Garret Briggs

I ask this girl out on a fun date idea, in person, and she said almost word for word-

"That sounds really fun but I recently started taking to someone so I can’t. Absolutely nothing against you because you’re a cool guy, it’s just bad timing."

I would honestly preferred to ask her in person but their is never an appropriate opportunity due to the fact that we work together and we re constantly busy.

Message-

I would have much rather ask you this in person but we re so busy all the time i literally never have the opportunity. I d like to take you out on a date sometime. You seem very laid back and friendly, you always have a smile on your face, and i think you re very beautiful. I d love to get to know you better.

She is not the shy type at all. First time we met out we started making out in 5 minutes. She's a really forward person. After a little while hanging out she just became really cold so I broke it off with her even though she seems really nice and caring over text. I was really nice about ending things and even wished her the best because her life is a mess. The next day she texts me how I am doing and my replies are short then she calls me to come hangout with her and her friend. What the hell does this girl want from me? Does she just like the attention even though she won't accept it when I'm with her. I turned her down but i'm sure this isn't the last time I will hear from her.

Look I got to be honest with you. Im concerned about you. You seem depressed which is something I understand very very well. Those cupcakes I hope made your day a little better. I don t believe people have to be shitty to each other and unfortunately I think that s what most of us understand the world to be. A shitty place with shitty people and it doesn t need to be. Last month I tried killing myself. I went to a really dark place myself all because sometimes I don t feel like I can be loved. I woke up in the middle of hanging myself. I think you are going through something similar and I feel for you. I honestly do. You need to take time for yourself and not spend it with men that will give you a false sense of love because it will just make you feel worse in the end. We re all ****** up but life s all about getting knocked down and how you get back up again to only get knocked down again. I wish you the best Ashley and happy Mother s Day.

-I asked her out.

-She gave me her number before I could ask for it but said she is really busy all the time.

-I texted her to go out but no response.

-I seen her in person and she apologized and promise she wasn't ignoring me.

-2 days go by and I texted her one last time and still got ignored.

I just assume she has a hard time saying no which would have been much easier to be honest. If she was interested she would have at least responded and maybe rescheduled you think.

I asked her out and she gave me her number on the spot without me asking for it yet and she left me know she is also really busy all the time. I texted her we should meet up but she gave me no response but when I seen get last she made it clear she wasn t ignoring me but she had been busy even though i didn t ask. What does that suppose to mean?

I just got back with my ex but their is this unbelievably beautiful girl at this gas station I've been flirty with when my ex and I broke up. Now that I've gotten back together with my ex I've been keeping it civil between the gas station girl and myself but then she did something very cute and it was mostly too myself.

I said with her right in front of me to hear, "Aww f^#@ me. Look I have to just get this off my chest. Im very attracted to you. It's not just that I think your pretty but there is something about you as a person I really like but I can't put my finger on it. The problem is that I just got back with my ex and yet I still like you. Im going to have to start coming in after your shift or something. Sorry for putting this on you like this but I felt the strange need to say this to you."

She knows I like her and I can tell she is into me as well. She just looked shocked then I said goodbye and she said yep in response. Did I say to much? Lol

im a chef and In Wyoming we have something called the 'Wyoming Food Cottage Laws' where im able to sell most foods from my home. There is this gas station I go to everyday and where everybody knows me there and I need unbiased test subjects to eat 10 items I want to sell and give me feedback on what they think for free. Then I'll ask them, when I'm ready to to start selling, if they can help me hand out fliers and my business cards to advertise because Facebook advertisements will get me so far in my startup from my tiny business. Do you think it will work?

Im going to go on a date with a girl that works at a gas station. I like her but I also have an ex girlfriend on the sidelines that I may or may not get back with. If I ended up getting back with my ex after thing can potentially happen sexually with this girl, then would it be weird for you if I kept coming back into the gas station assuming you are in her shoes.

