ZombLover

Alright, here it goes, it's probably going to be a long one...

My husband and I married in June of 07. Everything was great, and i guess still kind of is. The problem that I am having lately is that it seems that he doesn't want anything to do with me. Every weekend that I think we have together he makes plans to go and do things with family or friends, which I think is great, but he never wants me to go with him. He says that it's because I'll be bored, because he's going golfing or something, but I truly want him to at the very least invite me. I've told him this and all he comes up with is i just want to spend time with my dad, family, friends... whoever it may be. On the other days when I want to do, well anything, even if it's just a short drive in the car, his response is "no, I'm busy, when he's playing video games. It's getting really ridiculous. And before you think it, NO he is not cheating. One factor that might be the issue is that recently his mother died, but I don't understand why he would want to push me away and bring his family, that he was never close with, closer. He was never really close with his family except his farther. We don't have any time with just him and I. Next week his company is sending him on a cruise, the weekend after his family is coming up from NC to visit him, but there staying at his uncles house which is about 2 and a half hours from ours, I asked him to ask his family if they would like to come up to see our new house and for a BBQ, he just says no they wouldn't want to drive that far. Then he says but we might go to a camp ground that we used to go to when I was younger, I asked if I was invited, and his responce you ask? well I don't know because it was just going to be my family. I thought that when we got married, that I was part of his family? and the camp is even further then our house. I just can't understand what is going on with him. I'm not even sure if I want to any more. We were supposed to be planning a week get a way for the two of us to the Bahamas, he looked at a few places with me then said he had a headache. It's getting to the point where I just want to say screw you, I'd rather go on a vacation, to a beautiful beach with my sister, rather then you because all you do is complain, and push me away. It's getting to the point where I'm feeling so depressed because I thought that I had someone who loved me, and now it seems that he doesn't want anything to do with me. I used to be such a happy go lucky person, now it's like he does and says things to try and hurt me, and make me feel bad about the happy go lucky, loving person that I am, even when I tell him to stop, he just keeps saying hurtful things. When things cool down he will come to me, every time, and say "I think I might have some anger management problems" Oh really captain obvious!? when did you come to that conclusion!?

My question is what cant I really do that I haven't done already? I've sat down with him, we've talked about him getting so angry that he just starts yelling things to hurt me, and he says he wont anymore, it just doesn't stick. Now I'm a smart girl, I know that what you will probably says is "you need a break, just take some time apart" well, give me another way to deal with it. Please.

When do I get my points? Is it after I pay my bill?

I read this on a site, but I really can't believe it, anyone know anything about it?

I have Windows Vista, I wanted to know if there is a setting where I can set my computer to lock when it goes into sleep mode?

Thanks for any help.

I am looking for the one when the mom comes home from the dentist and half her fave is still numb, so when she smiles only half of her face is smiling. Can anyone send me the link for it? thanks for the help.

We're both only 24, his mother just turned 50 in February. Here's the story... Ever since his mother and dad divorced about 6 years ago, she picked up drinking, in mid 2008 to early 2009 she was hospitalized for alcohol poisoning three times. She finally got her act together, moved in with her brother in a huge house with her own attached apartment... In September 2009 Her brothers wife died of a heart attack. She was doing good on not drinking, then on Christmas day she called and said that their furnace blew so she couldn't come to our house, (she lives 2 hrs away) but she sounded drunk. My husband told her that she has ruined Christmas b/c she made such a big dead about coming to our house for it and instead went and got drunk b/c that was more important to her, and that she was not welcome to come here to celebrate it. It wasn't until February 27, When my sister had her baby that he called her. That was the last contact he had. He tried calling her on Mother's Day, but it went strait to voice mail and her mail box was full, so we thought something was up, so we called his brother, left a voice mail, and left it at that. Today, 5/12/2010, We received a call from his brother stating that his mother has passed away on Monday, and that he was just notified today. I really need some help, I have had some issues with his mother in the past, but all I want to do is be there for him in his time of need, What can I possibly say or do to help him? He feels so guilty for not calling her sooner and for fighting with her... any help would be great. Thank You.

I'm bored, can anyone think of anything funny?

and NO prank calling is NOT illegal, so drop it.

Does anyone have a recipe, or youtube video for this? NOT black light makeup, glow in the dark makeup.

What is the average size harness for a full grown female husky?

I understand about getting a new phone every two years, so long as you sign up for another two year contract.

But my question is, When you sign up for another two years, can you choose ANY phone to upgrade to? Or is it only up to a certain price range that you are allowed until you would have to pay the remaining balance of the phone? And if it IS only up to a certain price, how do they calculate how much you are allowed towards the upgrade? or is it a set amount?

Any help would be great! thanks!

Not rock candy, POP ROCKS, I really wanna know how to make them. Thanks everyone!

The beautiful white one that kristen stewart is wearing? I have no idea where to start. Any help would be great! thanks!

The phone was dropped into some water, and was left there overnight. I've tried everything to fix it, nothing works. It's an LG Chocolate touch, my contract started 9/2/2009. I don't have any kind of insurance on it. Would it be better for me to just tell them that my phone was stolen, or would it not make a difference if it was stolen or broken?

I have the back plate on, how do i remove it to get to the battery? i've been trying for 30 mins, and it doesn't seem to budge...

I am trying to do a lifetime happiness thing where I have to work out for 6 hours strait, but I get fatigued too quickly, how can I beat this goal?

I have a 10x10 room, how many 12x12 tiles do i need to cover the floor?

I have a clawfoot tub that I will be putting in my remodeled bathroom. It is not going to be near a wall so what kind of curtain rod do I get that hangs only from the ceiling? I can't find any.

Thank You for your help.

I see sites that say they have FREE ringtones, but when I go to put my number in, there's always a notice that there is a monthly fee. Does anyone know where I can get Completely 100% Free Ringtones?

I have a claw foot tub that is 60 inches long and 30 inches wide, what is the total length curtain i would buy? thanks for the help

I'm at the part where you have to shoot the hack thing at the thing to open the door (in the beginning) how do it do that? it talls me to press E on the green block, i do but it does nothing, what do I do?