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He DUMPED me in his Car.....???
I went on a few dates with this guy that I met from an online dating site. He was nice but was also a bit rude sometimes. I called him out on it, we got into an argument over the phone, he said it was over. For some reason 1 month later, I missed him and asked him if we could start over. He said yes, he said he missed me and he planned 2 dates. A ‘car date’ for one day and a dinner date for the day after. For the car date, I brought food and he brought wine. We ate in his car but he was grumpy & a bit rude. He started kissing me, but when he wanted to do more to me, I said no and then he said ‘this is not gonna work out, I can’t date you, you are beautiful & I’m physically attracted to you but I’m not emotionally invested in you’. He also said he never wants to see me and has now blocked me. WHY did he initially act so excited & plan 2 dates and then DUMPED me in his car?
13 Answers
- Anonymous5 hours ago
He sounds like he lacks in emotional intelligence and has no maturity. A mature man would not end things over one arguement if he was really that invested in you. He would have the decency to tell you he wasn't interested, rather than drag you out then get funny because you said no. You sound better off without someone like that. Something I have learnt is that it's not about how attractive they are to look at, but it is about respect, and being on the same page with eachother. I'd say in the meantime treat yourself, invest time into yourself, do what it takes to make yourself feel great... Whether it's reading self care books, getting your hair done, doing some makeup, pamper nights etc. Because once you invest in yourself, the right one will come along. Hope this helps!
- Tublet HugletLv 57 hours ago
Sounds like he was just having a bad day. I think you should get completely naked and then call him.
- PatriciaLv 79 hours ago
He's always going to be mean, grumpy, rude, abusive and anAsshole. Not sure why you're miss that unless being abused by a narcissist is part of your life's comfort zone?
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- 11 hours ago
You chose to get yourself into a situation where a guy you know has rudeness tendencies would have ample opportunity to be rude. And SURPRISE, he was rude.
What does it matter WHY his is the way he is? All that matter is that you are wiser as well as older. Stop imagining that what's going on is more than dating and then you won't be disappointed when what's going on is merely dating. Nobody needs a reason to NOT date someone, to NOT have further dates with someone dated. All this is needed "I'd rather not. End of story.
- Anonymous13 hours ago
That's why I don't use dating apps anymore
- JamesLv 513 hours ago
You damn fool he set up the date so that he could have sex with you. He literally told you what he was thinking and when you said no he said bye
- Steve GuyLv 613 hours ago
Sounds like because he was expecting sex and was mad he couldn't get it. I'm sorry you went through that, most guys are at least able to hide their negitive tendencies for a little while, the fact that he couldn't might mean he has a real anger problem and you doged a bullet by not getting more involved.
