sara

I love rough sex, in fact I am not one of those girls who needs a lot of foreplays..BUT

this new guy that I am seeing is really big and he is very rough with me in bed...

it was our first night together and he did it 4 times ( twice at night..once in the middle of night ..once in the morning)

...he doesnt do preliminairies..or kiss and hug aftre the sex ..he enters me really hard and its painful

( we partied that night he could have been tired and drunk )

he listened to me when i asked him to slow down..but I just wonder why is he so rough ? does he like me ? is it because he is horney ?

I went on a date, it was great, we both liked each other ...

then the guys started telling me things like "I really like you".."I am looking forward to seeing you"."hi darling"...and I say those things back ..But i think now that he knows I like him, he is giving me a cold shoulder ... ( but still wants to see me )

I shouldn have shown emotion is that it ?

so I met someone on a website, we talked for a week and decided to see each other ...

the guy took me to an expensive cafe on chams-elysee boulevard...after that he took me to a fancy restaurant in the louvre musee and then we ended the night by going to a disco !!

we kissed and touched a little no sex( he wanted to but I didnt let him, he was understanding but tried anyway lol )

and he is eager to see me again ?

this is too good to be true ..no one has ever taken me out like this ??

I broke up with a guy after a 2 year relationship ( we have broken up millions of times but this time I want it for real ..I am done )...he was a good friend but not a good boy friend...

i wanna stay in touch and be his friend ...but when he calls and i hear his voice ..i miss him...

how do i control these emotions? should i try to have less contact but keep in touch anyway?

i mean we have been good friends ..for once in my life , i dont wanna close my eyes over the good time we had..but i wanna get out of this relationship...he is commitment phobia..and likes girls as in plural...

i have been with a commitment phobia guy for two years.

he said it perfectly clear that he does not want to live with me or move in with me, he loves his own privacy.

he hided the relationship from everyone.

he hided me from his parents too.

he is kind caring and the last time i told him i loved him, he said that he loved me too ( and i believed him)

i moved to another city ..

do you think the distance might make him realize that he was wrong and want me back for real ?

cause he seems like he misses me recently..

he told me that he missed my nagging (lol )...

we were great together except for the commitment part that he was not ready..

i loved everything about him..he too loved who i was , my personality

I was crazy in love with a man for two years...we broke up a million times and each time we got back together ( I dumped him and I couldnt stand being without him so I took him back )..I wanted serious relationship..he wanted sex friend thing..and we ended up loving each other but he wasnt yet ready..I asked him to move in with me..ye said no..I asked him to make future plans..he refused..I finally moved in to paris and he is still there in strasbourg...now its been 2 weeks, he is not in france right now..I havent seen him but I just dont miss him anymore...I, who would cry in bed for missing him before...dont miss him at all !!! why ??

I have a sort of long distant relationship ...

problem: the guy likes me but he does not like to text at all (he said he would rather come and see me in person than to text..he said he cannot get to know me by texting)...

so i still want to keep in touch ..we might be able to see one another once in 2 month ...I really like him and I want this to work, this is the right guy for me, I have been dating the wrong guys all my life...

he is not used to going after the girls..he says he likes others to approach him...but I dont want to be the only one who texts or tries to communicate ...

I am 25 he is 33 ....distant: 2 hours and half

it is a distant relationship (I am not sure if I can even call it one).

he likes me but he says he is fed up with girls ( no idea what his ex has done, must had been clingy or pushed him to his limits)

now here I am with a man that I really like and want to be with but he is heartless...

doesnt like texting on facebook, says he comes and visit from time to time...

how do i get him to see me..? dont tell me spend time with him..he can invite me to go see him, but he wont....

been on one date..long distant relationship..the guy comes 5 days per month for work...

cant talk about relationship..it will scare him away...

cant sleep with him either..its too soon (I really want to but its soon right?)

and the guy doesnt seem to communicate with me at all ..only texts back on fb...thats all !!

does he want us to be **** friend? or is he taking it slow?

p.s. it got really hot when we were kissing and he said lets make love !!!

I know he is interested..he couldn't get enough of me..kissed me for 2 hours..but I hate it when he says I always keep a part of me mysterious...is he playing hard to get ?

is it because its a long distant relationship/? he comes to France 5 days per month..we work together somehow....

do I sleep with him?

he lives in Germany, I live in France. he comes 5 days a month to france for work...we have been on one date ...technically we cant have dates given that it is kinda long distant relationship..

he likes me, but he might somehow be playing as he doesnt text me often on fb (our means of communication)

we have kissed like 2 hours ..I dont want to give it up too soon, but since he might not be really ok with long distant relationship , I dont want him to lose interest either....he is coming over this Saturday for dinner

I am 26 ...he is 32

he lives in Germany, I live in France. he comes 5 days a month to france for work...we have been on one date ...technically we cant have dates given that it is kinda long distant relationship..

he likes me, but he might somehow be playing as he doesnt text me on fb (our means of communication)..I texted him 3 times , he answers..thats all

we have kissed like 2 hours ..I dont want to give it up too soon, but since he might not be really ok with long distant relationship , I dont want him to lose interest either....

I am 26 ...he is 32

so I live in france and he lives in belgium.

he comes to my town 4 days a month and we have been on one date (I made the first move )

I have him on fb and messaged him 3 times so far..flirting and teasing...he always answers back but he never sends me any message ....

he hangs out with guys friends mostly and says he gets tired of things (girls) quickly!! (but didnt say no to me when I proposed a coffee)

what do i do to make him more interested ? leave him alone and waits he texts me ? or send messages every once in a while ?

the guy that I have been with for two years is commitment phobia and does not want to commit..I asked him to move in with me: he said no ! he likes his own privacy and not only does not wanna move in but also never wants to marry anyone at all...I asked him to make plans for future so that we could be together in the same place ( we are international student , have the same nationality though)..he doesnt want that

either..he says we should not change ourr life's path for each other and....

i want to be with him no matter where in what situation but he doesnt want that ...

the more I stay, the more it gets diffcult for me cause i love him i cant see my future without him

positive points: he is always there for you, he is mature and kind and he gets every job done ....great in bed

negative points:

1. he doesn not wanna ever get marry to any one !

2. he does not want to ever live under the same roof with anyone

3.he hides you from his family (its has been 2 years now)

4.he doesnt introduce you as his girl friend !!!

5. he doesnt picture you in his future at all..he talks about himself only !!!

basically he is a commitment phobic guy who is selfish i guess

est-ce que vous pouvez me donner les nom des bonne ecoles de coiffure ( CAP ) a paris ?

well , I am a student in france ( my dream country ). if I go to australia, where my sister and her husband live, My mom and dad can come and we can be together...and by going I mean paying a friend for a fake marriage for two years so that I could have the australian visa....

if i stay here, I am alone, its hard to stay here for foreigners...but its my dream country, and my dad cant come to france in case you are wondering....

i just love so much my dad, but I love my dream too....what to do ?

merci pour votre réponse....j ai trouver un site pour nante et st. nazaire mais c est tout ?

we have been together for a year now

he is commitment phobic. wont go out with US public. keeps me away from all his friends most of the time. likes to travel alone or with his friends( others brings gfs but he doesnt )..he spends time with me too but I feel like I am some dirty mistress..i love him and I have talked to him ..he says he is like this and I shoudl not try to change him, he says he does his best, and sometimes he does..BuT he loves so much his freedom..kast fight we had was about him wanting to go on a trip without me cause he likes to go alone ! I just dont get it ..he has got lots of friends (girls)...does he want me for sex ? I mean i guess thats the only thing we enjoy in our relationship ..he does everything but in private with me when no one is around...