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Sometimes I feel like the only one that's going through this, I just want to know if there are girls out there who experienced the same thing as me.

Well people were spreading rumors and lying on me in 8th grade so I tried to stop it by writing a fake diary. It was a plan. I wrote in the diary that explained what they were saying was false. I wrote " How do I................... I go to the doctor all the time and I have no stds(explaining that if I did those things I would be dirty down there also a virgin at that time)I opened it up to that exact page I wrote it on and left it in the desk for someone to find I knew someone would find it because people were always looking for textbooks that we needed for the class. I hoped it would end the rumors. Some people dont understand another person writing.I left it in the desk opened and I moved from the seat to another table (on purpose). The boy sitting in the desk next to it read it and I thought they underunderstood what I was writing.That was a bad idea instead people misread it and thought I was implying that I did the things people claim I did. I was trying to explain that I don't. My life changed from that day on. The lying became worse my reputation was ruined. There was nothing to stop it. Then people started making making up stuff in hs. Not knowing I was well aware of the rumors. I didn't get upset although there was a new rumor everyday.I want to know if there are any girls that experienced this.?

I love my ex so much eventhough were not together but he hurt me in so many ways. He was my first and we've been together for over two years just broke up recently. He told me he would love me forever but he's not showing any love. Since the first day we met he was always hurting my feelings and always pressuring me to do things I didn't want to do but I never realized until now he didn't love me. I believe when you love someone you need them even if someone can offer more than they could. It should be a feeling that you can't live without that person. He didn't love he wanted me. My first relationship was not the way I thought it would be.

In my next relationship I want to make sure its perfect and I want to be happy. I don't want to have sex with my next boyfriend and I actually want to make him wait for 5 years or even more because I think it would make the relationship better. I don't know if there's anybody that would wait forever to have sex. Do you think a guy would wait that long? Do you think a guy would enjoy a relationship without sex?

I like having a phone but I don't use it to talk to anyone except for family. There are these other two people that I went to school with that I constantly call and I know that I'm annoying them but I can't stop calling. These two people also are the cause of some of the mishaps in my life.

Their no good for me but I can't stop calling them. Any advice on how to stop myself from calling is fully appreiated. I care for these two people as well and I don't receive the same feelings back. Trying my best to cut them out of my life but everytime I stop calling I began calling again.

I need some advice because I don't want to end up settling for less when I could have earned more. What's the difference between a Regents and regular high school diploma. I feel that my home schooling teacher has recommended the regents diploma to me as a way to make me look kind of uneducated. I really don't know anything about the difference between regents diploma or highschool diploma. I need honest answers because my homeschooling teacher is telling me that the regents diploma and highschool diploma are the same thing yet they don't have the exact same requirements.

I wanted the regular highschool diploma not the regents diploma. Which one is the best to go after?

Which one will you go after? Please be honest...

I was looking forward to get my high school diploma and my teacher without my knowledge fixed it up where I have to receive a regents diploma. Is the regents diploma better than the highschool diploma? I really want a regular diploma. What do you think... should I go after my regents diploma or get my highschool diploma?

I'm an 18 year old girl, and life for me is not what I expected. A lot of people are conspiring against me. Even my own boyfriend... well he used to be. This started out as a couple of rumors going around. Eventhough the rumors were never true people still believe the rumors, the lies won't stop its not fair. I wonder how can I prove myself right and how to get out of this big mess, but then again this situation is kind of big. Its to the point where I can't trust no one, I mean no one not even my cat. I have no one to talk to, no one that would actually help me at least feel better. I've been a really good person all my life and I don't know why all these bad things are happening. I know it sound like I'm whining. But I really need help or some really good ADVICE... PLEASE.

I've come up with this weird idea to date a psychic so that I can have a better relationship. People have a habit of lying on me and my reputation is ruined at this very moment its so bad that nobody wants to be nice to me. All people want to do is hurt me and watch me suffer for no reason. I think if I date a psychic no one will be able to tell a lie on me to my psychic boyfriend, Is this a good idea??

I was indeed a virgin when my boyfriend took my virginity. He knows this but continue to say I wasn't because I didn't bleed. However I have proof because the first day he went all the way in something was blocking his penis from I guess it was my hymen. I'm tired of him saying this to me PLEASE answer this question.

I am so paranoid that I have to think about positive things when I'm around people. There were many occasions when I thought something and someome repeated what I thought they just said it in their own words. For example today my mom was getting a sheet for my family member and I thought in my mind "They are going to keep her sheets" then she said out loud I'm not going to let them keep it though. Now there have been many situations where I had a thought and someone said it out loud. Do you think their reading my mind?

I've been with my boyfriend for alittle over two years. But lately people have been spreading lies around saying I'm doing stuff I never did sad part is that he believes everyone of the rumors knowing that he has been around me everyday and all day and knows my every movment but for some reason he wants to believe a lie when he has the proof. I need ADVICE. I feel like I need to let him go because I feel that he doesn't deserve to be with me knowing that he is gullible and doesn't want to realize that I'm not a bad person. I knew him since 2009 but we started going out in 2011. We went everywhere together everyday since my mother met him but before that I wasn't allowed outside alone. For some reason he believes that I have been going places without him knowing. I would never do such a thing to him. I care about him so much even though he isn't perfect I love him so much and don't know if I should stay in this relationship because I feel that he should have not just believe rumors without talking to me or taking me to the people that told it to him so I can prove to him the truth. Recently he told me he cheated on me with six different girls and he was very proud of it. He also rather text another girl before he text me. The only time he talks to me is when he wants money. Im very angry with him because he has changed ever since the lies were spreaded and I try to prove to him that is not true he refuses to believs the truth. HELP.!!! Should I stay with him?

