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Msbearr

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Hi, I am Ms. Lane from Alabama. I am 34 years old. I love helping others and making people laugh. I am honest, caring, very understanding, open minded, laid back, easy going, with a great personality and since of humor. You will see this in my answers. What you see in my answers is the true me. I don't put on a show just to gain friends or points on here. I have been asked what does LIFE IN THE FAST LANE mean when I post it as source on Yahoo Answers? When I was a teenager & a young adult I was going through my life so fast, to the point I was missing the point of life, the messages "teachings". When I was older I had to hit rock bottom a few times in order for it to get knocked into my thick skull. So when I say, "LIFE IN THE FAST LANE!" I am relating to something I have learned the hard way on rock bottom. The things I have learned, I am now able to reach out and help others. In hopes they too wont go down the same road that I got lost on before God rescued me.

  • Why is it when we hear a song it will stick in our heads for hours?

    Club Cant Handle Me Flo Rida

    for me it's the beat of the music.

    6 AnswersPolls & Surveys1 decade ago
  • How would you define Gothic?

    other then they (we) dress in a lot of black and red and wear black nail polish a lot?

    I am not wanting info on the music. I am more less looking to describe the person in general/life style.

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  • Which actor/actress is the best of all time?

    I am needing a list of all the best actress and actors from 1980-present

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  • What is the best way to ask him out?

    There is this guy who has had his eyes on me for a while now. We talk on and off. How do I let him know that I know without making myself look like a basket case? I would just ask him out, but to be honest, I want him to ask me out.

    10 AnswersPolls & Surveys1 decade ago
  • What is the name of the singer in this video by the Pointer Sisters, song Automatic?

    The lead singer in the red/pink dress, the one of the left.

    Thanks

    1 AnswerCelebrities1 decade ago
  • Would this song make the charts?

    I just wrote a song tuned to Conga by Gloria Estfan and Miami Sound Machine

    Needless to say, I put my own words to the music, for the time being.

    here it is:

    You Fail To See

    Chorus

    You say that you love me

    you say that your sorry

    but you fail to see

    the reason behind

    my good-bye

    repeat Chorus

    V1

    When reality

    hits you

    it will be to late

    you wont be able

    to blame it

    on fate

    you knew all

    alone

    that this was wrong

    yet you continued

    to lead

    me on

    Repeat Chorus

    V2

    When you saw me

    on my knees

    drowning in my sarrows

    you could have

    put it

    all to rest

    that day

    but oh oh no

    you let it go on

    Yet you keep

    asking me

    if I still love you

    Repeat Chorus two times

    Writen By: MsBearr :-)

    January 03, 2010 at 8:15 p.m.

    Song Tuned To; Conga

    Song By: Gloria Estefan and Miami Sound Machine

    Song Written About: Stacie G

    So how bad is it?

    4 AnswersPolls & Surveys1 decade ago
  • If I had to break into my own home would it be considered breaking an entry?

    My door keys don't work anymore ,so I have had to use a butterknife to get inside. Calling Landlord in the morning.

    4 AnswersPolls & Surveys1 decade ago
  • How can back up singers dance without lip singing when it is a solo part?

    I can't dance to my fav. songs without singing, needless to say lip singing.

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  • Should I walk away or give them 1 more try?

    I met SG this pass summer. We were working on them moving from Chicago to Alabama, to live w/ me so that they could get a job and go to collage, since their mom refused to help them. Anyways, being that my roommates (at the time) and I didn't have enough room, I went and got my own place so SG could live w/ me 4 free until they got a job.

    They told me they would be here in Sept 2009. Then it was Oct. 2009. A date was set for the end of Nov 2009. I told SG if they were not living here by Dec 1, 2009 that I was leaving for good, due to all the lies and being betrayed.

    Dec 3, 2009 they told me that they had NO ATTENTIONS to fall in love w/ me, yet they did fall in love w/ me later on, or move down and that they knew this from the start. SG told me they didn't mean to lie to me.

    They sent me this 2day

    Honey, I know this means nothing to you, but I feel absolutely terrible for what I did. I never meant to break your heart and I'm sorry I did. Please forgive me, I'm very sorry. I truly am. I would do anything in the world to take it back, even if it meant I had to shorten my life. I love you very much and I always will. Do you still want a Christmas gift? I would be more than happy to give you one. Just tell me if you still want it. I love you.

    No amount of money or gifts can take this pain away.

    They didn't just hurt me, they lied to me and for what?

    I offered them a FREE place to stay. Most ppl would have left, after the fact, that they were locked up for depression problems, but I STAYED right by their side. We were going to get married after they got back on their feet.

    Anyways, they lied to me from the start and they want to blame their mother due to she would not bring them here to live w/ me, yet all alone SG was lying to me FROM THE START.

    Should I give them a second chance just as friends, or walk away forever?

    THANKS

    5 AnswersPolls & Surveys1 decade ago
  • How do I tell her goodbye with her taking her life?

    I started to fall out of love with my g/f about a month ago due to her immaturity and always thinking I was cheating on her when I wasn't, due to her ex's cheated on her. I tried to hang in there, but now I can't due to that and now her mental illness, which has gotten worse in the past four months.

    She is getting help and I am glad she is. However, I have been trying to help her with this issue for four months now and she never did anything to correct it until after she tried to kill herself over jealousy of me having another female friend (whom I am NOT dating). She promised me the last time she cut herself, (a month ago) that she would not do it again, yet she did it again and then tried to do kill herself a few days ago. It hurt me deeply. She says I am the only reason why she did not go through with it and that if she lost me she would kill herself.

    My nerves can NOT take this any longer. I understand mental illness a little to well, don't get me wrong, but after four months of trying to help her and then this happens I am at the point of throwing in the towel.

    As the radio dee-jay said last night, on the radio, if there is a 5 % chance of it working out fight for it, if not then don't.

    On one hand there is a 5 % chance, but on the other hand if I stay I will be breaking a promise to myself.I promised myself I would NEVER get involved with ANYONE who has a bad case of mental illness, due to I just left my ex who is mentally ill who abused me for 7 yrs and I don't want to be walking on egg shells, or looking over my shoulder to see if she is going to hurt herself every time I open my mouth to make a point.

    Point, I understand what she is going through and I still want to be by her side as her best friend, but not as her girl friend.

    How do I tell her goodbye without her taking her life?

    She is in the hospital as we speak. Should I tell her now or wait?

    Thanks

    4 AnswersPolls & Surveys1 decade ago
  • What is up with this, do they really like me?

    A friend of mine who has been dating someone for a few years told me yesterday that they have feelings for me. It was hard for them to tell me this and other things due to becoming emotional. Later they asked me if I wanted to be their girl friend, but stopped and say wait that would mean you are the other person and I don't want you to be that and I don't want to hurt you. They also told me if it was not for the long years with their mate they would pack up and leave them for me. Later that evening they told me I was their special friend for right now until they could work this stuff out.

    Being said, what does this sound like to you? Do they want me for the person I am or just for sex?

    1 AnswerPolls & Surveys1 decade ago
  • What do they want from me?

    A friend of mine who has been dating someone for a few years told me yesterday that they have feelings for me. It was hard for them to tell me this and other things due to becoming emotional. Later they asked me if I wanted to be their girl friend, but stopped and say wait that would mean you are the other person and I don't want you to be that and I don't want to hurt you. They also told me if it was not for the long years with their mate they would pack up and leave them for me. Later that evening they told me I was their special friend for right now until they could work this stuff out.

    Being said, what does this sound like to you? Do they want me for the person I am or just for sex?

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating1 decade ago