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Met this guy about 5 years ago through a friend. We lost contact and recently reconnected. Both of us decided to be friends with benefits. Also, both of us are in love with our exs. We've shared our experiences and have agreed that casual sex is good enough for us. The other day when we were together he asked me about guys I've talked to in the past, and he said, "I don't care about your past as long as you aren't that way when you're with me." The other day I was in the mall and bought him a Ton of gifts. This is so bad, it seems like we're catching feelings for each other. I'm going back to college soon and this isn't what I planned. Any advice?! Do you think he's catching feelings? How do I handle this? Should I distance myself?

Yesterday, I went to a remote area with my close guy friend. We were talking about a date that I had with this guy the night before. I kept dazing off and observing the water. I can't remember what happened but my friend was throwing rocks into the water. I turned around and he threw a rock at my forehead. I became dizzy for a little bit, and started yelling. His response when I got hit was I told you we should've just went to the gym. I'm

convinced he tried to kill me. What do you think? Why would he do this?! Any advice as to what I should do?

Okay so my boyfriend and I broke up recently after being together for 9 months. One day we got into an argument and he just didn't speak to me. After 2 weeks I decided to reach out to him but he was resistant. He told me through text he wasn't interested in getting back together. I was extremely hurt by this, because I wanted answers. I believe he cheated on me, and he said he was never happy in the relationship. I was cheating on him with my ex boyfriend throughout our relationship, and he kept asking me if I was still with my ex. So basically we both cheated on each other but he was SO ANGRY AT ME! He claims he didn't cheat but I know he did. Why is he angry if he cheated as well and why wait until now to break up if you were never happy? Then he had the nerve to talk about karma!!! But he was cheating. I'm confused!

Okay I've been dating my boyfriend for 3 months and my ex boyfriend& I broke up 4 months ago because he was messing with his ex while we were dating. My new boyfriend is AMAZING. He is the ideal guy, but my ex is back. He sees me happy and all of a sudden wants to move back into the picture. I don't want him, but I still love him. I should just completely forget about him but I don't know how. Why is this happening? How to make him go away? Any advice for me?

Okay so I am in college. On Friday I did not attend class because I was sick so I decided to go to my Professor's office. He was stretching, and I walked into his office. He told me to take a seat so I sat down. We discussed my essay for a little while, and then he started talking to me about his personal life. He told me that he was engaged, but his fiance didn't like anything he liked. He told me he likes basketball his fiance likes football. He also told me she doesn't like television, and he loves it. I didn't understand why'd he'd be marrying her if they don't like any of the same things, but I let him continue. Then he told me he wanted to change his approach to certain things because his anger issues were the cause of his first marriage which ended soon after it began. He told me he likes movies, and likes going out with friends. We got really deep into his personal life. I told him that he should work on his attitude, and the things he does. In class he always uses my papers as an example or is critical on everyone else but me. When I was in his office we talked for an hour and a half before I finally left. He told me it was really nice speaking with me. I smiled and he held out his hand and I playfully turned it down. There was a lot of flirting and I kind of have a crush on him. I know sounds weird. What do you think. No rude comments please.

My ex-boyfriend&I were together for 3 years. On New Years Eve he told me he's still with his ex-girlfriend. I haven't stopped crying. I called him & he never answered. I just want to move on, but I'm stuck in a depression& I keep asking myself why!!! Please help.

Okay, I met my boyfriend about 3 years ago and I love him very much. I dont know what to do I want to be with only him, but he feels like I'll cheat on him and hurt him. My only concern is he still has photos of him and his ex girlfriend& when we had sex the other night it didnt feel the same. I don't know what to do. I feel like I'm wasting my time& he'll never get to the point I am. Should I just give up and leave the relationship?

My friend and I met when I was 15 and he was 25. I am now 18 and hes 28. I honestly can't stop thinking about him. I saw him over the weekend and then I went back to school because Thanksgiving break was over. Every time I attempt to write an essay I think about him. When I'm in my dorm by myself I think about him. We talked about marriage, children, and everything when we were together. Before I left him he said the man you marry is lucky, you're beautiful. I told him I couldn't see him in the audience of my wedding and he said but you can't see me at the alter either. I told him I could. I guess he thinks I'm young so this is a phase. I love him. Have you ever loved someone so much you couldn't focus?

So the other night I called a psychic about a personal relationship, The women basically told me that my current boyfriend whom I have been with for three years, I will marry. It was kind of scary to me because now I know who I am going to marry. She kept saying on November 20 I have to see him because thats when destiny will bring us together. I thought it was a bunch of crap honestly but while she was talking to me I opened a flu shot email. She knew at that exact moment that I had opened that email. So what she was saying was it accurate?

My boyfriend is very dear to me but I'm afraid that hes stalking me. He knows everything I'm doing. One day I was with my male best friend& he called me and said "I hope your not with a guy." It was weird. Then I posted a status the other day (my boyfriend doesn't have me on facebook) and he called me today and said "I like the status you posted." Its kind of getting creepy. I asked him how he saw my status and he said don't worry about it. Is he stalking me? Should I be concerned?

