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Just wondering what dictates attraction in astrology?

I thought it was Venus-Mars but here's the thing... every girl I've been in a relationship with has a Venus in Scorpio but my Mars/Venus are both in Leo... I don't really have anything in water

I don't really have Scorpio anything in my chart. I notice every ex girlfriend had a Venus in Scorpio and we would have this really twisted love/hate relationship because they play so many mind games.

I mean my Mars/Venus is Leo - it's fire, not water. My rising is libra, sun Virgo, Moon Gemini

In terms of two peoples charts, what's stronger in terms of bond?

Venus Conjunction Pluto or Venus Conjunction Mars?

I try to be a good human being but it gets hard because I live in a world full of insecurity, where people just love to tear at each other (read my last question for a list of examples).

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AuwFH...

Imagine dealing with people like that in real life out of sympathy... my patience wears out in terms of my friendships with people at the bottom. I'm friends with them because I figure everyone deserves a chance to win in life, it kind of sucks that society imbues winners to keep winning and losers that stay losers - they tend to make enemies with people at the top (out of envy); they make enemies everywhere really, because they look to victimize but anyway...

My friends tell that equality is a human concept, that I should let go of my idealism and stop hanging with the uglies and the nobodies because hanging with them made me bitter (due to their attitudes) ; that I should just squash them and put them in their place instead of showing sympathy.

My sort of girlfriend would say stuff like, "they're not nice to look at, not nice to deal with, not nice to be around - nobody cares what they say, think,do. Why deal with them when you have the option to only deal with people like me? Hot, nice, fun and who does not blame you for their miserable lives..." I've been in isolation, not dealing with anyone because it makes me feel guilty that I like people who said some of the crappy things I've quoted... I like them because they're nice to me and I feel guilty because I'm starting to go with the whole segregation of winners and losers.

I get that envy is very human and people can't control how they're born - whether they're born rich or hot, having more power than everyone else. I get that the people who are nice to me are not necessarily better human beings since they act the way they do because they don't have a reason to be bitter.

People are only good because they have to be and internet trolls kind of prove that - like let's be honest, in real life, they won't get away with it because they're at the bottom of the food chain.

My question is, since most people aren't actually good by nature - as in only good because they have to be... is there really a point in trying to be good when you can be bad? Is there a point in trying to make things fair when the world is unfair? My friends said, the world has always worked this way and I can't change how the world works, that's why I should just let the losers drown because they're going to anyway. I love my friends to death because they're the ones who are nice to me but I hate the things they say, I'm just beginning to think that they're right - living the way they do makes things simple and easier.

Why care when I'm on the winning side? Nobody appreciates it.

I seem to be attracted to a type that I SERIOUSLY don't get a long with. It's like the lust is high to the point where it's hard to control. I'd try to date other types, like girl-next-door,rocker, airhead, geek, activist but I think because I've experienced the ultimate type of passion, the interest doesn't hold because the lust isn't as strong as the type I seem to love/hate (perfectionist/queen bee - like Emma Watson's character Hermoine with Avril Lavigne looks).

And it's vice versa. They represent everything I can't stand - self righteousness, arrogance, power tripping at the club - acting like they're into certain people when they're not just for free drinks (picking on the little guy -average/busted). I represent everything they can't stand - no self control, impulsive, crude, and irresponsible.

We try to stay away from each other but because lust is primitive, it's hard to fight nature so we always end up f*cking (and fighting) - to the point where we end up with bruises. It's sort of abuse and it's sort of not because she'd just pinch me,etc when I eat her out, the pinch causes endorphins or whatever, where it feels good and it hurts like hell.

The point is, it's twisted and exhausting but I'm not sure how to deal with it since we can't help who we're attracted to... so I think I'm totally f*cked. Any suggestions on how to either end the cycle or deal with it?

I made a youtube video "3 of the most annoying things girls do that I can't stand"

1. Texting "hi" or "what's up" with no real point. Then they continue to text stupid stuff, and have convos through text message like "How are you?" When I give one word answers.

2. Talk about gossip with me when I already stated "I don't care who is f*cking who, if that who isn't me"

3. Dance with me at the club when I said I like dancing a lone in the Ty zone, the Ty zone only fits one; Ty.

I say hot girls because the non hot ones get mad at everything, like the hot ones are harder to piss off. It's mostly to see how much it'd take for them to b*tch me out - but not so much where it stops me from getting laid - that would be awful

made a youtube video 3 of the most annoying things girls do that I can't stand

1. Texting "hi" or "what's up" with no real point

2. Talk about gossip with me when I already stated "I don't care who is f*cking who, if that who isn't me"

3. Dance with me at the club when I said I like dancing a lone in the Ty zone, the Ty zone only fits one; Ty.

I say hot girls because the non hot ones get mad at everything, like the hot ones are harder to piss off. It's mostly to see how much it'd take for them to b*tch me out - but not so much where it stops me from getting laid - that would be awful

Just wondering if rising sign dictates attraction. I'm a libra rising and though I do attract a good amount of air signs, I attract way more fire signs so it doesn't seem like rising sign dictates attraction, or maybe I'm wrong?

