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I dont want to make the story too long so im gonna try and shorten it.

Me and what is now my ex boyfriend went on a break in febuary. I saw a picture of a girl on his fone who was the wallpaper of his fone. He was trying to hide his phone from me until i finally got the phone and saw the picture, he said she was his cousin.#

Yeah, he lied. Last week I met her, she made it clear that tehy were not cousins.

I finally found out after lots of iteregating, that he had a very strong infatuation for her whilst and before we were going out. But decided no to tell me.

Even thought he didnt do anything physically, mentally he probably fucked her a ton of times whilst he was with me. Was probably kissing her in his mind whilst he was kissing me.

Soryy but that really hurt my feelings and im still hurt. I just had to break up with him.We had been going out for 6 months and in 5 of those months, he was dreaming about being with someone else. Just felt betrayed, and hurt.

How would you feel if this happened to you?

I honestly, really want a Blackberry. Not because everyone else has one, but because everyone has one. Meaning that I can connect more easily with people than the normal texting. I swear noone even comes on facebook anymore and I started to drift apart from alot of my friends.

But anyways back to the point, how can I make at least £100?

I can't really work because I'm not sixteen yet (I just had to be born in august eh lol), no one in my family will help out so I guess it's me against the world in this case.

And if you are going to suggest me selling my stuff, could you maybe list some good trustworthy websites besides the Amazon I can do that on?

Thanks

Well. I just wanted to ask because Im not sure but is it normal to still have some form of feelings for an ex even though you’ve been broken up for more than 4 months and rarely see or speak to each (speak like probably once a week on facebook lol thats about it).

Well I think I do i recognise these feelings inside of me.

The other day, which i think was two days ago, he came around my area so I could give him the money I owed me, i looked past the fact that he only came soley to collect his money, i just really wanted to see him. And when I did, i jerked. I don’t know whether its because he’s started working out and the results are starting to show or his freshly cut hair, but when I saw him I was really attracted to him. And the thing is, after he left and I went up in my room (my thinking place) to think about him, I couldn’t even remember how he physically looked that day all I know is that I felt some form of attraction which leads me to believe that I still may have some feelings for him.

And he was my best friend before he was my bf, and it really bothers me that we rarely talk much anymore, it just makes me wonder if he actually thinks about me as much as I do about him. At times I’m scared to approach him, scared to tell him that I miss him because I know i would be resistant against a possible fact that he doesn't miss me back :/

I KNOW I am over him but there is still that part of me that regrets the break up. Still that part of me that doesn’t want to see him happy with someone else (Of course in genral I do want to see him happy). I wouldn’t say its pain (like when we broke up), these feelings are bearable thats the difference. But they are still there. I still care :s

So if I’m feeling like this it’s makes me wonder whether he might have felt like this at some point too. I tell myself everyday that there is still that possibility, but at the same time I also tell myself that this may not be the case(to avoid getting severely hurt and shocked if it isn’t the case).

What are your opinions, advice, experience? All are welcome here. thanks :)

Hey there, I am 15 years old and its hit me really hard that I don’t have a life. I really don’t have a social life, and it being summer and all, not having a social life is not ideal.

But in some way I don’t feel as though this is entirely my fault, though I know it is 100% my responsibility to change it.

Stuff went down and I have not been to school since last year, i’ve had to tutor myself.....in other words I’ve been at home since last year, most of my associates from school I don’t even talk to and I don’t plan on talking to them. (I want new fresh faces and I doubt they’d wanna talk to me)

It just makes me feel really shitty inside, getting that feeling that no one cares about you, get the feeling that your alone and unloved. You look at your phone and you never have any messages, you go on your facebook....nothing.

And the thing is, I HATE being inside my house, especially on sunny days. But when I do want to go out (which believe me is all the time), where do I go? I’ve joined a club, athletics. Which happens two nights a week, but thats not enough. You have like 5 other days of nothingness.

The friends that I do have, sometimes I feel like I’m bothering them. At times I almost feel like i am less than them because of my social status.

I sat down in my bed last night, and thought about my life and tears literally started to fall down my face. I’ve felt unloved and uncared about in this world many times before, but this time I was sick of it. Every time I felt this way I would always drown in my self-pity, read some article and it’ll make me feel better. I would have accomplished nothing. But this time, I want to break the cycle. I really want to change my life around. I want a social life, I want a beautiful summer to remember before I start school again in September. And I know I’m going to have to get out there alot more but the problem is, I have no idea as to where to go.

