Baby Blue

So in about a three weeks this woman I have been seeing birthday is coming up we have all these special plans. I am asking ladies what would be a good surprise for her besides a ring that is not happening.

I have recently got out a serious relationship. So there is this woman who is cool but she is really into me i mean she has told me repeated that she wants to be apart of my life but she know i am not no where need over my ex. She told me that she is cool with just being my friend and i know it may sound naive to believe her but i really enjoy her company and just hanging with her. I feel as if i am complicating things between us because she will come visit me and stay the night. Should i just stop talking to her completely? How can i handle this situation?

Thanks in advance for the assistance!

Reading sum of these question are making me angry *** hell!!!! I mean what do a guy who iz 18+ find so damn interesting in messing with sum1 12-16? I am a 22 dude who find that mess nasty a$$ Fu*k!!!! When will kids learn that sex only complicate things when it comes to a relationship?! If you are being constantly asked for sex than jus maybe that person iz with u 4 one thang only!!!!!

I am not really big on givin head it jus is not my thing!!! i mean this girl i am kind of messing with keep making hints that she want me to do that for her. I have done it before but it is not something i just do to everyone hell the last girl i did it to i was with her for like 2 years before i went down on her. She give me heads and i dont complain but at the same time i do not ask for it either. I made sure that was the 1st thing i told her was i dont give head.

Ladies so how important is it to you that your man return the favor that you so freely give to him?

So i have this gurl i am interested in but since i not to long ago got out of a serious relationship i cannot get involved with her. she has made it very clear that she wants to be with me and that she dont want me to not be apart of her life but i just feel like we want two different things. I feel that she wants marraige and a family hell i am still young and nothing trying to go down that road. How should i handle this situation because i feel like i am handling it all types of wrong. We visit each other we talk all the time i told her i cannot do the whole relationship thing right now but i feel as if i am contridicting myself by spending so much time with her.

I am in the military and when my son was born i was stationed in South Korea his mother informed me recently that my name is not on my son birh certificate after i sign some papers so it would be. After doing some research i know that first i have to obtain an perternity test. We have an 8 month old son but we live in two different states i live in Florida, she lives in Wiscousin, but our son was born in Virginia. What steps do i need to do in order to get joint physical custody? I have only seen my son once and she isnt willing to come to Florida if i buy the ticket since i cannot leave like that with me being in the military.