My guy buddies and I will have about 10 matches and we're feeling pretty good about it. Well my ex, who I'm good friends with, and I started Tinder about 2 weeks ago just for fun and paid to see who liked us. I get about 10 matches and 25 likes and she gets 80 matches and 621 likes. Does this surprise anyone? Im even much more physically fit. I have a 6 pack and she is chubby. I mean I knew she would get more being a woman but the difference is much more than I expected.

Not angry about it. Just find it strange.

Can you also state what gender you are as well if you don't mind?

I was going to this gas station where this pretty girl works that I somehow started to crush on. After a while I became annoying a needy and I could tell she was starting to get uncomfortable so I decided to find a new daily gas station to go to to leave her alone for a while. When I came back in after a month she mentioned she hasn't seen me in a while so I told her why after some basic formalities.

I said- "Yeah there is a reason why I quit coming in. I was going through a breakup with my girlfriend and I had a crush on you and was using you as an emotional distraction. I noticed from your expression the last time I came in that I was being needy and annoying and I just wanted to apologize for using you like I did. I lied to you and did other things to get your attention and I realized I needed to find my center and learn to be single again and to focus on my life. I'm sorry for throwing this at you but I'm trying to learn to be honest with myself and those around me as I get things figured out and grow from this experience."

Did I do the right thing by owning up to my mistake?

So I ending things with my girlfriend and I used this girl who I had a crush on that works at a gas station as a psychological distraction to help me through my issues. Anyways a month ago I saw on that girl's face I was kind of annoying because it was obvious I was flirting with her and she wasn't interested. Anyways i came back in after a long time not going there and she mentioned that it has been a while since she last saw me since i was a daily customer for the last few months. Anyways I told her straight up very seriously-

"Yeah there is a reason why I quit coming in. I was going through a breakup with my girlfriend and I had a crush on you and was using you as an emotional distraction. I noticed from your expression the last time I came in that I was being needy and annoying and I just wanted to apologize. I've lied to you and did other things to get your attention and I realized I needed to find my center and learn to be single again and to focus on my life. I'm sorry for throwing this at you but I'm trying to learn to be honest with myself and those around me as I get things figured out and grow from this experience."

She seemed surprised and told me not to worry about it. I was wondering if I told that to you that randomly, what would you think?

We live together as friends and roommates due to financial reasons. But do you think this will be a problem for me if we stay living together as I try to meet other people and build something with them?

I don't see why it would be because at that point you have nothing to lose.

The problem is that if I break up with her now I will carry a lot of her debt. Also I lose my home. She is an immigrant and all she's got is this home for the most part. She doesn't have too many friends here. So long story short I will lose the house and carry all of her debt without any help getting her to help me pay it off. I feel dirty for being with her still but scared at what will happen if I break up with her at the same time. Honestly what would you do if you were in my shoes?

You have very beautiful eyes

[Wait for some sort of response]

I’m serious. They say that the eyes are the window to your soul. For instance, you can fake a smile but it’s the eyes that will show how you truly feel

(Give an example- Cover your eyes and smile- Mouth should be normal but the eyes should be a bit crazy eyed when you uncover them to prove your point.)

See? Your eyes can show who you are as a person but unlike my example this generally happens at an unconscious level.

All I really know for sure about you is that you work at a gas station and your name is Kayla. But when I look into your eyes, I sense that you are a genuine sweet girl that I would like to get to know better over coffee sometime.

It probably wont go word for word. I'll have to adjust to the situation but this is the gist of it.

FYI- every word of this is serious. I just would find it difficult to find the appropriate time to say this but I will try coming in at a slow time.

I’ve noticed this for a little while but you have very beautiful eyes?

[Wait for some sort of response]

I’m serious. They say that the eyes are the window to your soul. For instance, you can fake a smile but it’s the eyes that will show how you truly feel

(Give an example- Cover your eyes and smile- Mouth should be normal but the eyes should be a bit crazy eyed when you uncover them to prove your point.)

See? Your eyes can show who you are as a person but unlike my example this generally happens at an unconscious level.

All I really know for sure about you is that you work at a gas station and your name is Kayla. But when I look into your eyes, I sense that you are a genuine sweet girl that I would like to get to know better over coffee sometime.