I figure maybe i attract fire because I'm leo mars/venus?

I'll be honest, I'm not a huge Justin Bieber fan - I don't hate him but his music just isn't my thing but... I'm an aspiring actor and suddenly have marketing people jumping aboard my crazy train - it was their suggestion that I do this Bieber video so I did one loosely and shockingly got likes on it. I was thinking, ok maybe I should give a performance where I actually put effort into it...

Should I add

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RaecYv_pQ0Aactual dancing to it?

We barely know each other but would the chart tell me whether or not the attraction is mutual?

09/08/1985 Aspect 09/16/1981 Orb/Value

Mercury Sextile Venus 1.42 79

Venus Conjunction Mars 4.09 104

Venus Sextile Jupiter 1.23 63

Mars Square Uranus 2.10 -79

Jupiter Opposition Mars 1.16 -73

Jupiter Trine Saturn 2.23 52

Saturn Sextile Sun 0.58 91

Saturn Conjunction Uranus 3.49 66

Uranus Sextile Jupiter 0.51 54

Pluto Conjunction Venus1.51 93

I try to be friends my ex but I swear, she deliberately pushes my buttons. We'd be really good friends for a bit but then next thing you know, we'd fight, we'd f*ck and we end up cheating on the people we're with so I mean, is it just a myth that ex lovers can be friends?

Why does it seem like everyone root for the relationship to fall? That's what happened with mine and I'm the one that's at fault. People think the bad boy doesn't hurt and the good girl suffers the most. I might have a crappy temper but at least I care enough where I know judgments and criticism makes makes an environment feel unsafe, unlike the nerd bombs who have this standard way that all people should behave, not even taking into consideration, personality traits are genetic. I can't help the way I came out. I just don't get why people who aren't even part of the relationship would be happy at other peoples misery?

I try to be friends my ex but I swear, she deliberately pushes my buttons. We'd be really good friends for a bit but then next thing you know, we'd fight, we'd f*ck and we end up cheating on the people we're with so I mean, is it just a myth that ex lovers can be friends?

I'm writing this paper about adolescents & my friends and I have this debate going... Do you think it's a stereotype that popular kids are jerks?

From my experience,popular kids were super nice to me, like I remember the most popular girl at my school buying me lunch this one time because I'm all poor and sh*t. She would always say hi to me, etc. I think it's more the wannab popular kids that are actually jerks because they're trying to prove something. The popular kids are treated like gods so they don't have that insecurity where they need to pound on people.

Today, me and a few of friends were shopping and debating about this when a couple of groups of HS students walked by. One chick from 1 group gave me a dirty look, so I said to my friend "see, I can tell that's the wannabe group because they're b*tches" then my friend was like "NO, you can tell that's the wannabe group because they're not as hot as the nicer group"

Regardless, don't you think that proves that popular kids are actually nicer than most? Because they're treated well, they don't have anything to prove to people.

Do most women prefer the bad boy, the shy type, the intellectual?

Be honest. Me and the dudes are always trying to figure it out because we're all different types and it's interesting how girls try to talk to me even when I give them the cold shoulder. I don't talk, I'm quiet yet people deem me as having a whole lot of confidence when really, it's not confidence or insecurity - it's apathy.

Do you prefer the bad boy? If so why? If not, what's your type and why?

When I say be honest, I mean go by the people you've had crushes on. There's usually a pattern.

I was clubbing and was dancing with a friend but then I see this hot girl batting her eyes at me, I'm like "ooo hot girl" and moved my friend away so hot girl would know I was available but then my friend flew into a group of people. I didn't mean to push her that hard and said I was sorry but she's still mad at me.

If I was wrong, how should I fix it?

There's this hot girl that I want to have fun wth but my ex hates her. I never did anything because somewhere deep down, I was hoping we'd be able to fix our issues and get back together.

I didn't want to do anything that would jeaporadize that chance but I don't think it's going to happen so should I just have fun with that girl she hates?

I'm a girl but I've noticed a lot of other girls not wanting to admit that relationships are mainly about sex - that's the difference between relationships and friendships.

Why not just call it for what it really is?

I've noticed that straight girls or bi girls (whatever they are) seem to hit on me when I'm wearing a trucker's hat but they claim they like guys and if they go for a girl, they'd prefer the girl to look like a girl.

I look uber dudish in a hat though. Do you notice that too? If you look andro or at least more girly than some dyke wearing a hat, the girls think it's hot? Even though they say they like femmes?