The only things I can think of to meet and mingle with new people are clubs, and I’m already in one. I’m being paralyzed by my lack of knowledge in this area. Where and what can I do to meet new people. Social events? Places? I’m open to all suggestions, advice and opinions. Thanks loads <3

Well I have this friend that I reaaaaally care about and would hate to loose. And we hadn't seen each other in like months until yesterday. We finally met up, me him and his other firend(who is sort of my friend too i guess), And i'm telling you it wasn't the same around him. Maybe it's because, well i felt like he was talking to his other friend more than he was talking to me, conversing about their memories and stuff...and I was just there, you know.

When I was around him, I didn't feel as comfortable as I use to feel, but he seemed perfectly comfortable to me. When he spoke to me, i just felt really awkard didn;t know how to reply to most of the things he was saying because I didnt want him to pick up on how awkard I was feeling....it just didn;t feel the same.

I go on facebook now and he writes a status and he writes "people change, friends drift", I looked at that and I took that kindah personal you know.But then I started to feel bad too, I feel like I blew it, my friendshop with him. Maybe he doesn't feel like I'm as outgoing and fun to be aroudn anymore, but at the same time I was nervous and feeling akward can't help it.

And now I don;t think he is going to be interested in keeping our friendship alive in the future.

But I'm not the only one who thinks they''ve changed, I think he's changed too. He is, in my opinion,now really over confident, and confidence is great and all but when its over a certain limit, it gets hmmm...unattractive my eyes. And he quick to call other people ugly and stuff, i dunno. But the only difference here is that I still want to be friends with him and I want to stop us from drifting apart.....i feel like this is my fault

I wish I did and said a few things differently, *sigh*, I just really don't want to loose him, but if I continue to act this way I probably might. And i doubt he'll want to meet up with me again

Do you know any websites or places, stores, shops, companies that buys books from people.

I need to raise 120 quid to buy a blackberry and I thought, hey, why not sell stuff. And seeing as my family has a substantial amount of books which we NEVER read, I thought why not seel them.

I doubt I'd get any hits on ebay, so I need a website like this. Or any website that buys random stuff from people will be fine too, lool.

<3 Thanks loads.

120 pounds if i were to be precise.

I really want a blackberry, i've wanted one for a while, but my mum, like everything she promises to buy for me, is delaying big time.

(When i say delay, I'm talking months, so I'm not like a spoilt brat, I'm gettin impatient.

I'm 15, so I can;t really work and all that stuff, wish I could, it would be so much easier.

So I need so ideas? thanks.

Summer for me started on friday and aready I'm bored to the max!.

I need some interesting motives, help me out.

I have come to realsie that the most important relationship is the one you have with yourself, because it affects your happiness, how you see the world and dictact your relationship with others)

When you think bad about yourself, you normally find the bad in others.

When you think good about yourself, you normally see the good in others etc...

But just thinking good about yourself sometimes just isn't enough, if the feeling isn;t there, then it's just useless....this is where you yahooligans can help me.

Long story short, I want to see the world in a kiss'*** way and I also wanna have kick-*** relationships(friendships etc...)

But at the moment, I don't feel to good about myself on a whole. But at the same time, i don't feel necessarily bad(maybe occassionally, lol). At times I feel so emotionally detached from myself. Like, i'll look in the mirror, I'd look pretty(from my perspective at least), but I wouldn't feel it. :'/

It's almost like I have no feelings towards myself, and most times I find myself seeking approval to avoid judgements and stuff...I wanna stop doing this but someimtes it seems like it;s the only way to feel....normal i guess, like everyone else.

I want to feel beautiful about myself. I just want to be happy, but I have no idea how to do this.

Can you give me some advice please :)

Its sounds so beautiful, I really want to develop myself to have this ability but I don't know how.

I know aura's exist because I can sense them at times with people (vibes, everyone is familiar with this term).

So what tips can I use that will help me out?

Have you seen an aura before? How was it?

And you feel like it's all your fault. You feel like you could have said something better, you should have sad something better,to get a better reaction out of that person.

You just feel like it's all your fault, like your being judged by the other person because you have not lived up to your expectations; because if you did, that person would have reacted better to what you said or wanted to talk to you moree....

You feel like you should have been funnier

shoul have been nicer.

always overanalyzing evrything word you say to make sure that its perfect, that it'll surely get that response you require.

I ust hate feeling like this all the time when I talk to people. I mean, who enjoys feeling self-conscious and inadequate all the time

How can I stop feeling this way!?

I have NO IDEA what to speak about. It's on friday so I have to move quickly.

And i am refering to feelings after a break up.

Would you rather hold on to them with the hope that things will work out or would you let go?

Which one would you pick and explain why.

Well, just realised after two weeks of thinking I was over him and free,that I still have feelings for an ex. They re not as strong as before, but the fact that they are there just bothers me.

I'm hurtng so bad, because I know that the feelings are not mutual and I know that he's interested in other girl/s.

I just want to be free of theese feelings, they are distracting me from my exams.

