Tara

i am sure that i am either bisexual or pansexual and i rly want ppl to know this abt me but i don't wanna make it a big deal. i wish people would know it about me like how they know my name and my age and everything. i have told a few people about it like when its fitted in to a conversation but i rly just wish everyone would know but idk how to make that happen lol

i am pretty much certain that i am bisexual & i want to meet other girls and experiement with them etc but i'm not sure entirely how to. i don't know a lot of people at my college and all the girls i am friends w as far as i know are straight and also these people are all my friends so i'd feel strange trying to persure any of them anyway. i'm 16 so it's not really possible for me to go clubbing and that & i'm not keen on using dating apps and stuff so i'm mot really sure jow to go about it.

i am mostly sure tjat i am bisexual/pansexual and i rly wanna jus experiment w girls and stuff but idk how to find other girls that are into girls, let alone other girls that are into girls that would be into me. i am 16 so its not rly possible for me to go clubbing and that & i m not keen on meeting ppl online and such & the vast majority of girls i know irl are as far as i know straight so i m mot sure how to find other non straight girls ????

I'm 15 and most days I just don't want to exist any more. It's not that I'm suicidal, I just hate living and feel it's so pointless and I'm sad most the time and I hate myself a lot. I just want to give up. I imagine like ways I could die a lot as well, like walking into cars and falling off things whenever I'm out, I wouldn't ever actually do anything like this but I imagine it a lot and I don't know if this is normal. I think it could be normal because I know I don't tell anyone this and maybe everyone just feels like this but no one talks about it or maybe it's just me????

I don't even know why but I obsess so much over things. Like it's okay when I obsess over music artists and stuff but sometimes it gets to the point where it just ends up making me genuinely sad that they don't know I exist and don't care about me.

Then the worst bit is when I obsess over actual people. I hate it and I feel like a complete crazy freaky creep and I keep on and on scaring people away because I come so attached to them and it's making me cry just typing it out.

Then people leave me and I become more attached because they become what I can't have and it's making me feel horrendous and I want to stop existing and I hate myself and I don't know how to stop.

And there's so so so much more but I can't talk to anyone about it because I've scared everyone away and there's so much and I don't want to scare even more people away and bore them.

I don't like myself at all, and it's not that my life is bad or anything. I don't like living. I feel so weird, I don't feel things but I feel everything and I hate people but I love people so much. I don't care but I have so many fears. I'm scared of being unhappy, I don't feel happy now and I'm worried that when I'm older I'll be stuck in a job that I hate and I am scared of living alone and not being able to have children. I know I have it so much better than others, but I feel wrong and out of place. I don't like me. I don't like what I have become, I've become such a paranoid negative person. I'm motivated and I get jealous of my friends. I feel lonely but I just want people to leave me alone. why is this happening? what can I do to make this all stop?

I have an online friend and it is his birthday in a few days and I would really love to do something special for him but idk what. I can't send him anything bc his family fosters kids and last time I did he got in a lot of trouble so it will have to be something I can do for him online. It doesn't have to cost anything, I jsut want to do something to make him feel special.

He has a lot of online friends, so I could get them involved if needs be and I only have a few days to put something together so it can't be anything that takes a long time

I don't know what's happening to me but all the time I feel paranoid and anxious and sad and I don't always have a reason to be. I become very attached to people and things and I feel like I am actually crazy and I don't know what to do. I don't want to tell anyone I feel this way because they are just going to tell me that I'm not crazy and that I'm being dramatic or attention seeking and I've been panicking a lot recently too and my mum keeps telling me not to be stupid and it's not fair and I just don't know what to do with myself.

I don'lt want to go out because I don't want to be part of big crowds but I get sad and lonely staying in. I'm angry all the time and jealous and I've just become such a horrible person and I'm losing everyone around me.

