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Yesterday she ate a cooked chicken wing while I wasnt looking.

Today her throat is swollen, she hasnt been to the toilet yet she still ate her dinner. She definitely seems out of sorts.

It is after hours now. Do I take her to the vet or sit it out till tomorrow?

I have a lovely boyfriend, he is great with my kids and a great help around the house and wants to be with me ALL the time. I am a single mum, I am used to my space and am very independent and dont feel the need to be in a relationship at all. It is fun to share light hearted company though.

We have been dating for about 9 months now and he gets very intense in the relationship. He suffers from depression and just begs for my love and attention when I have two kids, a few jobs and a full time uni student. We have lots of fun together but about five or six times now he has just gone off the edge mostly because of the way I am or the way I dont tell him I love him all the time.

Every time I talk to his friends, my boyfriend gets really angry. He thinks I am flirting with them when I actually find the company of men more interesting and fun (most of the time) than the company of women in social occasions.

Im very well travelled with a solid family background.

He comes from a broken family with an abusive father and older brother.

I am working toward a professional career, he is happy working in a factory.

He gets so involved in doing EVERYTHING with me and struggles when I ask for space.

He wants so much from me, to move in, plan a future yet I want to keep things light hearted and casual.

In a pickle, what do I do?

I have a great lover who lives in the same city of me. Ive been seeing him for a few months now and the sex is the best Ive ever had. We both get each other.

For the past six months, however I have also been in contact with an American man (I am from Australia). We have skyped and emailed quite alot over this time and he comes across as my perfect man. The dilemma is that he lives in the US and I in Australia. Both of us are tied to our respective countries due to children of a past marriage for at least the next twelve years.

He flies out to meet me next week because we both believe in taking risks to be with someone special.

My lovely lover (Mr B) I have been seeing these past few months will be very devastated to let me be with another man and without him.

Im torn now between something that is real and good versus my idea of Mr Perfect

Im risking breaking up something pretty darn good to be with a man only my mind tells me is wonderful and perfect for me.

Should I tell Mr America to hold off or go ahead and risk losing my current mate?

Notes:

Mr B is real and great lover. I dont think he will be my forever man, though feelings do change over time.

Mr A could never be real unless a miracle happened and we were able to live together.

I sold my house in Canada early this year and am now living in Australia.

Due to the the exchange rate and the enormous fees to transfer money across I have left $$$ sitting in my Canadian account.

What is the best system/company to use for international transfers that has the fewest fees?

I am a 35yo and just entering my sexual peak apparently.

My husband left me 18months ago and in the ten years we were together he made me climax only once via vaginal and clitoral stimulation simultaneously.

I have just started seeing a new man and we are totally into each other - have known each other since childhood.

Upon sitting on top rocking back and forth I got to a sensation that I thought I was about to explode or pee all over him - but then it suddenly disappeared....

I have never reached climax with a man (apart from that once) and I am wondering where my block might be coming from.

The only reliable friend I have is a vibrating rabbit and I want so much to get there with a man but have no idea where I am going wrong.

Have tried hypnotherapy, manual stimulation, sensual sex, you name it. I even overcame my prudish catholic guilt and am very spiritual now. I love sex, it is a gift and I want to be able to appreciate it like everyone else seems to.

I also want to be able to get there so that the man in my life doesn't feel like a failure. I daresay this problem of mine may have contributed to the breakdown in my marriage.

Help me ladies! Give me tips - anything that doesn't involve faking it.

My husband and I are separated and he cannot see a future for us together. He has left me with two young kids so I went out and joined a single parents club in my local area to feel part of belonging.

Within this club I volunteered to throw a party at my home and only just realized that the date of the party is my wedding anniversary.

While my husband and I still talk due to child care and financial settlement etc, I have a dilemma and feel awful that I will be celebrating with single parents when I should traditionally be having a romantic dinner with him.

My husband has torn me apart with so many nasty words and misunderstandings, he moved out and has no intention on working on the marriage or ever moving back in.

Have I jumped the gun and joined the singles group (been separated over three months now) and should I still take him out for old times sake?

I have been married for six years. I have two young kids and have moved across the world to be with my husband whom I have always loved and respected. Just recently some very close friends got a divorce and now after all these years my husband suddenly "Loves me but is not in love with me" and does not see a future together.

We never fought about anything in all this time (we dated for five years before getting married). I thought we had wonderful communication between us as I have always spoken my mind. I was getting increasingly frustrated at the extra work hours and lack of attention, especially in those very early years of being a parent. We had his best friend over nearly every single weekend and were also moved to a mining town for four years in the north of Alberta (his friend came also) which was isolating on its own.

A few months ago, all the resentment and crap that had built up over the years finally came to an overflow point and I am hearing about things I did or said that I don't even remember from six years ago.

My husband just wants "out" and I am so confused. I still live across the globe from ALL my family and friends and am wondering whether I stick it out and see if my husband comes around or follow my natural instincts and just run and start setting up a life on my own around family and support.

I have a 3 and 5 year old to consider and he is an excellent daddy - they would miss him dearly if they rarely got to see him.

My unanswered questions include - Could he be gay with his best friend who has always held a closer connection with my husband than I ever have?

Did he fall in love with my best friend who just got a divorce and I saw them inappropriately close a number of times?

Is there other mental issues keeping him from talking honestly with me (his sister suffers Bipolar)?

I am open to any suggestions or advice. I am generally a very peaceful person. I do yoga and exercise daily, I am musical and my kids are my entire world. I can handle criticism good or bad.