We haven't seen each other face to face in more than a month. We brok up just over a month ago.

I thought I was over him, but I saw a new picture he was tagged in on facebook and it's like 've fallen all over again.

I don't know what to do? having feelings for a someone is wonderful, but when you have feelings for someone who says they don't feel the same way about you anymore it becomes unhealthy and stressful.

I want to be wit him again now so bad! And because of this, I'm strating to believe that maybe there is a chance that he feels the same way about me too, but doesn't want to tell me because ... I don' know.

But ayways, back to my questions, is it possible to stil have feelings fr an ex even after you've broken up. Do the feelings ever go away? How long does it take till he feelings are compleely gone?

Any experiences?

Thank you.

I need to write a short story. but everytime i come up with a plot, i realise that the story would be too long.

I'm doing gcse english, and if you could help me come up with an interesting plot and that would make a short story (maybe 3-4 pages), i'd be very happy.

I feel like I am really judgemental and I don't like it one bit. It's like a second nature, I don't realise that I do it when I do it.

But what I tend to do is judge people before I get the chance to know them...this happens alot on facebook to.

How I judge them dictates how I interact with them, and already I have all theese expectations.

For example, I'd judge someone on how confident I think they are, and how I think there personailities are and this really affects how I talk to them or act around them.

If I feel like someone has alot of confidence and has a strong personality I would automatically feel intimidated and withdraw myself from any interactions, until i get to know them(if that even happens). I automatically feel like I am goign to be judged badly.

However, If I see someone who I believe has low self confidence and shy, I feel more open and outgoing around them, don't feel like I'll be judged.

I just want to feel outgoing and open all the time, and I know I have to stop judging people and get over my fear of being judged...but how do I do this?

It really stops me from making alot of good potential friends.

I feel like I am really judgemental and I don't like it one bit. It's like a second nature, I don't realise that I do it when I do it.

But what I tend to do is judge people before I get the chance to know them...this happens alot on facebook to.

How I judge them dictates how I interact with them, and already I have all theese expectations.

For example, I'd judge someone on how confident I think they are, and how I think there personailities are and this really affects how I talk to them or act around them.

If I feel like someone has alot of confidence and has a strong personality I would automatically feel intimidated and withdraw myself from any interactions, until i get to know them(if that even happens). I automatically feel like I am goign to be judged badly.

However, If I see someone who I believe has low self confidence and shy, I feel more open and outgoing around them, don't feel like I'll be judged.

I just want to feel outgoing and open all the time, and I know I have to stop judging people and get over my fear of being judged...but how do I do this?

my friend and I use to date, followed by two break ups, and after that our friendship has been really rocky. And for once,when are friendship finally starts to see some light, my stoopid *bestfriend* told him that I had been facebook stalking him to see if he had a girlfriend...not only is that really embarassing for me, it makes me look like a low life and she betrayed my trust once again. Maybe she told him because I didnt put "oh and don't tell **** " at the end. BUT YOU SHOULD KNOW WHAT THINGS TO TELL YOUR FRIEND'S EX FOR CRYING OUT LOUD!

Now I don't think he's in good terms with me because he doesn't think i'm open with him....he says that It's either i''m open with him or I shouldn't talk to him at all. He even said that he thinks it sad that I facebook stalk him in general and blah blah.

I need some advice please, he is suppose to be m bestfriend but I'm not even sure of that anymore.....

He being really weird with me. We are suppose to be best friends and obviously, when your best friends you tell each other everything.

So I see his posts on facebook and his status's and it suggests that he's been drinking heavily...so I'm thinking, Hey, he doesn't normally drink....he's been drinking for the past two days now.

So I inbox him once again, asking him whats wrong and how I'm worried about him and once again all I get from him is "Dn't worry", Which is kindah a slap in the face.....but he's telling his other friends whats wrong with him and not me, so I feel like this is kind of personal. So obviously i get annoyed, because recently we had a conversation about how he feels like I don't communicate my problems with him to him, so is he trying to get me back or does he just not want to be friends with me anymore?

So I thought, okay it might be both, so I'm ready to give him a peace of my mind and then I find out that his uncle passed away...WHY COULDN'T YOU TELL ME!?

Couldn't tell him I was annoyed then could I? he's got enough to deal with than me hassaling him about being weird.

I just feel like we've lost that closeness :/

And most of the time we speak, I feel like I'm hassaling him...I feel like I am always the one to start the convo, his replies are always slow...I feel like I'm losing him and it's like he wouldn't care if he lost me......I CRIED for our friendship....i want to tell him how I feel but he just lost his uncle for crying out loud, the last thing i should do is for me to put my problems on him. It's almost like he doesn't consider me a close friend anymore....what should i do :(