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Need advise 4rm ladies?

So i have this gurl i am interested in but since i not to long ago got out of a serious relationship i cannot get involved with her. she has made it very clear that she wants to be with me and that she dont want me to not be apart of her life but i just feel like we want two different things. I feel that she wants marraige and a family hell i am still young and nothing trying to go down that road. How should i handle this situation because i feel like i am handling it all types of wrong. We visit each other we talk all the time i told her i cannot do the whole relationship thing right now but i feel as if i am contridicting myself by spending so much time with her.

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  • 9 years ago

    talk to her about what she is expecting in a relationship from you. dont just keep this up if she wants something serious and you dont because it will end up just upsetting her in the end. if you have to talk to her about how ur not wanting anything serious and see how she feels...she might be happy with and then over time things might change once you have got over the relationship youve just come out of. it seems like you like her though so dont just let her go :)

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Back off from how much time your spending with her. Distance is the solution.

  • 9 years ago

    Avoid her a bit till she forgets about you I guess, or the idea of marriage. GL xx

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