I had like 32 gbs of data on my family computer and my mum has accidentally deleted it all, and for the past two days I've been desperately trying to restore it but I've had no luck at all and it's ruining me. I've lost 2 years of photos, over 10,000 photos, GCSE course work and also revision notes I have spent hours working on and just so many files and songs I've written and everything, it's all gone and I just don't know what to do. I'm in shock and I keep thinking about it and I want to do is cry and I just can't believe it and I feel physically sick

please don't tell me that I should've backed up my data bc I know and it doesn't help and it makes me feel worse and I just don't know what to do

There is this boy that I talk to online. I really like him but recently he has been acting cold towards me and doesn't always read my messages when he is online. I have asked him if he is mad at me, he says he isn't but idk if I believe that, I see him talk to other people on twitter but he chooses to ignore me. I think I'm being cllingy and ugh its making me so sad bc he makes me so happy

I made friends with this boy on twitter and I have been talking to him almost everyday for the last 3 months. We have so much in common and get along so well and he's one of the most wonderful people I've ever spoken to and he's just amazing and I just fancy the pants of off him but he is like a 12 hour car journey away from me and I've never met him and I just like him so much and is this bad or good? Do I do something? Do I tell him?

I will not stop talking to him and please don't lecture me about strangers on the internet. I know he is real, I have spoken to him over the phone and facetime etc.

I have a friend who I know through social networks and recently someone has been harassing him a lot. They have told him that they love him and told him that they hate him and that their life is better without him and that their life isn't worth living without him and it's all a bit strange. He blocked the person but they are using other people to get to him and making new accounts and stuff. He says he finds it annoying but he doesn't want to be mean, even though she is actually mental, I swear to God. What the hell should he do? Like he can't exactly go to the police or anything

I have made a friend online and we have bonded over similar interests and I sent him a CD of an artist that he likes and his parents saw the letter that I sent him and he is in loads of trouble because they think that I am a 60 year old man and his parents are really angry with him and it's all my fault and he might not be allowed to go online as much anymore and I feel so bad and I don't what I can do to help him because I feel like I should since it's my fault

I have a friend that I met online and I have been talking to him pretty much everyday for the last two months and he is so lovely and he likes all the things that I like and I have had the most fantastic time talking to him.

I decided to introduce him to my friends and that was all fine, until he spoke to one of my friends and then he stopped talking to me and I'm glad they are getting along but it upsets me that he is talking to her more and I hate feeling like this because I feel like the worst person ever.

How do I feel less jealous? I like them being friends, I just don't want him to leave me.

I keep seeing things on my facebook and twitter and tumblr of rally horrible images like trypophobia, most recently an image of a boy who got burnt from being on his phone while it was charging or something and i cant get it out my head and i feel really uncomfortable and sick and i feel like im going to cry and vomit and idk what to do bc im panicking

I've been with my boyfriend for like 3 months and I want to begin to take things further but idk how to act and stuff. How do I act more sexual?

I have this male friend that live far away and he doesnt have many friends back home

I think he may like me bc he asked me whether i love my boyfriend and always compliments me

he is so lovely and i love him and he is the sweetest thing ever but i want him to relax around me and not try to over impress me bc he is a little over the top and say im the nicest person ever and it makes me a little uncomfortable. I dont want to hurt his feelings but its a bit too much

I met this guy at a concert and he is so lovely and we are close and its all fine but he live quite far from me so i can't see him on the regular. He doesn't have any friends where he lives and I'm worried about him and I'm not sure what i can say to help. He said he had friends but realised they weren't nice people but now he seems lonely and his life seems quite repetitive, he just works and goes to college. I'm not sure what to do about him. Any ideas?

I am not turned on very easily and it means im not wet enough to take things further and it just ends up hurting. what are ways i can like make myself more wet when i am with him? We havent been very far at all so nothing creepy or embarrassing please

My boyfriend fingered me for the first time today and I didn't enjoy it and it just hurt and I had to tell him to stop.

He isn't pressuring me or anything and i want to take things further but it really hurt, like a stabbing pain.

Why does it hurt so much? and how can I make it so I actually enjoy it?