessively eats, then purges (vomitting and laxatives) but doesn't do it all the time. Her mother just thinks it's a 'phase' and refuses to get help for her. I want to know if anyone knows girls that do it, if you do it, and if it's a normal phase and will she grow out of it? I'm just concerned that she won't get the attention she MAY or MAY NOT need and this could progress into something worse. I don't want my friend to be bulimic, if she isn't already.

and it's affecting my everyday life. It's been about six months since this started. I can't go in cars or on buses, I can't sit in my lessons at college, I get nervous, I then get anxiety attacks because I worry so much. I've been to the doctors, they tested me but there was no infection, it means it's probably pyschological, is there anything I can do to get over my fear?

I wear pads, but it doesn't ease the tension, it's more of a safety measure.

(I have wet myself twice in the past two/three years, but both were under extreme circumstances, and this fear came a lot after both those times.)

I don't know what to do. I try to go out and what not, but it means I can't even stay at friends houses, or go places without toilets, just in case, and I always scope out the bathrooms in places, and now it's affecting my college life as I can't even sit through an hour and half lesson without panicking and leaving to use the toilet.

I barely ever pass water, either. It's just the feeling I need to go

Can anyone help?