I've been with my boyfriend for alittle over two years. But lately people have been spreading lies around saying I'm doing stuff I never did sad part is that he believes everyone of the rumors knowing that he has been around me everyday and all day and knows my every movment but for some reason he wants to believe a lie when he has the proof. I need ADVICE. I feel like I need to let him go because I feel that he doesn't deserve to be with me knowing that he is gullible and doesn't want to realize that I'm not a bad person. I knew him since 2009 but we started going out in 2011. We went everywhere together everyday since my mother met him but before that I wasn't allowed outside alone. For some reason he believes that I have been going places without him knowing. I would never do such a thing to him. I care about him so much even though he isn't perfect I love him so much and don't know if I should stay in this relationship because I feel that he should have not just believe rumors without talking to me or taking me to the people that told it to him so I can prove to him the truth. Recently he told me he cheated on me with six different girls and he was very proud of it. He also rather text another girl before he text me. The only time he talks to me is when he wants money. Im very angry with him because he has changed ever since the lies were spreaded and I try to prove to him that is not true he refuses to believs the truth. HELP.!!! Should I stay with him?

I've been with my boyfriend for alittle over two years. But lately people have been spreading lies around saying I'm doing stuff I never did sad part is that he believes everyone of the rumors knowing that he has been around me everyday and all day and knows my every movment but for some reason he wants to believe a lie when he has the proof. I need ADVICE. I feel like I need to let him go because I feel that he doesn't deserve to be with me knowing that he is gullible and doesn't want to realize that I'm not a bad person. I knew him since 2009 but we started going out in 2011. We went everywhere together everyday since my mother met him but before that I wasn't allowed outside alone. For some reason he believes that I have been going places without him knowing. I would never do such a thing to him. I care about him so much even though he isn't perfect I love him so much and don't know if I should stay in this relationship because I feel that he should have not just believe rumors without talking to me or taking me to the people that told it to him so I can prove to him the truth. Recently he told me he cheated on me with six different girls and he was very proud of it. He also rather text another girl before he text me. The only time he talks to me is when he wants money. Im very angry with him because he has changed ever since the lies were spreaded and I try to prove to him that is not true he refuses to believs the truth. HELP.!!! Should I stay with him?

I'm in sort of a early life crisis. Everyone is against me, complete strangers that I never associated with are coming to my one friend and family and telling them lies. My family won't tell me who the people are they act as if they're scared to let me know who it was. Now when I walk down the street people grin at me and sometimes laugh as If they heard the rumors. People are out to destroy my rep...I NEED HELPFUL ADVICE PLEASE..!!!! It seems that the people who are making up the lies are also planning them out so it can sound like truth and its not. I'm tired of this. I'm so depressed and numb that I can't even cry no more. No one is coming to me the find out that its not true, they keep it to their selves and laugh about it. PLEASE HELP...!!!

I'm in a sort of early life crisis. Everything is going wrong. I dont know why everyone hates me. Strangers have the tendency to laugh and throw dirt on my name. Its hard to not care about what they say when it has destroyed my rep... I feel like hurting the people who are doing this to me, but I don't know who is the source of these lies. It seem as if it was planned out because everyone is lying on me; thats not normal. People won't tell me who are the people that's saying things ( by the way its mostly guys who are doing this to me), I only know that its a guy. WHY ME..? Im only 18. There are a lot of girls out there. Why do they want to ruin my life...?? I'm just a little girl. I'm very depressed because of whats is going on. I NEED HELPFUL ADVICE..!!! I don't know who can help me. Everytime a lie is heard no one comes to me to find out the truth. I have huge trust issues due to the fact that everyone hates me and acts as if I deserve this agony. ADVICE PLEASE...!!!!

Everywhere I go people laugh and make jokes about me. They continually lie on me and give me dirty looks. I don't know what to do. HELP!!

Everywhere I go people laugh and make jokes about me. They continually lie on me and give me dirty looks. I don't know what to do. HELP!!

Neighbors, strangers, family have been spreading rumors that isn't true. Each day that goes by more lies accumulate. No one telling me who is saying what, no one believes me advice please. please help me!!

Neighbors, strangers, family have been spreading rumors that isn't true. Each day that goes by more lies accumulate. No one telling me who is saying what, no one believes me advice please. please help me!!

I don't know exactly who these people are but I know that there are people saying that I've been places that I never went to. Men are also lying on me and saying that I slept with them. The worst lie I've heard so far is that I was selling my self to men. I never in my life sold my body to a guy or ever thought about doing that. I believe in GOD and always did and never would doubt him. This whole lying thing started out as a rumor during a year in 8th grade. People from my 8th grade class spreaded the same rumor all over again while I was in highschool. After a while rumoors have accumulated over the years and its ten times worse now. Nobody believes me and nobody will come to me to find out the truth. I'm tired of this, I have cried so many times and wondered why people are doing this to me. People also laugh at me every where I go and I know its becuase of the lies they heard. I'm a very good person WHY IS THIS HAPPENING TO ME?

PLEASE HELP I NEED SOME ADVICE

I don't know exactly who these people are but I know that there are people saying that I've been places that I never went to. Men are also lying on me and saying that I slept with them. The worst lie I've heard so far is that I was selling my self to men. I never in my life sold my body to a guy or ever thought about doing that. I believe in GOD and always did and never would doubt him. This whole lying thing started out as a rumor during a year in 8th grade. People from my 8th grade class spreaded the same rumor all over again while I was in highschool. After a while rumoors have accumulated over the years and its ten times worse now. Nobody believes me and nobody will come to me to find out the truth. I'm tired of this, I have cried so many times and wondered why people are doing this to me. People also laugh at me every where I go and I know its becuase of the lies they heard. I'm a very good person WHY IS THIS HAPPENING TO ME?

PLEASE HELP I NEED SOME ADVICE