Hey guys. I'm a freshman in college and my boyfriend is 28. I met him when I was 15 and he was 25. I know it sounds creepy, but three years later here we are. I love when we play fight, kiss, have sex. It's truly amazing. Honestly, I'm a little concerned because how seriously can we honestly take each other? My family knows about him but not how old he is and I'm not ready to introuduce him until I am a certain age. His family and friends know about me as well but he isn't ready to introudce me to them. I don't know what to do! Is it love? Can a 10 year age difference effect a relationship? & when is a good time to introduce him to my family? I don't want us to be a secret forever.

Adults have a huge problem with me dating a 24 year old and i'm 17. Is there a major problem? I met this guy when I was 15 and we spend every waking moment together. We've come to the realization that we're on two totally different levels in life but why does it matter? Everyone feels like there is something "off" about him but I don't see what. He has a 9 year old son we've had sex once. I dont get it.

Okay so I have been dating this guy for awhile now. The other night he took me out and I asked him if he was going to get in the car he got in the car and started to yell at my because he thought I was "rushing" him then we went to the mall and he sat next to me and hugged me. That night he yelled at me about 5 times. Usually he doesn't answer my text message until hours later because he works, so today I didn't answer his text message until hours later because I was working and he questioned me about why I took long to reply. When we were at the movies he laid on my chest the whole time.

I'm confused my sister believes that he may become abusive*

Any help. Please and thank you

My ex boyfriend and I had a horrible break up. He cheated on me with a girl from Georgia he has been on and off with for the past 8 years. I found out about her and long story short we haven't talked since then, because he picked her over me. I was heart broken because I actually gave my all into this guy. A couple of weeks ago I was at the train station and I saw him. It was akward but I had a pair of shades on and it felt like time froze and it was just me and him and he just stared at me. I was going to sarcastically wave but I felt like I couldn't move. So many emotions were running through me. I didn't know whether to hit him or be an asshole. Any advice on why I felt this way? or maybe what he was thinking?

Okay so yesterday my ex boyfriend and I got into an argument. His mother walked into the room and basically told me I have little respect for myself. So I was asked to leave. Then when I get down the block my ex boyfriend texted me and called me trying to work things out because I told him I was done. I feel as if his mother is brain washing him to believe im some kind of "whore". I also believe she's the reason we aren't together and hes a mama's boy. Why didn't he say something to his mother when I was there? After I hung up on him he called my friend 50 times (literally) asking if he was wrong for not saying anything? Why is he so concerned now?

Okay so yesterday my ex boyfriend and I got into an argument. His mother walked into the room and basically told me I have little respect for myself. So I was asked to leave. Then when I get down the block my ex boyfriend texted me and called me trying to work things out because I told him I was done. I feel as if his mother is brain washing him to believe im some kind of "whore". I also believe she's the reason we aren't together and hes a mama's boy. Why didn't he say something to his mother when I was there? After I hung up on him he called my friend 50 times (literally) asking if he was wrong for not saying anything? Why is he so concerned now?

Okay so i wrote a long paragraph to my ex boyfriend a couple of months ago telling him that I was done with the relationship and how I really felt about him. We stopped talking and I got into a new relationship and he texted me about 2 months ago. So I went over his house and we had sex. I stopped talking to him again because I was in a relationship. A couple of days ago I hinted we should have sex with no strings attached. After the sex i usually would lay down with him and talk but I got up put my clothes on and was headed for the door. He stopped me I guess to get my attention to stay, but I quickly brushed him off and left. After that night hes been acting funny. I kind of did what I did purposly to see how he'd act. He's acting as if he were hurt by it and when I asked him to get together again he avoided it. Why is this ? any advice ?

So I have a quick question and I kind of need advice. So my boyfriend and I break up like every week. He doesnt make an effort to see me and I understand hes busy and it's hard for us to see each other but i'm still his girlfriend. So I saw him at a carnival a couple of weeks ago with his friends and I walked up to him to say hi and he started acting funny and he left the carnival. So I called him and started yelling at him and he came back but I ignored him. Anyway long story short I broke up with him, and i'm honestly not sure whether or not I should get back with someone who chooses their friends over their girlfriend.

*don't want him to pick between me and his friends but I want some quality time too.

Okay so my boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months. His mother doesn't like me and before we started dating, people who knew him would tell me he's a "player" but I gave him a shot anyway. So we started dating and a couple of months after he went back to school he started acting funny. (ex. short text message answers, only wanting me to come over to have sex, and things like that) we haven't talked for almost 2 weeks because I'm tired of his crap.. What do you think went wrong in our relationship? Why did he decide to change up?

advice please.

My ex boyfriend and I don't get along very well. At one point we were inseperatable and then he just became distant and we fought a lot and decided to break up. I then moved on and started a new relationship and we then started talking again. After a couple of weeks we started to argue again about the past and he decided he didn't want anything to do with me. So now we both have a mutual friend and she's having a party in June and she invited both of us. I don't understand its like everytime I move forward with my life he finds a way back in.

So what should I do, I want this to be a great time for my friend, but then I still have feelings for him and want to make this work.