malia m

For the past week my SO has made a new friend. Now I didnt find out about this friend until i was being nosey and went through her phone and saw the text messages between them...now it wasnt anything out the way or anything to be worried about bc i do trust her so i didnt trip or snap , i just simply asked who she was and how she knows her. Turns out to be a friend from work so im like ok whatever and i leave it alone...So last week i go to my SO job to visit and this friend that she talks was there as well. As i was walking in i see that the girl is all happy and talkative, but as soon as i step foot in the door this chicks whole attitude changes. She's all mad and has this attitude like im not supposed to be there. So my female intuition kicks in and I start thinking to myself that she wants my SO, bc you could look at her face and see t'hat she was so mad that i was there...so im not one for drama so i wait until i get home to discuss what i thought about this friend, and i made it clear as day that she liked my SO. Now my SO was like "no it aint like that she dont want me"....Now i let it go in her eyes but im still getting bad vibes about this friend, so last night i was using my SO phone and I see ALL these text messages

between them. Im mad as hell now bc this chick was getting all upset that my SO wasnt texting her back, and saying things like"you dont have to worry about me anymore since you dont have time for me".......Now thats a BIG RED FLAG to me so I confront my SO about the texts and the decided to tell me that this "friend" liked her, and was tryin to talk to her.....Im snapping and going off bc I new something was going on...I aksed her why she would start talking to someone thats trying to get with you, knowin that you with someone else..She couldnt answet me, and I left out apt for the night.

Now i dont know what to do or say at this piont bc my SO had never done anything like this to me. I DO trust her I just dont trust them females,and its really bothering me that she would lie to me and say that it wasnt anything when this chick is trying to holla!!!!.

Now my fellow ppl, if you were in my shoes, what would you do. Part of me wants to beat the living lights out the chick, but Im really working on bettering myself and I dont wanna handle this situation in a ghetto(no offense to anyone) fashion.. I havent talked to my SO since last night, bc I dunno where to begin.....sorry its so long but TIA for any input!!!

A lot of ppl say that if you cannot find primer use foundation instead, is that true? Im also african american w/sensitive skin.

I want a really small stud, no rings or anything like that!

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In high school I was afraid to come out to my friends. Only maybe 5 of my closest friends knew either bc they were gay, or I was ready to tell them. Well my senior year lets just say I was outted and a lot of ppl treated me WAY different. By the time I had graduated I really didnt have many friends and that sucks. Now its been two years since I graduated and I maybe have like 3 friends from high school that I keep in touch with. I know I could do better with the communication bc I rarely talk to them, but WE are all busy and I feel weird bc Im gay and they arent so its hard sometimes to find things to talk about or that we have in common, but I do love them. I dont have any gay friends either so I feel so alone and I depend of my gf for a relationship and a friendship which is ok with her, but we both feel like I need to make friends and have some life outside of my gf. I dunno what to do and I feel like im gonna go crazy if I dont establish some kinda life. I feel like such a bore. Im only 19 and I know Im not living life the fullest, but I dont know how. What would you do???

PS. I have an ex gf that i was with a long time ago and when our relationship ended, we were still best friends, but we fell out as well over something that was so small and stupid, after looking back and realizing that it was stupid and petty. I tried to write her on myspace just to say hi and see how she was doing, all I got for a response was "lovely". I know its hard to detect emotion from that, but it felt so cold to read that,and all i could do was sit there and look at it..I dont know how to respond to that w/o looking desperate to stupid. PLS HELP!!

In high school I was afraid to come out to my friends. Only maybe 5 of my closest friends knew either bc they were gay, or I was ready to tell them. Well my senior year lets just say I was outted and a lot of ppl treated me WAY different. By the time I had graduated I really didnt have many friends and that sucks. Now its been two years since I graduated and I maybe have like 3 friends from high school that I keep in touch with. I know I could do better with the communication bc I rarely talk to them, but WE are all busy and I feel weird bc Im gay and they arent so its hard sometimes to find things to talk about or that we have in common, but I do love them. I dont have any gay friends either so I feel so alone and I depend of my gf for a relationship and a friendship which is ok with her, but we both feel like I need to make friends and have some life outside of my gf. I dunno what to do and I feel like im gonna go crazy if I dont establish some kinda life. I feel like such a bore. Im only 19 and I know Im not living life the fullest, but I dont know how. What would you do???

PS. I have an ex gf that i was with a long time ago and when our relationship ended, we were still best friends, but we fell out as well over something that was so small and stupid, after looking back and realizing that it was stupid and petty. I tried to write her on myspace just to say hi and see how she was doing, all I got for a response was "lovely". I know its hard to detect emotion from that, but it felt so cold to read that,and all i could do was sit there and look at it..I dont know how to respond to that w/o looking desperate to stupid. PLS HELP!!

is it for the points??????

I'll admitt im tired of seeing that question on here and so many ppl answer it but they complain about the question.

Now im not trying to be hateful of anything like that Im just curious.....so answer pls, thanks!!!

For the past week:

* I have drank a slim fast shake for breakfast,

*On average for lunch it would either be a salad or broccoli and a small piece of grilled chicken or rice and broccoli

*For dinner it would either be special K cereal(soy milk)/ small grilled chicken lettuce wrap, or brown rice and broccoli.

*for snacks i only ate fruits and I drink at least 64oz of water daily***and I either walk or do some type of cardio, if not both everyday***....is this good...i really wanna lose my tummy and tone my legs

How would you do it? What would you say?