Imina

I posted a question earlier and everyone is saying it s abuse but my kids don t feel scared of their father. They tell him they want ice cream and he gets it for them. Both act very babyish for their age around him. They have good and happy lives. But my husband s behavior when he is upset is often wrong. I want to divorce him but it s so complicated with the kids and I worry about him getting custody too. Does anyone have better advice?

She's 6. He was yelling at her that she's not eating fast enough then spanked her. She had her mouth full and choked on her food. She coughed it up so hard she puked, then he yelled at her for that and told her over and over it was very bad of her. Would this be considered abusive?

I'm not the same person I was. I hate being around my husband. It's a struggle to care about my kids and I stopped reading them bedtime stories, playing with them, paying any attention to them, or sleeping with them. I can't break out of it. Why don't I love my kids anymore?

I'm in an online support group and because there are men in it my husband said I'm not allowed to be in it. He said he considers it cheating. He has actually cheated on me. I feel so sad and alone. Is there anyone else going through something like this? I am preparing to leave him.

I said I don't want sex. He grabbed my hand and put it on himself. I said No. Then he stood in front of me and masturbated, staring at me, while I looked down at the laundry basket. I feel like a sex object and very disrespected. Is this normal between a husband and wife?

I tell the online man when my husband rapes me, as per his wishes, but he responds by saying I enjoyed it or he's glad I'm having a nice day. I feel so angry and blame myself for staying. And I hate that he doesn't believe me. I started drinking recently to cope with everything and I'm seeing a psychiatrist this week (husband's wishes). I feel so messed up and need advice. I'm no longer functioning.

I tell the online man when my husband rapes me, as per his wishes, but he responds by saying I enjoyed it or he's glad I'm having a nice day. I feel so angry and blame myself for staying. And I hate that he doesn't believe me. I started drinking recently to cope with everything and I'm seeing a psychiatrist this week (husband's wishes). I feel so messed up and need advice. I'm no longer functioning.