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How can I attract women as an Asian male?
I am a 33 year old Asian (Chinese and Korean) male, 5'11, I have been described as very handsome and I agree (won't add a picture due to privacy reasons), well-educated and have a good job however nobody wants to date me. I have had 2 girlfriends and both have broken up with me, I thought it would get easier as I grew older but it's tough. I have tried approaching women but they aren't interested, I have also tried online and jeez that's even worse. I go on dates with these women and they easily turn me off by asking rude questions like what size my 'cucumber' is. But not directly but indirectly honestly I get so many ignorant comments. I am open to any race of women and want to get married and have kids of my own, but it's just fail upon fail upon fail. I have gone out with latinas, black and white women than I have Asian women. I personally prefer Asian women because they're beautiful and because of cultural similarities but none of them are interested in me and they treat me the worst. I went on a date with one of them and it seemed to be going so well but when I took her home she said 'thanks bro I enjoyed the dinner'. That was the biggest slap in the face to be called 'bro'. Any advice would be great.
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- MistyLv 52 days ago
I would have to see a picture so I could comment on your looks because you said you have been described as handsome. But who did the describing? Plus I would need alot more information. Basically in a nutshell you have said you can't find a woman and have tried dating several and even a dating website...and nothing good has come from any of it. If it makes you feel any better, probably half the single people in the US make the same claims. They can't find anyone and dating websites haven't worked. I'd also have to know what you consider well educated and what you consider having a good job means to you. I don't mean to be abrupt, I am just saying if you could give alot more details it would be easier to comment.
- 3 days ago
You seem attractive and like a dream guy. I'm a black nearly 30 female and I'll love to date an attractive East Asian. I know people won't approve of it though.
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- Common SenseLv 73 days ago
Tallow your passions and interests once the covid restrictions are lifted.
If you are involved with things that interest you, you will be among like - minded people where you can widen your circle of friends and possibly find romance.
Look to your community for things to do, causes to get involved with and join in on local events.
The women of your dreams is not going to knock on your door! You must get out and be seen!
Your local newspaper is likely full of events in your area. Think outside the box and explore the opportunities!
- 3 days ago
There's typically patterns in the type of women we attract. It seems you are for some reason, attracting women that do not take your interest seriously. Maybe dig deep and figure out this pattern, leave your comfort zone and search a women whose different from your typical type. Hope this helps! Just remember, if a woman doesn't like you for being yourself, they aren't worth your time. Best of luck.
- 3 days ago
You do have a unique personality. However as a woman, I just feel like ethnicity and physical appearance isn't an issue. Just certain women are indecisive about what type of man that they want in life.
- 5 days ago
If you live in a western country lose 50% of your sexual market value and social status just for being Asian.
- 5 days ago
So she called you bro. Did you ask her on a second date? There are so many women who want to be in a relationship. Try a different dating app with more serious minded people. Also, lower your standards on the women you are dating. If you are dating 8s or 9s, try 6s or 7s. Deviate a little from societal standards of beauty and trust me you will find a wonderful woman who will love and appreciate you and want to build a family with you. Good luck.
